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Among the actresses in the entertainment industry, I think Fan Bingbing has a demon qi, Zhou Xun has an aura, Liu Yifei has a fairy qi, and Zhao Wei has a heroic spirit... At the peak of her appearance, Wang Zuxian was a spirit, a demon, but it was a pity that she did not act later.
For the former "four big flower Dan" (Zhou Xun, Xu Jinglei, Zhao Wei, Zhang Ziyi), I once gave this evaluation:
Zhou Xun is not sophisticated in life and in the movie, Xu Jinglei is sophisticated in the movie but not sophisticated in life, Zhang Ziyi is sophisticated in the movie and in life, and Zhao Wei is not sophisticated in the movie but sophisticated in life.
Note that "sophisticated" here is not a pejorative term.
And today's article, I still want to talk about Zhao Wei who is "not sophisticated in the movie, but sophisticated in life".
Zhao Wei's appearance has never had to be said. This atmospheric appearance can be classified as a beautiful woman in any era. I think her appearance peaked, in "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds", although the Yao Mulan she played was not a very pleasing role.
In the past, I thought her acting skills were not very good, and she was a vase-like existence in the entertainment industry; but now that I see more actors who pull the lower limit, I think her acting skills are still online.
In "Auntie's Postmodern Life", she plays a low-level girl, vivid and vivid. In "Dear", she appeared in the film with a vegan face and played a low-level rural woman, which was very infectious.
After Zhao Wei straightened her teeth, she spoke a little vaguely, like chewing betel nut in her mouth. Watching her talk in the variety show, as if to save effort, hate can not be two words into one word to say, but she said the lines will not be like this, the words are very clear.
Zhao Wei's directing skills, everyone has also seen.
The first "To Youth" came out and exceeded my expectations.
Many years ago, when Fan Bingbing was in the midst of the scenery, a master who looked at the picture said that Fan Bingbing's ears alluded to her miserable late luck, and if she planted it, she might not be able to climb up like Liu Xiaoqing. What kind of ears does Liu Xiaoqing look like, and what kind of ears does she look like.
The master also said that Zhao Wei's face was calm and atmospheric, and if she did not take the path of career, business, and literature and art, she would have made great achievements, because she had grown a master's ear.
Later, Fan Bingbing really failed to hold on to those fame and fortune, while Zhao Wei went all the way up, and there was still no sign of paste.
I also watched her on the stage of "Actors Please Take Place" and suddenly found that Zhao Wei is actually a person with a quite pattern. Among several directors, she is the most sophisticated in her speech. Not only can you not offend people, but you can also express your own views and opinions appropriately.
Zhao Wei became popular because she acted in "Huan Zhu GeGe". The Qiong Yao drama she participated in now seems to be slightly retarded, but she has not been circling in this kind of mentally handicapped film and television drama.
I clearly remember that at that time, many people criticized Zhao Wei for being very shallow, and playing a role would only pretend to be crazy and stupid. Zhao Wei's classmates spoke up for her: Then you can underestimate Zhao Wei, when she was in college, she was holding a copy of "The Tale of Genji".
"The Tale of Genji" is a famous Japanese novel, written a little obscure and boring, but the imitation of human nature is still deep, and the average person can't read it at all.
At that time, Zhao Wei's career development was as good as day, but in the middle of it, she actually stopped for two or three years and went to the Beijing Film Academy to study directing. As you know, a star like her, who is a coffee star, may lose a lot of gold opportunities after two years of suspension, but she still has no choice but to learn.
What surprised me the most was her mellow social approach.
I found that there is really no woman she can't figure out, she has the ability to "turn enemies into friends" with all kinds of women.
In 2002, Faye Wong and Zhao Wei jointly participated in "Unparalleled in the World". But the news we saw at that time was: Zhao Wei and Faye Wong were not in harmony.
At that time, Zhao Wei was affected by the "military flag uniform" incident and was plagued by negative news. Everywhere they go, there are a bunch of journalists vying for interviews. Faye Wong stayed in the same hotel with her, inevitably affected, and once lost her temper with Zhao Wei, disgusted zhao wei and attracted a group of reporters, and refused to sit with Zhao Wei.
Later, Zhao Wei took the initiative to apologize and be friendly to Faye Wong. After a period of time together, the two found that they had similar interests with each other, and then they felt sorry for each other and became very good friends.
Under the introduction of Faye Wong, Zhao Wei starred in "Jade Guanyin", which can also be regarded as a turnaround battle.
Faye Wong is a very wayward and casual person, and ordinary people please can't move her, but Zhao Wei can.
In Zhao Wei's film debut "To the Youth We Will Eventually Pass Away", a reporter asked Faye Wong if she would sing the theme song. Zhao Wei replied that as long as I needed, she would definitely come. Thus, there is the classic "To Youth".
Zhao Wei starred in "Hong Kong 囧", and Faye Wong, who had not opened her voice for a long time, also sang "Breeze and Breeze" for this movie.
The relationship between the two has always been very good, often k-singing together. In the interaction of the show, Faye Wong also kicked Zhao Wei's ass, which is a very close and good friend's move.
On the stage of "Actors Please Take Place", two generations of xiaoyanzi shared the stage. Huang Yi also exposed intimate photos of the two on Weibo. Zhao Wei also said on the stage before, Huang Yi was very nervous before going on the show, called her, and she encouraged her to come.
The reason why netizens think that the two are on the same stage is a bit surprising is because there was once Wang Yu between the two.
At that time, Zhao Wei disclosed her relationship with Wang Yu, one of the "four young people in Beijing", but not long after the love affair was made public, the Internet reported a picture of Wang Yu and another "Little Swallow" dating late at night, and the people in the photo could clearly see that it was Huang Yi himself.
Although Huang Yi said that the two did not have that relationship, the photo was ironclad evidence, and later, Zhao Wei really broke up with Wang Yu.
Wang Yu later got along well with Zhao Wei's girlfriend Li Yu, and it is estimated that he also received Zhao Wei's blessing.
Li Yu later died of cancer, and her boyfriend Wang Yu burst into tears, but Zhao Wei did not attend.
I think it's a very clever operation. On the one hand, because she was busy filming "Chibi" at that time, she was very busy, on the other hand, it was because if she appeared, she might steal the limelight, and the media would report on the previous old events and destroy the funeral atmosphere.
A reporter interviewed Zhao Wei, who said: "Li Yu is a very diligent and serious actor. But I didn't expect to have a short life, and I hope that she will go all the way. "
Zhao Wei directed "To Youth", which uses new faces that the audience is relatively unfamiliar with, such as Yang Zishan and Jiang Shuying. Zhao Wei said that Jiang Shuying looked a little old, but she was still enabled afterwards.
The crew participated in a show, Jiang Shuying mentioned this matter, and Zhao Wei responded with a big grin: Huh? Did I say that? It boils down to the fact that I'm jealous of my actress.
This is really a "four or two thousand pounds" response, taking the responsibility on yourself.
Jiang Shuying later said this many times on different occasions, saying that this evaluation had followed her for many years. Some netizens couldn't stand it and directly commented: "What has followed you for many years." If you don't say it, no one will know about it. ”
After "To Youth", Yang Zishan and Zhao Wei terminated their contract, but the two are still very good friends. Seeing each other again in the "Chinese Restaurant" program, it is still intimate.
Last year, Zhao Wei spontaneously created a program on women's topics, "Hear Her Say", which was China's first monologue drama.
This show mainly uses a monologue to give the actor a role, say his helplessness, and show the character of the character.
Zhao Wei praised every actress.
With the top Yang Mi, he also got along very well.
Since her debut for more than twenty years, Zhao Wei has rarely had a bad relationship with a female star, and there is rarely news of pulling on female stars.
At that time, the three flowers of "Huan Zhu GeGe" each developed quite well, and the media once reported rumors of their discord, but Zhao Wei saw Fan Bingbing and Lin Xinru would also take a group photo in a generous way to break the rumors of discord.
When Lin Xinru got married, Zhao Wei and Fan Bingbing also participated.
Looking at Zhao Wei's position, it seems that she can easily become an adhesive. Zhou Xun's big flower, standing with her will not make people feel that the two are competing.
Fan Bingbing and Zhang Ziyi, after filming "Very Perfect" that year, are estimated to be friends. When the movie was announced, the two people choked each other with guns and sticks, and it was very enjoyable to watch the melon eating masses. These two are a bit strong, and when they meet each other, it is the tip of the needle against the edge.
However, we rarely hear that Zhao Wei will have a bad relationship with that female star. Fan Bingbing and Zhang Ziyi, she can do it.
Even, I think she can handle almost all the same sex.
Zhao Wei is famous in the entertainment industry, Huang Xiaoming, Su Youpeng and Chen Kun are Zhao Wei's well-known friends of the opposite sex, Wang Fei, Han Hong, Karen Mok, Na Ying, etc., are her nemesis.
Zhou Xun, Xu Jinglei, Shu Qi, etc., also have a good relationship with Zhao Wei; even some relatively senior stars such as Guan Zhilin, Liu Jialing, Lin Qingxia, etc., also have an iron relationship with Zhao Wei.
In addition, as long as the people she has worked with, she can almost maintain a good relationship with others.
So I said, it seems that there is no woman that Zhao Wei can't figure out.
I've always felt that if a woman is good to the opposite sex, it can't prove that she is attractive; but if the opposite sex and the same sex are very good, this person is extraordinary.
Living in a patriarchal society, in fact, women are very easy to envy women.
Most of the people who call women "marrying donkeys" are women.
Women who scold women are green tea,, scientific, literary,,, and mostly women.
Most of the people who scold women for "having no womb morality" are also women.
How many men have you seen scolding? Very little, right?
The reason why the patriarchal society has been able to continue for so many years is because they are particularly good at sympathizing with each other and dividing women. They also compete, but are extra united in consolidating the patriarchal system.
Sometimes, it is really the women who "you look at me, I am superior and moral than another woman", and they are angry to the point of liver pain.
In the area of gender equality sensitivity, I think women can also be divided into two camps: "male women" and "equal rights women".
"Male women" are more enthusiastic about maintaining the inherent order of the patriarchal society, are more willing to regard women as their competitors, and prefer to "embarrass women".
"Women with equal rights" are more likely to understand the difficulties of being a woman, it is easier to explore the inner strength of women, and they are more willing to understand women, unite women, watch over other women, and join hands to fight against the injustice of the world to us.
Only those who are truly feminine will not blindly regard women as their competitors, but instead know how to unite with the same sex and help each other with the same sex.
In fact, Zhao Wei did a good job of this.
Her feminist consciousness had germinated a long time ago, and she later applied this consciousness to social interaction.
Douban, an author called "Whistle Tooth", once sorted out Zhao Wei's remarks, and we may be able to understand why she has such an attitude towards the same sex.
If a woman can sincerely recognize the same sex, appreciate the same sex, praise the same sex, and do not see women as competitors with her to compete for the resources given by men, I think such women are very patterned and attractive.
This may also be one of the reasons why I have always liked Zhao Wei for so many years.
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A little bit of crumbling:
Perhaps, there are also people who don't like Zhao Wei. But here's how I see it: Maybe she's had some faults too, but that doesn't stop me from trying to learn from her. I love my gender and want to unite as many of your fellow women as possible and help each other. Between women, there should not only be a competitive relationship of competition and jealousy. Men shouldn't be the "resources" we strive to scramble for, they're just our (pig) teammates.
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Author: Yan Lingyang, post-80s, emotional columnist, new feminist author, member of the Chinese Writers Association. He is the author of the best-selling books "Those That Make You Miserable, One Day You Will Laugh and Say It", "May You Let Go of the Past and Be Worthy of the Future", "May You Have a Journey and a Way Out", "I Am Divorced", "There Is No Loneliness in Your Jianghu - An Alternative Interpretation of Jin Yong's Martial Arts Novels" and a children's picture book "Mommy's House, Daddy's Home". With 13 years of experience in the financial industry (management), he is now the founder of a cultural information consulting company in Guangzhou and the co-founder of a cultural media company. Born in Lijiang, Yunnan, he currently lives in Guangzhou. Welcome to pay attention to the WeChat public number: Yan Lingyang Weibo: Yan Lingyang ~