In 2002, Liu Qi, a hunan scholar, scored 654 points in the college entrance examination, which became a local college entrance examination champion in one fell swoop, which caused quite a stir at that time, and his parents were also honored because of a "college entrance examination champion" at home. Almost everyone is looking for the reason for his success, and TV stations and reporters have interviewed this humble nobleman. Everyone expects this talented teenager to contribute to the country.
But what is unexpected is that as a highly educated person, he did not look for a job after graduating from college, and even locked himself in a room for nine years, without contact with outsiders. In this issue, Zhou Shao said that he will take everyone into the legendary life of Liu Qi, the 'old man'.
Liu Qi was born in 1984 in a small village in Hunan Province, a very ordinary family. As the only son in his family, he was given high hopes when he was a child. Surprisingly, his parents sent him to school, and his ingenuity was suddenly revealed, and almost everyone was fanned by this cute and intelligent child.
As a farmer's parents, there is not so much income, think about the future expenses, in order to let the children get better educational conditions and living conditions, the father resolutely went to the city to work. However, due to the lack of technology and no education, although they are frugal and frugal outside, the money earned is not much, but what makes the father happy is to hear the child's proud results.
Since elementary school, Liu Qi has been a prominent figure in the school, with good grades, and he is a proper 'other person's child' in the eyes of others. Not only that, but he also constantly increased his experience by participating in competitions and extracurricular activities, almost all of which were conquered by his diligence. The award-winning project activities are basically countless, and parents can't help but be very proud to see their children so good, and their hearts are more determined to 'hope for Jackie Chan'.
In junior high school, Liu Qi's expenses began to increase slowly, although the father has gone out to work, but think about the future of the child's education costs, has been accompanying the mother next to the father also work with the father, just so that the child has a better educational conditions and living standards.
And the young Liu Qi had to be placed in the uncle's house, so that Liu Qi became a left-behind child, although he had the care of his uncle, but it was very unfavorable for a teenager to grow. He began to become withdrawn, did not like to talk to others, studied almost often alone in the classroom, and he almost did not participate in any activities except for the competitions that the school let him participate in. This situation has not attracted the attention of parents and has continued.
Excellent results, eager to learn, these two points are vividly reflected in Liu Qi. The three years of high school study made his ability improve, until the college entrance examination in 2002 suddenly made him appear in front of people's eyes.
Born in the cold door, he finally became the local college entrance examination champion with a score of 654 points in the college entrance examination. For a time, all the media and television stations began to report his deeds. The title of 'Hanmen Guizi' is almost always used to describe Liu Qi, and such achievements have made most people begin to envy and find ways to learn about him.
This result was said to have allowed me to enter Tsinghua University for study at that time, but because I wanted to work in a remote area after graduation, my parents strongly refused. The reason is that after graduation, they have to suffer hardships, feel sorry for their children, and do not want their children to suffer. Finally, under the consultation between his parents and Liu Qi, Liu Qi chose to apply for the Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics and successfully studied.
Subsequently, Liu Qi left his hometown and stepped on the train to Beijing, carrying the expectations of his parents and the world at the same time. No one knows how he feels at this time, and he should be very excited in retrospect, but unfortunately no one knows his future plans, which may have something to do with his personality.
During his college years, Liu Qi lived up to expectations and successfully completed his studies. In June 2006, after successfully graduating, he also joined the army of "employment and job hunting" at that time, and he had no social experience, and he also learned some rules of society on the way to job hunting. As a former college entrance examination champion, he also has the academic qualifications of famous schools, and these halos are the advantages that ordinary people cannot surpass in both school recruitment and social recruitment.
In the end, Liu Qi was hired by a large enterprise in Shaanxi, which was a good start. But unexpectedly, he felt that the salary was the reason, and proposed to the company to resign, ready to go to other cities to find another way to develop. However, in the next four years, Liu Qi went to Guangzhou, Shanghai and other places to find work. However, due to the wrong professional, no work experience, and poor interpersonal skills, it has not been possible to find a suitable job.
In 2011, Liu Qi, who was running to a job in a developed city, was physically and mentally exhausted, taking the opportunity to go home for the funeral of his grandmother, wanting to adjust his state during this time, his parents saw such a decadent son, very anxious, began to persuade bitterly, and even found a 'security' job for him in his hometown, which completely angered Liu Qi, quarreled with his parents, and even said that he did not want to work.
With the intensification of the contradictions between the two sides, Liu Qi hid in his room all day and was isolated from the world, and his mood was getting lower and lower, and his will was depressed, and he simply stopped thinking about going out to find a job, but locked himself in the room, and no one called the door open. Liu Qi's parents suspected him of a mental illness and even tricked him into taking him to a psychiatric hospital for seven months of treatment. This situation has occurred 4 times in nine years, which is also a gap that the two sides cannot cross.
In order to make Liu Qi wake up, his parents thought that the power of the media could help them, so they informed the reporter. But after investigation, what is the reality?
At the beginning, the communication between the reporter and Liu Qi was not smooth. Liu Qi's silence and uncooperative behavior made Liu Qi's father furious, raised the wooden plank in his hand, and was about to beat Liu Qi. In this way, Liu Qi once again hid in his small room, through the window, and began to accuse his parents of not being so many years old.
Finally, under the persuasion of relatives, Liu Qi agreed to go to the hospital for examination, and the results of the examination also made everyone breathe a sigh of relief, and the original doctor believed that Liu Qi's symptoms could not be regarded as mental illness, but only as a personality change. You can skip the hospitalization and take medicine at home.
Back at home, Liu Qi took the initiative to take the reporter to his small house and showed him the small inventions he had studied over the years, it turned out that in these years, he was not idle, he taught himself electrical technology and thought that he could go out through this discipline to find a good job in the future.
After so many years, how has the former 'Cold Gate Noble Son' been jokingly called 'Nibbling on the Old Champion'?
Through the reporter's report, it is not difficult to see that Liu Qi has actually changed his personality, and it is said that he is still studying and seems to have returned to his original campus life. With a regular daily schedule, he found a way to calm himself in his studies, that is, to learn various knowledge. This, perhaps, sounds a little sad for him! But such a result is also caused by the loneliness of his own personality, and it is also lamentable for a while.
From the former college entrance examination to today's old yuan, such a change, the improper handling of parents is certainly one of the reasons, but more often because of Liu Qi's willfulness, using his own future to gamble, which is not responsible for his future, but also a non-serious attitude.
In fact, I have found that we have many such children in life, and they often don't want to go to school because of some bad things in school, and their future is not taken seriously. At this time, parents should correctly guide their children and not collide with them head-on. At the same time, it is also necessary to help children establish lofty ideals and ambitions from an early age, accompany children more in education, and promote children to establish a positive attitude towards life and a sunny personality.