How crazy can a woman be for a man?
In October 2020, some media reported that a woman over 60 years old met "Jin Dong" through Douyin.
"Jin Dong" expressed his admiration for him and was willing to buy a car and a house for her to spend the rest of his life with her.
As soon as the news broke, it attracted countless attention.
This woman is desperate for "Jin Dong", not only sleeping in a separate room with her wife, but also threatening to divorce, abandoning her husband and abandoning her son to prepare for love.
However, after the police intervened, she learned that the "Jin Dong" in her mouth was just a dummy synthesized by a computer, a tool used for fraud.
What is jin dong's charm that makes sixty-year-old women desperate for him?
01
Jin Dong was born in 1976 in Jinxiang County, Jining City, Shandong Province, to a very ordinary family.
Jin Dong's father works at a local supply and marketing cooperative, and his mother is a full-time housewife.
In Jin Dong's memory, his parents always quarreled over who had paid more for the family.
Jin's father felt that it was not easy for him to work outside the home and earn money to support his family, and his mother felt that it was not easy to take care of the housework at home and raise three children.
The two sides have their own opinions, and often quarrel over this matter.
One day, her mother returned home with a somber face, and when she returned home, she began to pack her things, and she said to Jin Dong: "Mom and your dad are divorced." ”
Although the young Jin Dong could not understand what this sentence meant, he also knew that it must not be a good thing.
After that, the mother left the house with her sister, leaving Jin Dong and her sister to live with their father.
Due to busy work, Jin Dong and his sister are taken care of by their grandparents.
The old man always treats his children in the next generation, that is, in such an environment, Jin Dong's personality has not gone to extremes.
Jin Dong's grandfather began teaching him the Three Character Classic when Jin Dong was a child, teaching him to write traditional characters.
Perhaps he was influenced by his grandfather, and to this day, Jin Dong is still accustomed to using traditional chinese to speak on social media.
In Jin Dong's upbringing, her sister has always played a strict role.
When he is too naughty to learn and others fight, his sister will come forward to "teach" him.
It is precisely because of this severity that Jin Dong has been able to grow up healthily in the living environment of a single-parent family.
Although family education did not drag Jin Dong back, Jin Dong did not go all the way up like today's students.
After graduating from a secondary school in his hometown, Jin Dong stepped into society early.
Because his education was not high and he had no experience, Jin Dong began to try various jobs.
He worked as a waiter in a bar, but lost three months' salary for knocking over an expensive bottle of red wine.
02
After that, he also tried to use his advantages to find a job.
Jin Dong likes to sing, so he ran to the song hall to become a resident singer.
But obviously the boss he met was not a "great benevolent person", Jin Dong was busy all night, his voice was dumb, and he only got a salary of eight yuan.
Because of his meager income, Jin Dong had to work two jobs in the morning and evening, and his salary of more than one hundred a month was barely able to support himself.
Despite this, Jin Dong was not satisfied in his heart.
One day, Jin Dong met his own Fa Xiao, who happened to work in the film and television circle.
Fa Xiao saw that Jin Dong was more than one meter and eight tall, with good facial features and a handsome appearance, and suggested that he become an actor.
At that time, Jin Dong did not have any concept of actors, but just asked: Is it fun?
So with the attitude of "playing", Jin Dong began his acting career.
In 1993, Jin Dong participated in his first TV series "Oriental Merchant".
After this, the unknown Jin Dong could only run the dragon set in the major drama crews and play some small roles.
Sometimes for a few lines, he needs to pay a lot of hard work.
But although he was tired at work, Jin Dong seemed to have found a hobby other than singing- acting.
In 1998, Jin Dong co-starred in the TV series "Mother" with the popular actor Yue Hong, playing Yue Hong's son in the play.
That is, this drama has allowed Jin Dong to enter the public's field of vision, and he has officially debuted.
Jin Dong, who lacked formal education since childhood, naturally could not avoid taking some detours.
With the popularity of the TV series "Mother", Jin Dong realized that he was already famous, and he could not help but be a little proud and complacent.
In his spare time filming, Jin Dong will invite his "fox friends" to the bar to drink and bungee, spend a lot of money, and indulge in the bar all day long.
He was even reported by gossip reporters for drinking and causing trouble.
Teacher Yue Hong, who had worked with him, couldn't bear to see a good seedling of acting fall into self-destruction like this, so she found Jin Dong to talk.
Yue Hong reminded him that he should study more, make up for the lack of his academic qualifications, and not waste his talent in acting.
After talking with his predecessors, Jin Dong also woke up like a dream, determined to go to professional colleges and universities to study and improve himself.
03
After searching, Jin Dong decided to apply for the Central Academy of Drama.
But here, he faces a conundrum that he can never solve through hard work.
In 1999, at the age of 23, Jin Dong planned to apply for the Central Academy of Drama.
Although the Central Academy of Drama welcomes people with dreams and ambitions to apply for the examination, the premise is that the age is not more than 22 years old.
Obviously, this threshold cannot be crossed or changed for 23-year-old Jin Dong.
In the process of examination, Jin Dong was rejected by the institution because he exceeded the age of applying for the examination.
But in the end, Jin Dong was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama with his excellent test results, which became a precedent for "older admission".
As an elderly freshman, Jin Dong worked very hard in school, sleeping only for more than five hours a day, reading more than 400 plays in four years, serving as a cadre in the student union, and watching Broadway performances at his own expense.
Rich learning life and acting experience have gilded his acting skills.
When I graduated, there was a seemingly great "opportunity" to take the initiative to find the door.
At the beginning of 2000, China's idol industry gradually emerged, and small fresh meat stars such as the Little Tigers were very popular.
That's a career that many theater school students dream of, and Taiwan Province is the leader in this industry.
After Jin Dong graduated, a well-known Taiwanese producer approached Jin Dong and asked him if he would like to sign up for him, promising to train Jin Dong into a well-known idol.
Jin Dong, who had just graduated from college at that time, was not as mature and stable as he looks now, and was a proper image of small fresh meat.
But Jin Dong refused this great opportunity.
In Jin Dong's view, although he has a face of a small student with a pink face, he has the heart of an old cadre.
Although the idol Xiaosheng sounds very seductive, it is not challenging, and this kind of face-to-face role cannot satisfy his inner desire to act.
After rejecting this offer, Jin Dong began his acting career again.
04
Some people have said that to engage in art, you have to endure loneliness, and Jin Dong is no exception.
After graduating from the Central Academy of Drama, Jin Dong plunged into the crew and began to hone his acting skills in non-stop filming.
In addition to Jin Dong's nominations for awards such as the Huabiao Award in 2004, Jin Dong's career is in a seemingly bottleneck stage.
During this period, he also participated in some popular TV series, such as "Wenzhou Family" and "Breaking into Guandong".
Even the screenwriter of "Breaking into Kanto" commented on Jin Dong: Jin Dong's role in the play Kameda Ichiro was originally a small role, but under Jin Dong's interpretation, this role has a soul.
The screenwriter admired his acting skills so much that he said he would write him a script for four hundred scenes.
But even so, he still did not explode, and his efforts seemed to hit the cotton, to no avail.
His career is stagnant, but Jin Dong's feelings are constantly changing and developing.
When participating in the filming of "Sad Mother and Child", Jin Dong met the well-known actor Jiang Shan.
In the play, Jin Dong plays the son of Jiang Shan, perhaps lacking maternal love since childhood, jin Dong has a good feeling for this "mother".
At the beginning of their acquaintance, Jiang Shan and her husband Gao Shuguang at the time were on the verge of divorce, and the two could not manage the relationship well because they had been filming for many years.
After Jiang Shan's divorce, the crew had a good feeling for each other and naturally walked together.
Jiang Shan was born in 1967 and Jin Dong was born in 1976, and people say that there is a generation gap in three years.
In this way, two people separated by three generation gaps eventually walked together.
It is also because of this relationship that Jin Dong was said by the media to be a person with a "Oedipus complex".
Although Jin Dong did not care about the media criticism, nor did he dislike Jiang Shan's second marriage and bring a child, this child hated him.
Jiang Shan's children were very repulsive after seeing their mother and a man other than their biological father together, and repeatedly wanted to break up the two to make their parents break the mirror and reunite.
In such an embarrassing situation, the relationship between the two lasted for five years.
When Jiang Shan tried to persuade her daughter to accept Jin Dong and the family went to the United States, the girl's fierce reaction had to make the two reconsider the relationship.
Jiang Shan is first a mother, and then the other half of Jin Dong, and when faced with the dilemma of choosing her daughter or choosing Jin Dong, her mother's nature makes her give up Jin Dong.
Jin Dong also believes that it is too cruel to let a mother and daughter break up for a relationship, and in the end the two are separated.
Their love affair is not only not supported by their daughters, but even the public is also very unoptimistic about this "sister-brother love".
At that time, Jiang Shan was famous, but Jin Dong was not, so this relationship was naturally not favored by the public, and there were rumors that Jin Dong's family was also very opposed to this relationship.
After the divorce, although Jiang Shan was obsessed with Jin Dong, she was forced to think in her heart out of necessity.
Jin Dong fell in love with Jiang Shan at the age of 30 without success, but at the age of 34, he met the person he had been with all his life.
During this time, Jin Dongdu has always been in a tepid state, and he obviously has a lot of time to take care of his emotional needs.
Jin Dong and Li Jia also fell in love because of the drama.
In 2010, Jin Dong and Li Jia cooperated in the filming of the TV series "Youth Does Not Say Defeat", and this year was also the year that Jin Dong and Jiang Shan broke up and Li Jia divorced.
In the crew, Li Jia, whose marriage has just failed, met Jin Dong, who was the same year as her, but the heating up of the feelings of these two people is not in the play.
At that time, Li Jia, who had just divorced her ex-husband, re-entered the show business circle and started her own career, but due to the pressure of restarting filming and the pain of the last relationship was not smooth, Li Jia's mental state was not good.
In order to forget her troubles, she often drank and drunk, and at this time, jin Dong was always by her side.
During a filming process, Li Jia accidentally fell and was admitted to the hospital, and Jin Dong did not send simple greetings like ordinary colleagues.
On the contrary, he often cooked soup for Li Jia, greeted her warmly, and took care of her until she was discharged from the hospital.
In this way, Jin Dong's meticulous care also touched Li Jia, and the two established a romantic relationship.
But obviously, Jiang Shan, who experienced the last second marriage, the elders of Jin Dong's family still did not look favorably on the relationship between the two of them, and Jin Dong's parents and grandfather had persuaded Jin Dong.
But Jin Dong was afraid that Li Jia, who had experienced a hurt once, would not trust himself, and he resolutely stated his position many times, ignoring the world's vision.
After a period of love, the two successfully obtained a license to marry in 2013.
In the same year, the duo's TV series "Youth Does Not Say Defeat" was also successfully released.
With the broadcast of the TV series, the audience found that the words and deeds of the two people were simply a pair, so under the interrogation of netizens, the two officially announced that they had married.
With everyone's blessings, the two have a very stable relationship and have two children.
However, Jin Dong's career has not been cultivated like feelings, but this is not a setback in life at all for him who has worked in catering, sung in residence, and worked in factories before his debut.
He still takes care of himself, in his view, filming is a kind of enjoyment, filming brings him whether it is income or other is far better than before.
After all, the effort will not be disappointed, in 2015, "The Pretender" was released, and Jin Dong also completely exploded with the role of "Ming Lou".
Ten years of grinding a sword's acting skills allowed him to withstand the test of the public, and since then, Jin Dong's acting career has blossomed all the way and gradually become a household name.