A large part of whether a person can succeed comes from how to learn to behave in the world, which is actually the standard of making friends.
We all know that there is this person, who has mastered and summarized the essence of making friends, and this person is Zeng Guofan. He believes that success and failure in life are related to friends, so we must remember to make friends correctly.
As the saying goes, "Confidant in the sea, if the end of the world is nearby", and as the saying goes, "rely on parents at home, rely on friends when going out".
This proverb from the past and the present all explains the importance of friends everywhere, "Choosing friends is the first meaning of life", which is Zeng Guofan's understanding.
Indeed, how to make friends correctly is a very worthy thing to think about.
So today we will talk about friends that can be made and those that cannot be made.
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1. He who wins over himself
People often say that the threesome must have my teacher, which shows that in their own life path, if I interact with people who are stronger than my own, then I can have different gains, be able to learn from each other's strengths, constantly improve myself, correct my shortcomings, and encourage continuous progress.
2. A person of high moral character may be handed over
Those who make good friends are also the last word for us to associate with people of high moral character.
As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
If you are in an environment of high moral character, then your own quality and cultivation will also be infected to a certain extent, so as to continuously improve your own quality and quality, and reach the peak of life.
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1. People with different ambitions cannot be made friends
This is Zeng Guofan's personal experience, the so-called "different Ways do not conspire", if two people do not have the same ambition, then together there is only indifferent quarrel.
Therefore, people who do not have a common worldview, values, and outlook on life cannot walk together.
Even if they walk together, they will eventually part ways, so such friends would rather not make friends.
2. People who follow the tide are not allowed to make friends
The road is long and long, the task is long, each of us is not easy, we live in the present, we all have a grateful heart, and set a great will to stick to it for a lifetime.
And people who follow the tide will only lead us to a deviation, or even go to a crooked road, so we need to always remind ourselves, stick to the original intention, and never follow the tide.
The success or failure of a person's life is related to friends, and we know from Zeng Guofan's remarks that it is rare to meet a confidant in life, and how to make friends correctly is a big learning.
Making friends will be good, filial piety, sincerity, forgiveness, friendship is long, power, wealth, profit is also short-lived. Life chooses the good and friends, and the years turn to stars. Work with morally cultivated people to learn the noble qualities in them and strive to become excellent and the best of themselves!
People often say, "Near Zhu is red, near ink is black", which shows that what kind of friends you make will also affect yourself to a certain extent. Together with the good guys, gradually you are also a good guy yourself, and together with the bad guys, you gradually become a bad guy yourself.
Therefore, we must polish our eyes, choose friends correctly, and achieve "pro-gentleman, far from the villain"!
Zeng Guofan is very aware of the way of making friends, as he said, fully expressing his unique views.
Things are clustered, people are divided into groups, first of all, we must improve our own cultivation, will to a certain extent attract friends like ourselves, therefore, if we want to make high-quality friends, our own cultivation can not be ignored.
Zeng Guofan believes that making friends requires brainstorming and listening without losing hearing. Yes, friends are easy to make, but it is difficult to make friends who will benefit you for life.
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