I am the root of all problems, when encountering problems, first start from yourself and find your own reasons?
Why are you so unhappy, at this time you assume that if you live alone in this world, you can not live your life well. If you can't live your life well when you're alone, your work, your family, and every aspect of your relationships will be unsatisfactory.
Why do you always meet scumbags. First of all, see if you yourself have filtered the scumbag's physique. Scumbags use routines to give warmth, sweetness, and love. If only you could give this to yourself. And with enough sanity to discern these, the scumbag may meet once. But it doesn't happen again and again.
Why do you always change partners but still feel unhappy? The novelty is to explore the unknown with the old people, rather than repeating the mistakes of the past with one new person after another. When you change partners again and again, maybe you should change yourself.
Love is the answer to all questions.
All your failures are actually teaching you how to love.
If you work for responsibility, you will feel more and more tired, and responsibility will consume your energy. But love is energy.
For example, you can try it and see the following kind of words that make you feel tired, and the kind of words that make you feel powerful.
A: I have to support my family! I have old and young! So I can't be unemployed, I have to work hard every day.
B: I love my parents and children, I love my home, and I work hard to give them a safe haven. I also feel mentally secure because of them. We are each other's warmth. So I'm going to work hard.
In fact, if you look closely at people, you are actually looking for love all your life, when you were a child, you obeyed in order to get the love of your parents, the love of your teachers, the love of adults who pursued the love of their partners, the respect of society, and the love of friends and colleagues. You will find that the appearance you seek may be success, power, fame, fame, but at the heart of the end is love.
