I just like to make friends with excellent people, that is, I like to be friends with people who are more educated, knowledgeable, and intelligent than myself. I think smart people aren't necessarily good, but they definitely have their own shining points that you don't have. If you are lucky enough to meet great friends, be sure to catch them, because they will make you start to be excellent.
I have to say that some people have jealousy when they see people who are better than themselves, and they think that people are actually nothing remarkable, nothing more than a little higher education, a little more money than themselves, to put it bluntly, is not just an ordinary person, what is there to envy.
In fact, you have to learn to understand a person at a deeper level, why is he more educated than you? Why make money more than you would? Why are you more capable than you? In fact, there is a reason, others have a shining point that you do not have, he has a high degree, indicating that he will read, good grades, will make money because of the high education of the brain, smart, strong ability shows that he knows how to deal with the world.
Some people will say that things are grouped into groups of people, and I am not good enough myself, so why should I make friends with these excellent people? Those good people are basically not in the same circle as me. This question is why you can't tolerate good circles.
First of all, any high-paying profession has a fixed circle of friends, such as the financial circle, the lawyer circle, the doctor circle, the IT circle, the teacher circle... They all have their own fixed circles because of their professions, but in addition to occupations, everyone also needs to have a life entertainment circle, because after work, everyone will unload their identities and return to free ordinary people. At this time, you may be on the subway, on the bus... When you meet them in other public places, you may meet them because of a common denominator.
The most common in Shanghai is the hometown circle, such as Zhejiang people in Shanghai, Hangzhou people in Shanghai, Huzhou people in Shanghai... Everyone in these circles is a fellow countryman, and there are people with different professions in the hometown, some of them are lawyers, some are college teachers, some are company bosses, and some are just ordinary college students... Originally, everyone would not be in a social circle, but because of such a group, you met a lot of people who were better than you. You will find that in this group, everyone usually does not talk about work, only about life. How to improve the quality of life, will share a variety of the latest and strange insights, everyone has done the sharing of information resources, so that you feel that the original life can meet unexpectedly.
For example, if you like fitness very much and often go to a gym to punch in, then most of the friends who can go to the gym are people who have time and spare money and have higher requirements for themselves. At this time, you can look for anyone who knows more about fitness than you, and you can ask them for advice. For example, if you recently enrolled in an English class, I think most of the people who can apply for the English class have relatively high requirements for their own ability, and you can learn more from people who are stronger than your English speaking ability.
Finally, to sum up: the first condition for wanting to make friends with excellent people is that you must have a common circle, the circle is really important, as long as you are integrated into this circle, the next things you work hard, whether you can achieve a leap, it depends on your own creation.