Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, not by not being repaid, the time has not yet come.
The cause you sow today is the result you get tomorrow; the result you get today is the result of your efforts yesterday.
Many people like to stare at others and blame others, but rarely take the initiative to see themselves. A person's eyes can see the spots on other people's faces, but they can't see their own noses.
Evil has evil retribution: A person encounters the following six things, most of which are self-inflicted evil consequences, and need to be vigilant in time. Knowing mistakes can be corrected, and good deeds can be great.
01
Children become losers, mostly as a result of their parents' doting.
Many parents like to complain: "My children, really bad, do not know politeness, do not read well, and spend money indiscriminately." ”
Why are other people's children very sensible, but their own children are not? Could it be that someone else's children, gifted and intelligent, can succeed casually?
In fact, every child is a genius, but the parents' education methods are different. How to love children is a science.
Someone said, "Scrap a child and give him a cell phone." ”
If the child becomes a loser, it is mostly the result of parental doting, unconditionally agreeing to the child's request, allowing the child to develop "bad habits".
In the process of growing up, the child has not encountered the "rejected thing", and he will become more and more willful and become a person who cannot be disciplined.
02
Others call you "Lao Lai", but in fact, you have done something that you borrowed money and did not pay it back.
If you walk on the street, there are also people pointing behind their backs and feeling chills in their backs. Generally speaking, it's not that someone else has a problem with their eyes, or that someone else is jealous of you, it's that you're "notorious."
With the development of society, more and more lao lai has been made public. Lao Lai's photos can be seen everywhere and are still remembered.
No matter whose money it is, it is all hard earned by themselves, not by the wind. In the future, when you meet people who borrow money, you should have an extra eye and never deal with Lao Lai. Beware of Lao Lai has become the consensus of many people.
Have you ever borrowed money and not repaid it? If anything, quickly change your image and insist on being an honest person.
03
You don't have a single friend, it's your own way of dealing with the world that's problematic.
People often complain: "When people reach middle age, they don't have a single friend." ”
But what's the use of complaining? You really can't blame others for ignoring you and not helping you.
It is a matter of affection for others to help, and it is natural not to help. If you don't have a "relationship" with someone else, then others will certainly not help you.
If you want to meet a true friend, you must take the initiative to help others and insist on doing good deeds. When you are kind all your life, you will not lack friends, even if you are very poor, you will meet noble people.
The people you have helped, after getting rich, will still remember your goodness and will pull you in turn. This kind of human affection is rare and precious.
04
You have achieved nothing, in fact, you have not worked hard enough, you have insufficient ability.
Fate is fair to anyone, and if you complain every day that fate is unfair, it means that you are a person with no ability.
In the workplace, some employees are incompetent, but they want to occupy better positions, get more wages, and if their wishes are not realized, they are indignant and even resign immediately.
When starting a business, some people do not have a skill, but they want to make a fortune, or they move too fast, resulting in a full loss. If the business fails, you will not blame yourself, but blame the society and blame the people around you for not being good enough.
All successful people have some "little known" stories behind them, and it is sad to say them.
No one succeeds casually, you don't accomplish anything, you just don't work hard enough; you are not valued in the unit because your ability is not suitable for higher positions.
People mix in society, we must remember that "things come out for a reason", not for no reason to encounter setbacks. Although you work hard and practice kung fu hard, one day, the work will naturally come to fruition.
05
Others always avoid you because you have too much negative energy.
An unwelcome person is not deliberately ostracized by others, but your own refusal to associate with others.
For example, on the unit, no one ever invited you to a party. You are of your own making. In the past, colleagues often invited you to parties, but you kept refusing, leading colleagues to think that "this person is not a good fit and will not go to the party."
Positive people will find circles of positive energy and stay away from circles of negative energy. If you want to improve, you should be a positive person.
Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped. Don't think it's a good thing to be out of place, and don't think that being alone is a sign of a successful person. Your heart is full of sunshine, you are always on the uphill road, others will naturally come close to you and move forward with you.
06
Husbands and wives part ways, not the other person is wrong, but you have made your own mistakes.
What is a couple? Husbands and wives are people who are noisy and noisy for a lifetime; husbands and wives are people who hold hands once and never let go of their hands for the rest of their lives; husbands and wives are people who grow old together.
But why are you divorced? When you divorce, you will most likely attribute all your mistakes to the other party.
For example, when you get divorced, you find that the other party does not pay attention to hygiene, does not work hard to make money, does not know how to care for parents... You can list a thousand reasons for divorce, and it's all the other person's fault.
When a person is accustomed to being self-centered, he will defend himself at a critical time, magnifie the shortcomings of others, and cover up the advantages.
Some couples, always fighting each other, actually forget each other's goodness, and turn the beauty of love into a contradiction after marriage.
One thing can be said to be white, but it can also be depicted as black. Couples divorce, often "black and white", reasonable and unclear.
If you are used to carrying responsibilities and taking the initiative to bow your head, it is estimated that the probability of divorce will be much smaller. Take the initiative to take responsibility for mistakes, change yourself, and amplify each other's advantages, and the marriage will be happy.
If you want yourself to have good luck, you try to be better; if you do evil, you are doomed to bad things.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.