"Sima Changqing" once said: "Once Liang Yuan returned from frustration, no one knew that there was a genius." "Throughout the ages, the genius elite is everywhere, even if the genius is in the world, attracting the attention of the world, but after the genius fell, it will eventually become a great regret of the times."
For students in modern Chinese society, the gaokao is the most important exam in life. Since the resumption of the college entrance examination, there have been many champions in the examination hall of China's college entrance examination, and they have become the pride of parents and teachers with excellent results, and the inspirational stories of many champions have also become classics praised by the world.
However, in our society, not all college entrance examination winners can get a happy life. Once, after graduating from Beihang, a college entrance examination winner "nibbled the old" for nine years without working, and in the face of such a situation, his parents also asserted that he had a brain problem. Who is this college entrance examination winner who is so invisible? Why did he live such a depraved life?
The fallen college entrance examination winner is Liu Qi, who was born in the 1980s. As a rural child, the living conditions of Liu Qi's family are not very good, and in such a difficult environment, Liu Qi also decided to study hard and strive to repay his parents as soon as possible.
By understanding Liu Qi's childhood life, you will find that his growth process is not smooth. Because Liu Qi's grades were better, his parents decided to go out to work and earn more tuition and living expenses for Liu Qi. For Liu Qi at that time, although he was still young, he did not want to be separated from his parents, but due to the needs of real life, Liu Qi also had to become a left-behind child.
In the process of his parents going out to work, the old people in the village would often joke with Liu Qi, saying that their parents did not want him. Although in the eyes of adults, such words are not worth believing, for the young Liu Qi, the jokes of the old people in the village have also left a deep psychological shadow for him.
Although Liu Qi was not happy, he did not give up studying. Although the teaching conditions in rural schools are not very good, Liu Qi can stand out from his peers and become a genius in the eyes of teachers. In the more than ten years of study, Liu Qi has always been among the best, and his teachers and parents have great expectations of him.
In the end, after the 2002 college entrance examination, Liu Qi, who had excellent results, took the middle school entrance examination. At that time, Liu Qi instantly became the focus of the villagers' attention, and many parents also took Liu Qi as an example, allowing their children to learn from Liu Qi and strive to become an excellent bully like Liu Qi.
Logically, with Liu Qi's score, he could have been admitted to Tsinghua or Peking University, but in that era, the state required graduates of these two colleges and universities to go to the western region to work for five years. After learning of this, Liu Qi's parents persuaded Liu Qi to give up applying for Tsinghua Peking University and choose other schools. In the eyes of Liu Qi's parents, they could not bear to let their son go to the western region to work. After some selection and comparison, Liu Qi finally became a member of Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics.
With Liu Qi's ingenuity, his undergraduate study career has been smooth, and he should have a bright future after graduation, but after graduation, Liu Qi's job search road is not smooth. During this time, Liu Qi's parents were very anxious. Unable to find a stable job, Liu Qi could only eat the old man at home.
Although Liu Qi can look for some jobs that are not limited to academic qualifications and experience, such as security guards, for a high-achieving student like Liu Qi, he does not want to do those ordinary jobs, over time, the contradiction between Liu Qi and his parents is getting bigger and bigger, liu Qi's parents have also admitted that they think that Liu Qi has a brain problem and is not a normal person.
Because he could not accept the son of the former Champion, but now he is at home to eat the old, Liu Qi's parents even took him to a mental hospital for examination, but in the eyes of the psychiatrist, Liu Qi has no mental illness, and there is no substantive difference between him and normal people.
Affected by the shadow of childhood, coupled with the contradictions with his parents now, in the nine years of staying at home, the relationship between Liu Qi and his parents has become more and more indifferent. Based on the negative emotions in his heart, Liu Qi was even more reluctant to go out to find job opportunities. On weekdays, Liu Qi will use the knowledge learned in the undergraduate stage to make some small inventions to pass the free time at home.
Once, in the process of being interviewed, Liu Qi admitted that the reason why it was difficult for him to find a suitable job was also because the university major was relatively unpopular. Now, he has also accepted reality and begun to prepare resumes to look for jobs, in which case the relationship between Liu Qi and his parents has also eased.
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From Liu Qi's tragic story, it can be seen that the reason why the former college entrance examination winners will fall to this place is also due to the shadow of childhood and the lack of family education. It can be seen that in the process of educating children, we should also pay attention to children's mental health problems.
Nowadays, with the improvement of people's ideological level, many parents can realize the importance of all-round education of children, and I believe that under the influence of Liu Qi, more parents will pay attention to their children's real life problems and avoid more estrangement with their children.
Reference: "College Entrance Examination Winner Liu Qi"