Through this book, we can witness an ironclad fact: "As important as a marriage certificate, the quality of paper marriage determines the color of a golden marriage." "The hero and heroine of the book are creating a successful paper marriage demonstration model for our readers outside the book.
Every family has a difficult scripture, no one should envy anyone, carefully manage their own life, open the way in the mountains, build bridges in the water, and use wisdom to live out the excitement of life.
"Paper Marriage" all says that the year after marriage is "paper marriage", what kind of paper is this paper? Sandpaper, rice paper, toilet paper or kraft paper?
Gu Xiaoying, a "post-80s" girl, used her personal experience to show readers the trivial life of the year after marriage: after marrying Guan Tong, the secretary of the Provincial Party Committee General Office from the "Phoenix Man", Gu Xiaoying found that whether it was the living habits and ways of thinking of the rural in-laws, or Guan Tong's hobbies and behavior habits as a government official, or even the attitude of the two towards career and family relations, there were more and more differences... In this run-in period full of contradictions and misunderstandings, Gu Xiaoying was sad and desperate, but fortunately, she never gave up.
Again and again quarrels reconciled again and again, she gradually learned to tolerate, learn to understand, learn to communicate, when they finally held hands and stumbled all the way through this newly married years, Gu Xiaoying realized: Originally, marriage is not only a state, but also a kind of wisdom.
"Paper Marriage II" At the age of 28, Gu Xiaoying was most afraid of hearing that enthusiastic people asked "is there any news?" However, the matter of having children is really "having the heart to plant flowers and flowers", the more it is not hairy, the more anxious it is, so it is even more impossible to "unintentionally plant willows and willows"; it is also this year that Duan Fei and Xu Xin began to kiss each other again and again - a divorced woman and an older leftover woman, the happiness they want is so simple, but who can give? After going through countless hardships, Gu Xiaoying finally got what she wanted, became pregnant successfully, and began the "good time" of living with her in-laws, walking through the arduous journey of conceiving in October in various types of fighting wits and courage; Xu Xin fell in love with countless blind dates, but then she knew that from love to marriage, the most difficult thing to conquer was actually her inner fear of "siege"; Duan Fei, who had gone through all the vicissitudes, finally found a reliance, but as a divorced woman with children, how difficult it was to be recognized by a new family?
This is the story that belongs to Guan Tong and Gu Xiaoying. Two people meet, the next few decades to live together, contradictions and friction is certainly unavoidable, in fact, every pair of people who go from love to marriage are not so through such a run-in period. The brilliance of this book is not about what kind of vigorous love. Instead, the book describes more of the problems and frictions that you and I may be experiencing in ordinary times. There are too many things to predict, and only two people who support each other can walk together for a lifetime!
After reading the first part of the paper marriage, followed by the second part of the paper marriage. There are a lot of marital resonances in the book.
The contradictions, struggles, and strengths seen in the book are like seeing myself all the way through marriage. Sure enough, paper marriage is not just a year after marriage, but a lifetime, we need to take care of each other, pay each other, stumble through the support.
When the years precipitate, when the light changes, when love gradually transforms into affection, it is better to say that I love myself than I love you - because you have become a vital part of my life and emotions, so to be kind to marriage and love is to be kind to ourselves.
Life is indeed a place of chicken feathers, but you still have to find poetry and far away places for yourself from this place of chicken feathers. Marriage is probably really a wall, people outside the city want to go in, people inside the city want to escape, each shining in their own chai rice oil and salt.
A very realistic novel, the Qing officials are difficult to judge the family affairs is this truth, whether it is marrying a phoenix man or marrying a book Xiang Mendi, there are all kinds of contradictions and troubles. The so-called "marriage" is not a happy ending for everyone, but a process of struggling hand in hand. "That's all too right, this is a summary and distillation of the reality version of marriage.
All kinds of real and trivial things in marriage require wisdom and skill, and marriage really needs to be managed. How many people come together from love, but when the big and small things in the marriage will wear out the love, a marriage will come to an end. If you can meet a person who is willing to lower their posture, take responsibility together, encounter difficulties together, face and solve them together, how lucky it is to be able to understand each other. No matter what happens, only one side strives, the other side is not moved, and the fire of the most prosperous will be extinguished one day. There is no education in marriage, there is no distinction between the nature of work, no matter what kind of work you do, at home is the wife, is the husband. Marriage is how to save love in the bumpy center of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.
"Paper Marriage" is also a good guide to new marriage, marriage must be faced by two people together, and one can grow together to last!
In marriage, there is no best, only the most suitable, may all people who believe in love, as desired, find the most suitable person, and hand in hand for a lifetime!