The original meaning of "have something to say well" seems to be well known to everyone, that is, if there is something in the heart, we must say it calmly. Here, it has become the best proof of deep understanding of the art of speaking. These two "good" words, the first "good", is to organize and express what you want to say well before speaking; the second "good" is to achieve the best speech effect. To achieve such an effect, it is necessary to master the skills of speaking, and integrate these skills and use them properly.
Speaking contains many elements, including content, theme, language, sound, object of speech and scene of speech, etc., and the skills of speaking cover the above aspects. Each technique, which appears to be independent on the surface, is in fact closely linked, forming an indispensable cornerstone of the art of speaking.
In response to specific practical needs, people who know and are good at using speaking skills and those who do not understand speaking skills at all will face completely different situations and results. It is no exaggeration to say that the former can call the wind and rain and achieve what they want; The latter can only be cramped and difficult to move.
People who know and are good at using speaking skills can tell a very plain story vividly and touchingly according to their own wishes and practical needs; A person who does not know how to speak, even if it is a very vivid story, comes out of his mouth and becomes dull and tasteless.
People who know and are good at using speaking skills can explain a complex and difficult truth according to their own wishes and the needs of reality, which is easy and simple, and known to women and children; A person who does not know the art of speaking, even if it is an easy and simple truth, will make people feel elusive when they come out of his mouth.
People who know and are good at using speaking skills can depict an ordinary leaf beautifully and fascinatingly according to their own wishes and the needs of reality; A person who does not know how to speak, even if it is a gorgeous and beautiful, fragrant flower, comes out of his mouth, the flower is still a flower, but there is nothing cute about it.
People who know and are good at using speaking skills can touch everyone's heart and be admired by everyone like the stars and the moon; People who do not know the art of speaking can only be alone forever, crawling like snails.
The skill of speaking is not static, and no one's speaking skills are innate, they are self-motivated, continuous learning, and continuous transcendence, and only then will there be a rich and diverse speaking skills.