Recently, I have been fascinated by the novels of P Da, from Tianyake to The Seventh Master to Zhen Soul, which are very exciting. Her novels are not one-sided love affairs, but contain many philosophies of life.
The chapter of reincarnation in the soul of the novel is the most impressive and the most uncomfortable, female college student Li Qian was taken care of by her grandmother as a treasure from childhood, and she had deep feelings for her grandmother, and then her grandmother died of an acute illness, she has been very remorseful, she feels that she did not take good care of her grandmother, did not have time to repay her, paid a huge price to use the holy relic reincarnation dial, divided her remaining life in half to her grandmother, and saved her grandmother. Very touching grandchildren.
Unfortunately, she also ended her grandmother's life with her own hands. Because the grandmother she paid a huge price to save is no longer the grandmother who hurts her and loves her and is familiar with her, and now the grandmother has been demented, smirking, nagging, drooling, dropping rice grains, urinating and urinating, unable to take care of herself, peeing pants, Li Qian wants to study and earn her own tuition and living expenses, but also to take care of the elderly, life is very hard, day after day let Li Qian collapse. So she murdered her grandmother.
This is a realistic and cruel story that tells us three truths.
The first: Don't force what you lose, and cherish it when you have it.
What is demanded must pay a price in order to obtain the corresponding thing. Li Qian paid a huge price to save her grandmother, and finally became a murderer because of the gap between the payment and the return. So don't force what you lose, force it not to come.
We should cherish it when we have it, and in this world, the biggest regret is not to lose or part, but to not cherish it when we have it. As long as you cherish it when you have it, it is not a disgrace.
The second: have a grateful heart and correct your own mentality.
Li Qian's love for grandma is not selfless, she has requirements, the grandma she likes is the grandmother who loves her and hurts her, is willing to take care of her grandmother, not the old man who does not understand anything and needs to spend time and energy to take care of himself, in reality, people are old, they can't take care of themselves and need their children to take care of, we have to correct our mentality, don't hate the old man, be grateful, after all, you raise me small, then I raise you old, this is the most beautiful thing.
Third: the reality is very cruel, parents do not blame their children for filial piety, sometimes it is really not filial piety, it is a lack of spare energy.
In fact, it can be seen that Li Qian is also not easy, she is still willing to take care of her grandmother at the beginning, get up with her grandmother at four o'clock in the morning, go to bed at ten o'clock at night, and make money for herself to study for the elderly, she is really very bitter.
Her admiration for her grandmother has been smoothed out in the daily survival rush, which is like every day in the hospital now, many people are willing to do filial piety for their parents, but in the face of the cruel reality, there is no money to survive every day, just to guard a body that cannot see the hope of improvement and cannot respond, and there are very few people who can do this.
Therefore, parents should also be considerate of their children, sometimes it is really not filial piety, it is a lack of spare energy. Of course, if you have the ability, there is no need to run for life, there are still many normal people who are filial to their fathers and sons, and who are saddled before and after the sickbed. The world is still beautiful.
Therefore, whether the elders are to the younger generations or the younger generations to the elders, we must cherish them when we have them, be grateful, understand each other, and cherish the hard-won fate.