Today, I inadvertently saw a documentary on Tencent Video called "Miss Venus".
Venus, originally the woman I admire most in the world, what I admire is not her poisonous tongue, but the state of life that she lives out of herself.
Not to mention her artistic achievements as a dancer, nor to say her star aura as a popular host, to say that she wants to be a man to be a man, and to be a woman when she wants to be a woman, which is the reason why I have always liked her since a long time ago. But one of the passages in this documentary still surprised me, she told a small story she personally experienced.
It's about one year when she was in Belgium, when she was taking a taxi home at one or two o'clock in the morning, the taxi driver who was carrying her asked Venus to help him masturbate.
This kind of thing, most women encounter, I believe without exception, will see this as a sexual harassment incident. And that taxi driver, presumably, will definitely suffer insults and counterattacks, even if he is dealt with by the police, it is not too much.
But Venus, after a stunned, actually promised him, not only helped him complete, but also intimately took a T-shirt to wipe the driver after finishing the work.
Later, the driver took her to the door and said that she didn't want to pay for the car, which I think should be an expression of the driver's sincere gratitude to her, but she still gave the money, saying that these are two different things.
I was touched by the many details she told, she said that the driver was very fat, fat took off his pants and belly was stretched on his legs, and he couldn't find his genitals.
She told the driver that he was begging her, that he knew she was a good person as soon as he saw her, and would give him this kind of help that was somewhat difficult for a strong man. She said that the driver had not done it for a long time, and was eager, but he couldn't do anything about himself.
And the driver also had asthma and had to take a deep breath of asthma medicine before doing it.
The tone of her speech was full of respect for man's biological instincts, and infinite pity for the fat driver's inability to achieve this instinct for physical reasons, and what was even more miraculous was that the whole process she described did not make people feel the slightest color of sex.
She simply wants to help this instinct within her power, and does not expect anything in return.
Isn't that admirable?
People who do not have the courage to cross the world dare not do it, and how can a good person who does not integrate into the marrow of the bone do it?
And Venus is a person who has both the courage to transcend the world and the goodness that is integrated into the bone marrow.
People like her, even with poisonous tongues, are cute.
People like her, but after returning home, they did not have the joy of ordinary people after helping others, but wanted to cry, she did not elaborate on the reason, but only mentioned the loneliness of people.
Yes, life is lonely, lonely, lonely, the world is bustling and lively, but people's hearts are separated, suspicion and defense are everywhere, fame and profit are everywhere, roommate, husband and wife turn against each other, brothers and sisters, parent-child abandonment is not uncommon, this is not only to make people feel lonely, but also to make people feel cold and terrible.
It is precisely because of this that the little kindness between strangers will appear incomparably warm and precious.
And such a good deed, which is highly sexual in the eyes of the world, is even more to highlight the great brilliance of human nature.
I think, maybe Venus didn't think so much at the time, she wanted to cry, just simply for the fat driver to feel sorry for it, sighing that although this time helped him solve the physical problem, but in the future days, as long as he lives, he will face this problem repeatedly, but how many times can he meet a good person like Venus?
However, even if he never meets again, this experience should be a rare treasure in his life.
In fact, I wondered with some disgust, if the fat driver had the privilege of knowing one day that the stranger who masturbated for him was actually popular in China, the most populous country, how would he feel, and would he never be the luckiest thing in his life?
Having said all that, I was a little confused.
In the end, I just want to say that the shock this incident has given me is enough to change my view of certain people and things in life, and help me to be less extreme, more objective, less demanding, more forgiveness, less wandering, more brave.
Venus, thank you! From the bottom of one's heart!