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A truly happy woman is never married or not, and a woman's happiness comes more from her own conditions. Su Hei once said that a truly happy woman must have the following conditions: have independent thinking ability, a full spiritual world, and economic independence without relying on others.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >: the ability to think independently</h1>
I never think happiness has anything to do with marital status. A person's happiness is related to their own conditions, especially the quality of the woman herself, you know, sometimes even if you win the whole world, you may not be happy.
True happiness first comes from the ability to think independently, and women's independent thinking does not come from others, but from judgment and thinking about life.
Cai Kangyong once said that you are very important. Because you are all you can have. You exist, the whole world exists. You can see the sun, the whole world can see the sun. You lose balance and the world loses balance. You disappear, the world disappears. So you are important, you are all you can have.
For a person to have the ability to think independently, the first thing is to learn to respect their feelings, because your feelings are unique. When you can respect your feelings, you will see a different world.
Secondly, in order to have the ability to think independently, we need to learn to listen to the views and opinions of others and improve our own dimensions of seeing the world.
The ability to think independently is not behind closed doors, whether we are communicating with others or reading, it can help us expand the boundaries of thinking, and it can also make us out of the narrowness of ourselves.
Independent thinking is never to maintain our own point of view from our own point of view, independent thinking is that we have seen the diversity of the world, developed our own thinking angle and point of view, and can let us see the essence of the world at a glance.
For example, there was a time when the theory that reading was useless. Many people will give examples, some people have not read books, still mix well.
But what you may not know is that even if they don't read, it doesn't mean that they are not studying, they are also in the university of society, the essence of reading is not to let us read dead books, reading is to train us to think about the system, so that we can see the truth of this matter more quickly than others.
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<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, the full spiritual world</h1>
The fulfilling spiritual world that determines the second factor in a woman's happiness. The spiritual world is different from the material world, which is constructed by the spiritual world.
All the tangible objects we see in the world come from the results of the thinking of the human spirit. If we want to make ourselves happy, we are not making ourselves more materially sufficient, and material greed and desire will corrode our motivation and desire for spiritual growth.
The full spiritual world is the nobility of the living soul. When a noble spiritual world is possessed, his world is not filled with material desires, but with compassion for the world.
Because you understand, you are compassionate. The rich spiritual world means creating life from the source of life, and it also means building one's own spiritual barrier in a complex world.
Rene Liu once said that she and her mr. Zhong have their own study. Every time the two men finished eating and greeted each other, they went back to their respective study to stay with themselves.
Their feelings are greasy and not crooked. It is precisely because they have each other's spiritual world that they will know how to respect each other and not disturb each other.
A happy person who knows that people are different from each other. I can share my happiness, but I understand that my happiness comes more from the joy of my heart.
When your spiritual world is richer and fuller, you will not depend on a person, but will explore deeply in the world of the self, which is the source of our happiness.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > third, economic independence does not depend on others</h1>
A woman's happiness is also closely related to economic independence, and a woman's economic independence will have a greater confidence in life. Financial independence is the key to a woman's independence.
When a woman is not financially independent enough, she will be afraid and uneasy in her heart, and she will not have the courage to bargain with life. I have seen many women who are trapped in unhappy marriages, but still can't escape, and the most fundamental thing is that they don't have the capital to survive.
Therefore, they had to constantly compromise and grievance, and endured their husbands' mental violence against themselves. For a woman to be happy and to have enough capital in her marriage, remember that at a young age, you have to work hard for the life you want.
No matter what your origin is, your efforts and efforts are fundamental to improving your own destiny. If you don't have a good family, your efforts will improve your destiny; if you have a better family, your efforts will earn you better respect.
I have said in many articles that women, whether married or not, should not give up the improvement of survival skills, we all need to support our own skills, which is the basis for women to live proudly.
Women's financial independence is not to be arrogant, but to choose the life they want. Women need to understand the truth that happiness comes from their own efforts and struggles, and your financial independence can give you more choices.
Whether a woman's true happiness is never determined by marriage, but by having these three conditions, and the more you have these conditions, the more vast and free your world is.
Today's topic: What do you think is determined by a woman's happiness? Welcome to discuss and exchange.