I find that the tone on the Internet is really a very strange thing. I surf the web a lot and I find that the mainstream public opinion seems to be like this:
1. If you ask, "Is it too late to start studying at the age of 30 and change the fate of yourself and your family?" ”
The answer is definitely: it is too late, 30 years old is in prime, there are a lot of opportunities, people are not too late to work hard, I use my own counterattack experience to give you an example.
But if you say, "Isn't it hard to find a job at 30?" ”
"35 Is there a high probability that you will lose your job?"
The mainstream answer will tell you that it is difficult to find a job at the age of 30, and the probability of unemployment at the age of 35 is too exploitative. Also, you're 30 and still looking for a job, which has proven to be a loser.
3. If you ask "Is there more opportunity than effort?" Is there less and less opportunity in this day and age?"
That's definitely more opportunity than effort, and opportunities are definitely getting fewer and fewer. One life, two luck, three feng shui, the role of opportunity and choice is far greater than the effort, most people work hard in fact, it is not a fart. Zhou Yi is a good thing, I hope you understand.
But if you "I'm a xx in my early 20s, the conditions at home xx, the road is crooked, is it still useful to work hard?" ”
That would certainly be useful, and there was a high probability that it would succeed.
4. If you ask "Is the curing getting worse?" Is the bottom layer getting less and less chance? ”
The solidification must be getting more and more serious, the bottom must have no chance, the poor should not have children, suffer themselves, and let the children suffer.
But if you ask, "Poor conditions at home, college graduates, during college you know that playing games is wasted, is there no chance now?" ”
That is definitely a chance, college graduates, you can also take the graduate school of Zhejiang University, and there are many ways to get rich, diplomas are useless, and some are opportunities to counterattack.
We live in an era of rapid change, and the division of groups has only just begun, which has led to an increasingly serious and inevitable tear between different positions and ideas in the Internet world.
But at the same time, it also means that the division of the group is far from solidified. If there is no chance, maybe there will be no controversy and disagreement. Hopefully, that day will never come.
In such a special era, each of us as an individual actually has a chance. It's just that each of us independent individuals must see the rules of the world, recognize our own positioning, and make decisions that are most in line with the individual situation.
I saw a sentence before, which is probably to say that today's young people are extremely optimistic about the future of the country and extremely pessimistic about their own destiny. Let us humbly merge into the rising tide of great powers as a drop of water merges into the sea.