On December 7, 2008, Hong Kong media exposed a group of photos of celebrities sneaking up on nightclubs.
The heroine of the photo, not a showbiz person, is only a sophomore at the City University of Hong Kong.
The male protagonist of the photo is Ni Zhen, known as a talented man, at that time, he had a girlfriend, Zhou Huimin.
Everyone is waiting to see, will Zhou Huimin forgive this flowery boyfriend like countless times before?
Four days later, Zhou Huimin issued a statement saying that the two broke up after 19 years of love.
The crowd cheered: Finally broke up, it made sense.
Unexpectedly, after another 7 days, the two announced that they had registered for marriage.
If Ni Zhen, who has always been uncertain, has made the public feel strange about sneaking in nightclubs, then this marriage statement is really shocking the world.
As "men's most ideal girlfriend" (Yi Shu evaluation), Zhou Huimin is talented and beautiful, why does she tolerate her boyfriend cheating again and again, not only did not break up, but also got married?
But Zhou Huimin herself said, "My partner can definitely afford to make this mistake" and "In this world, no one is better to me than Ni Zhen." ”
In fact, Zhou Huimin, who is gentle and weak on the outside, is actually stubborn and firm in her heart, and she always knows what she wants most.
01
In the winter of 1967, Zhou Huimin was born.
This year, Zhou's mother was 43 years old, and Zhou's father had died of a heart attack a few months before his daughter was born.
Since birth, Zhou Huimin has not seen her father, and the mother and daughter are dependent on each other.
Dad was very righteous and charitable, and there were many friends around him.
But since his death, all those friends have disappeared.
A woman with a child could not afford to pay the high rent, so her mother had to take Zhou Huimin and live in the Kowloon City Walled City, which is known as the city within the city.
This belongs to the three no matter the zone, the fish and dragons are mixed, and there are all kinds of business.
Xiao Huimin is in such a room, from childhood to see the hardships of her mother to work several jobs, she is particularly sensible and independent.
When she went to school, her mother rarely had time to take her daughter out to play, and Zhou Huimin was a little angry, because her homework was not finished, and she did not want to disrupt the plan.
Mother is tired every day with back pain, when she comes home, she does not like to talk, and she has no patience to speak, in order not to let her mother worry, Zhou Huimin learned to take care of herself at a very young age.
She has had opinions and ideas since she was a child, and once she decides things, she will not be easily affected by outsiders and changed.
This personality also runs through her work and marriage.
In 1985, the TV station's annual singing rookie competition began, and Zhou Huimin also signed up, but did not achieve the ideal ranking.
At that time, Zhou Huimin had just graduated from middle school, her mother strictly required that she was not allowed to fall in love when she went to school, and when other female classmates were keen to dress up and someone chased, Zhou Huimin buried her head in study all day, plus a little adolescent obesity, wearing thick black-rimmed glasses.
Singing is also not professionally trained, just in the stage of interest.
Such a level and image, the name of the fallen Sun Mountain is also reasonable.
Mom knows that it is not easy to make money in the entertainment industry, and it is dangerous for a girl to enter this circle, hoping that she will study well, go to a good university in the future, and have a good job.
However, what Zhou Huimin wants to do, even if it fails, she must try again.
Fortunately, the next year, another opportunity came.
02
In 1986, Chow wai-min registered for the Radio Television Hong Kong Amateur DJ Competition and won the second place from thousands of selections. After a period of professional study, he became the host of the radio program "Symphony of Youth" the following year.
I have been a radio host for one year and have accumulated experience.
By 1988, Zhou Huimin signed a contract with TVB and became a TV presenter.
Together with Huang Kaiqin, he hosted the hit program "Jinge Golden Song".
In the same year, the company tailored the movie "Three People's World" for Zhou Huimin, which made her nominated for the Academy Award for Best Actress that year.
The film was doing well, and by the end of the year, the company had her on record.
As soon as the record was released, the sales were gratifying, and it also won the good results of the gold record of the year.
At this time, Zhou Huimin simply quit her job at the TV station and signed with Polygram, the most well-known record company at the time, and went all out to enter the music scene.
1992 was Zhou Huimin's harvest year.
This year, several works she broadcast have won a good reputation, especially with Lan Jieying, Liu Qingyun, Guo Aiming starred in the TV series "Big Time", playing "Little Jew", this role also allowed her to break the "vase" impression in the eyes of the audience.
At the same time, she signed a contract with Fu Mao Records and let Taiwanese audiences know her with a song "Rumors".
The new Cantonese album launched in Hong Kong, in which the song "If You Know My Pain" composed by Cheung Kwok Wing was popular across the Taiwan Straits and the three places as soon as it was launched.
From a young age, Zhou Huimin is a very strong person.
While singing, she learned to write songs herself, not knowing whether she would be selected by the other party, she wrote five songs in a row for the other party to choose, and in the end, she selected three.
And singing her own album, her character advantage also played out.
Singers who signed contracts in the same period are waiting for the agency to arrange, and the company thinks that you meet what image and what song is suitable for you, so it will let you sing what song.
Unlike Zhou Huimin, she cooperated with Zhang Guorong in the film "The Legend of The Blue River", and the two became friends.
After that, Zhou Huimin took the initiative to call Zhang Guorong and invited him to help him write a song, so that there was "If You Know My Pain".
Zhou Huimin knew Li Keqin when she was a radio host, and the two were very good friends.
Li Keqin wrote the lyrics of "Favorite" to Zhou Huimin, she found someone to compose, until now, this song has also become one of Zhou Huimin's song masterpieces.
In 1994, in addition to acting on the album, Zhou Huimin also held 8 solo concerts, four each in Taiwan and Hong Kong.
Songs, dramas and shadows bloom in an all-round way, showing the image of huizhong and fresh and unworldly, Zhou Huimin was rated as one of the top ten healthy image artists, and from then on, her name will be crowned with the title of "Jade Female Leader".
Just when her career was in full swing, Zhou Huimin suddenly announced her withdrawal from the show business circle.
Zhou Huimin has repeatedly stressed that since her debut, she has been filled with work, and she has not had a day off when she was busiest for more than two years, and she did not even have time to read newspaper news, and she did not know what was happening outside, and she felt that she was out of touch with the world.
In 1997, the tenth year of her debut, Zhou Huimin announced at a concert held on the other side of the ocean that she had decided to quit the circle and enjoy life well.
03
Zhou Huimin, who has a smooth career, has many twists and turns in her feelings.
When Zhou Huimin hosted a radio program, she met and fell in love with musician Chen Dezhang.
Two young people, when doing the show together, have no scruples, often flirt openly, and hold hands at the table.
When he was in love, Chen Dezhang said that he had found someone to calculate his fate, and Zhou Huimin was a princess, and he must marry early to be happy for a lifetime.
Zhou Huimin also agreed to Chen Dezhang's marriage proposal.
Two young people who have just started their careers, there is no savings, take all the money out, ready to provide a house, who knows that shortly before the wedding date, Chen Dezhang listened to friends speculate in foreign exchange can make money, and the house cost was lost.
The marriage of the two people broke up and broke up.
By 1989, Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen had met together to host "Modern Times".
Zhou Huimin admitted that the first time they met, Ni Zhen gave her a bad impression.
Because Brother Gongzi's Ni Zhen acts exaggeratedly and frivolously, and speaks and does things somewhat aggressively, this in front of the gentle Zhou Huimin, he feels that the other party is too strong and does not like it very much.
Therefore, Zhou Huimin did not want to take care of him, but the two people working together, it was inevitable to contact, Ni Zhen said a lot, so that people had to pick up.
After talking, I found that I was in love, plus Ni Zhen, the talented son, who was best at writing love letters. During the pursuit, he wrote countless love letters, and finally touched the hearts of the beauties.
Not long after, the two fell in love, and in 1991, they announced their relationship.
Before they were together, Ni Zhen and the great beauty Li Jiaxin fell in love, and as a result, Li Mei chose to become popular, and there were too many suitors around him and broke up with Ni Zhen.
Caizi is sentimental, and after being with Zhou Huimin, Ni Zhen's "love" that is too many to be placed in nowhere has not converged.
In 1993, when Zhou Huimin was busy with work, Ni Zhen took the big beauty Chen Farong, Hong Kong is so big, the news is closed, it is impossible not to know.
Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen broke up for the first time.
After the breakup, Zhou Huimin fell in love with Liu Ximing, who signed a contract with TVB in the same year.
One is tall, handsome and elegant, and the other is both talented and gentle, but it is also very well matched.
Although they had broken up at this time, the young and vigorous Ni Zhen, with a burning fire of jealousy, openly denigrated Liu Ximing through the magazine he founded, "YES!", calling him "cancerous tumor Ming".
Ni Gongzi's writing is not comparable to that of a cadre of people in the entertainment industry, adding oil and vinegar, a magazine came out, and for a time Liu Ximing's wind evaluation fell to the bottom, and the love affair with Zhou Huimin could not continue.
Liu Ximing was hit hard by this as soon as his career emerged, and he was depressed to the point of suicide.
After a period of adjustment, Liu Ximing had to go away to Taiwan to develop, until many years later, Liu Ximing responded to the incident, saying that Zhou Huimin personally called him to apologize.
After the breakup, Ni Zhen also had a different opposite sex around him, but Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen were still friends, and the two of them met often.
After a few years of being friends, I found that the two were still more suitable for lovers.
They were all young and energetic before, busy working with each other, and could not understand each other.
This time, Ni Zhen stopped the magazine that was doing well and began to pursue Zhou Huimin.
In 1996, the two were reunited, so in 1997, the tenth year of entering the industry, Zhou Huimin chose to quit the show business.
At that time, Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen went to Vancouver, Canada, away from the hustle and bustle of Hong Kong's entertainment circle, and began a leisurely world of two people.
In 2001, actress Yao Lebi, known as the "Little Princess of the Ball Field", published a book, and Ni Zhen wrote a preface for it.
The preface acknowledges that the two were in love and that their words were more explicit.
Not long after, Yao Lebi, in order to promote the new book, exposed ni Zhen's love letter to her, which included a sentence: "If you are not, a vigorous love, I will sacrifice my life to accompany you." ”
But this time, Zhou Huimin did not think about it, and the matter passed like this.
In 2003, after living in Vancouver for six years, the two returned to Hong Kong.
04
In 2006, zhou Huimin came back at the invitation of many parties to open a concert on animal environmental protection.
On stage, Ni Zhen wore a leopard print costume and transformed into "Zhou Huibao" (the name of Zhou Huimin's cat) to propose to Zhou Huimin, and a group of friends on the stage were inexplicably moved and shouted "marry him".
Perhaps knowing Ni Zhen's temperament too well, Zhou Huimin did not agree to propose because of his touch, but asked, "Wear so much, are you hot?" ”
Sure enough, Ni Zhen repeated the trick and split his leg again.
On December 7, 2008, photos of Ni Zhen and female college students secretly having fun in a nightclub were exposed.
In the following days, Ni Zhen always shed tears in the interview, claiming that he was not worthy of Huimin last week, and he wanted to break up, and he had no face to ask for a reunion.
This time, Zhou Huimin did not put up with it, but quickly cut through the mess and broke up.
But the breakup statement was written in particular, "One person's problem, two people to correct; one person's frustration, two people to bear." ”
"My partner, absolutely can afford to make this mistake".
It's not so much a breakup declaration as it is a confessional love letter.
A few days later, Ni Zhen suddenly announced that the two people had registered for marriage.
The melon-eating masses who are still immersed in the scolding of scumbags do not understand how the goddess suddenly changed her mind and got married?
Some people say that Ni Zhen ate Zhou Huimin and wanted to indulge, claiming that he had made mistakes many times and had no face to ask for a reunion, just when Zhou Huimin wrote a breakup declaration thinking that he really wanted to lose him, he suddenly proposed marriage and succeeded.
And Zhou Huimin herself responded that she quit the show business circle not because of love, but because she felt that there was only work and no life, because she wanted to rest, not because of someone who made this choice.
Nowadays, the choice of marriage is the same, both people are in their early 20s, have known each other, have been in love for 19 years, and have long been the existence of relatives.
The two people influenced each other, and now they are another version of Ni Zhen.
Just like since I debuted, I will always have the same makeup, always be black long hair, and my hairstyle has never changed, because I am used to it, I am too lazy to change.
Just like breakfast must eat coffee rolls, more than ten years are this habit, friends have advised, you can try other flavors, Zhou Huimin does not want to try, because "changing other is not necessarily better than the current one." ”
And she wanted to quit the circle, Ni Zhen stopped her job and accompanied her to live in Canada;
In Canada, Ni Zhen can drive for a long time to help her buy it, and sometimes she doesn't know what she still wants to eat, so she buys all the flavors back and lets her pick.
As an only child, growing up in a single-parent family, Ni Zhen is the best person for herself except for her mother.
Although the Hong Kong media once again ridiculed Zhou Huimin after the marriage, they once again forgave Ni Zhen, who was huaxin, and said that the marriage should be like Li Jiaxin (Li Jiaxin also married in 2008), and never learn from Zhou Huimin.
But Zhou Huimin, who has been independent and autonomous since childhood, seems gentle and weak, but in fact she is stubborn and strong in her heart, she once said that she was "hard enough to be a revolutionary party", so she would not care what the media commented on and what the outside world said.
She always knew what she wanted.
After marriage, Ni Zhen also divided a lot, lace news is also less, Zhou Huimin also frankly said that she will always put her husband in the first place, and some things in the past will let it pass.
Now 54-year-old Zhou Huimin, occasionally held concerts, she is still the glorious image on the stage,
The rest of the time, she lived a leisurely life, competed in watercolor paintings, and won the first prize;
Played billiards with Ni Zhenxue and won the third place in the women's competition.
Life is the same as feelings, and she is the one who has always dominated.