A letter to my father

There is a song that sings like this: "It is said that the adoption of children and daughters is to prevent old age, but you always say that you have a good life, hard work to raise me, but I did not do filial piety around you, you must take good care of yourself, wait for me to become your pride, watch your black hair turn white, I am afraid that you will not be able to wait." ”

Yes, calling a mom and dad to have someone answer is more important than anything. Filial piety to parents is the legal responsibility and obligation of every child, but also the chinese civilization for 5,000 years to inherit the idea, since ancient times there are "loyalty and filial piety, benevolence, righteousness, wisdom and faith" saying, "loyalty and filial piety" is the most basic, loyalty is the foundation of the country; filial piety is the foundation of the family. “

Parenting grace of parents is irreplaceable, no matter what kind of right and who is wrong with our parents, if there is a violation of the law, it should be punished by law, if there is a moral and ethical error, it should also be resolutely corrected, criticized, condemned, etc., but these should not become the reasons for us not to honor our parents, from the moment we are born, our parents are destined to be our parents who have no choice in our lives.

Today, as a father, I can also feel a hint of bitterness in being a father. But as my father, he has experienced too much, I did not understand my father before, when I was young, my father was still young, now I understand, I am also a father, but my father is old, with deep wrinkles. I have very little talk with my father, the generation gap is very obvious, and there is no intimate body language, but I am always his son, he is my father all my life, I don't want to say my father's fault, that is because I have long been deeply stung in the depths of my heart, but he has always paid for his three children, trained us to study, try everything to find a job for us, although he did not give us the minimum property, but this can not deny that he is still our father. Over the years, I have witnessed my father's journey all the way, he; started from scratch, once; career Tengda, the road; the waves, the end; nothing, now; the heart knot is still lost and visited four times until the lonely hometown, I often remind myself deep inside that "my father has nothing in the end, I can only understand...".

Today, a 70-year-old man, in the face of difficulties did not fall, even if he was in pain, he still insisted on returning to his hometown, in fact, I know in my heart that he was ruthlessly "beaten back to his hometown", which has too much bitterness... From Yilong to Jiuzhaigou, he led his hometown relatives and friends to create a world, more than 40 years in a flash, he could not talk about the triumph, but on October 14, 2020, alone, late at night! late at night! late at night! From Jiuzhaigou, where his dream began, and even more where he did not have a place to calm down, a man took a coffin filled with too many dilapidated debris, and spent the night trying to avoid inspection, until he returned safely to the old house covered with weeds...

He did not stop, with tenacious perseverance to continue another of his dreams, with only a few tens of thousands of yuan, began to renovate the old house, and planted tea, pepper, citrus, cherry and many crops around the house, but also raised chickens, fish, bees, etc., he seems to be able to do anything, he often said, he will weave bamboo back trembling, bamboo fan, pickles, salt vegetables, etc., he is more proud to say "this is the unique work that my mother has inherited to me." I thought to myself, he is really better suited to be a farmer's son.

Therefore, each of us is a child of our parents, and we will become the parents of our children in the future, and we have more understanding and tolerance for the rest of our parents' lives, so that they can spend their old age as safely as possible. I write so much because I want to proudly say "Father, you are a successful man!" Dad, I'm not going to be a father like you." Now, in the face of my children and daughters, I have to learn from my father's strengths, so that my children can deeply appreciate the power of fatherly love and the warmth of motherly love. To inherit the love of the father and the love of the mother, we must first learn to be a good child. Parents do not need holidays, birthdays, as children, filial piety and gratitude to parents is the best holiday for parents! It is enough to make a phone call, say one more greeting, and take time to go back often.