The Analects have clouds: "The ways are different, there is no common goal, there is no common goal cooperation." ”
Saying that it is difficult for people with different interests to be together, two people try to disagree.
The so-called literary theory books, Tuliaf, pigs, this is the truth.
As the old saying goes, "Birds are grouped, things are clustered, and birds are grouped." ”
It is difficult for everyone to escape their own circle, or similar taste or penetration, in short, to understand the vicinity of a person who can understand a friend, this is the method of minimal error.
Interpersonal communication is a very profound knowledge, many people think that as long as they work hard enough to make friends, this kind of thinking is only theory, in fact, want to make friends with a person will make them interested in themselves, or produce admiration.
Because of its good way of pleasing not call friends, acquaintances but unequal relationships.
Peer relationships are the most important, there is a saying "no fight no acquaintance", the United States in each other to understand each other's strength, and then have adoration psychology, such friendships than unilateral compliments.
There's a book called The Law of Attraction that when one concentrates one's thoughts in one area, you'll find that the spheres of people and things in question will run.
Attraction is a magic, like a horse's dream, the desire to be stronger can stimulate people to realize that what kind of person you are, it is easy to attract the same people.
A man's mental image, together, will unconsciously imitate behavior
I have a friend who chased stars from the previous year, and only less than half a year has changed the whole person, for health care an elegant hair that does not know when it will become refreshing short hair, dressed by energetic fans of the knowledge lady trend, there is no suspense she chases a vibrant new star, so the drastic change itself, the opening route is infinitely close to each other.
I've heard people say that interest is the best teacher, love is the most powerful strength test, this is really, what one thinks doesn't want oneself to become conscious, what one hates even ends up with every hair of the body full of rejection.
Everyone's magnetic field is different, some people seem to be loving, some people are decided alone to alienate each other's magnetic field and temperament, like or dislike most of the time at a glance.
Time is like a sieve, checking everyone around, like-minded people are always with you, destined for this life, just like ugly flowers can attract butterflies, delicate flowers can make bees.
In the world, it was his own best connection
There are words of love, it says, "Do not go after a horse, a horse grass, until today, there will be a herd of horses whatever you want."
Don't deliberately please a person, have no time for friends for a while, to improve your virtues, until the time is right, there will be many friends with you.
Being friends with humans is only a temporary feeling, and being attracting friends with virtue has been a long time.
Enrich yourself more powerfully than pleasing others. ”
Most of the good life is quiet because it can make people progress, but from another point of view, it is a step backwards, learning to be alone, content to be alone is at a high level, rather than insistent, down-to-earth and diligent than itself.
Zhang Ailing said: "I want you to know that in this world, there is a person who will always wait for you, no matter when, no matter where you are, no matter what, you know, there is always such a person." ”
Each of us is alone, from the beginning to the present, from the present to the future, to truly understand you, after all, only your own heart.
That year, 43-year-old Li Bai spent a pot of wine in the moonflower, and after drinking, he said: "Cheers, invite the moon, the shadow is divided into three." ”
He was lonely, at that time all his relationships and the moon were only reliable as reflected in the moon chart.
Everyone's loneliness is different, not telling is the normal situation, you want to know the best connection in the world, only yourself, because no one will be willing and less capable than themselves, unless the other person has some special attraction, if not talent is economic, all the problems are the use of relationships.
"Easy to dry Chinese classical" has clouds: "Simultaneous corresponding, sympathetic."
Wet water, dry fire. ”