"Sing any song when you go to the top of the mountain!" Reading all day, and reading what analects" make people think how tall you are! Hearing my colleagues around me say this, the first reaction was indeed a little uncomfortable, and even felt a kind of anger, but soon, my heart returned to calm.
To be a person who goes with the flow is relatively unintructed, but you must not be the person you want to be.
Everyone has everyone's different pursuits, everyone has everyone's own life dreams and goals, you should never choose to be a big crowd in order to cater to others, in order to cater to others to give up their own pursuits, their own goals, their own choices.
Going with the flow is a kind of cowardice, a kind of irresponsibility for one's own life.
On the way to find the best self, there will be obstacles, there will be jealousy from others, and there will be problems. No matter what the reason, we should not use it as a reason and excuse to give up on ourselves, be righteous, hold our heads high, and insist on doing a good job as ourselves!
Don't be afraid to be different, and don't easily doubt yourself when you encounter objections.
Of course, it is also particularly important to let yourself enter the excellent circle, with excellent people, with a group of people with positive energy, mindfulness, and righteousness, you are easier to grow, more likely to succeed, but the premise is that you do not go with the flow, you have to dare to work hard to become that outstanding person, become a unique person in the crowd, you will have the opportunity to enter the circle of excellence.
The road to success is really not crowded!