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Filial piety comes first

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"Filial piety comes first, and filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation." What is filial piety? When I first watched the "Twenty-Four Filial Pieties" moral education video, I was moved to tears, today I come to share two of the twenty-four filial piety stories, the first one is "Taste the Dung and Worry", which is about:

During the Southern and Northern Dynasties, there was a man in Southern Qi named Yu Qianlou, who had just been a county commander in Xiaoling County, and had been in office for less than ten days, when he suddenly felt a panic and sweating, wondering if there was something in his family, even if he resigned and returned to his hometown.

Yu Qianlou returned home and realized that his father was very ill! The Great Special Instructed Yu Qianlou that if he wanted to know the patient's auspiciousness, he could taste the taste of the patient's feces, if it was bitter, it meant that there were signs of improvement, and if it was sweet, there was no salvation.

After the doctor left, he tasted his father's excrement, but found it sweet. Ominous omens However, it seems that his father's illness is getting more and more serious, so he kneels in the night to worship the Big Dipper, weeps bitterly, prays for his father, hoping to use his body to help his father bear the illness, and use his life to exchange his father's survival.

However, the wish is good, but the reality is cruel, a few days later Yu Qianlou's father died, Yu Qianlou buried his father, and kept filial piety for his father for three years.

The second "Wenlei Weeping Tomb" is about the Three Kingdoms, when there was a person in the Wei kingdom named Wang Pei, who was very filial. His mother was naturally afraid of thunder, and whenever it rained and thundered, he closed the doors and windows tightly, and once he was playing outside, and it rained heavily, and he couldn't hide from the rain, so he rushed into the rain and went home to find his mother. When he returned home, he looked for his mother everywhere, and finally found the frightened trembling mother under the table, so he immediately reassured her not to be afraid, he would always accompany her.

Many years later, Wang's mother died of a long illness and passed away. Grief-stricken, he buried his parents together, kept the funeral with devotion and deference, and went to the tomb every morning and evening to pay homage. He remembered that his mother was afraid of thunder, and whenever the weather was windy and rainy, as soon as he heard the rumbling thunder, he rushed to his parents' graveyard, knelt down and cried and said, "Son Wang Qi is here, mother, don't be afraid!" He also often cried loudly on the cypress tree in front of the tomb, and the tears dripped onto the cypress tree, and the cypress tree died. It can be seen how great a person's filial piety is! This kind of filial piety that comes from the heart can move all things in heaven and earth. How many such people are there now? If our children are educated by such sages from an early age, can such children be educated? Isn't such a filial child the talent needed by the family and the country? True filial piety to the child, we do not have to worry about his future.

The Analects are written at the beginning

There is a son who says: "He is also a filial piety, and those who are good offenders are rare; those who are not good offenders, and those who are good at making trouble, there are not yet." Gentleman's business, the original and the Tao. Filial piety is also the basis of benevolence! ”

A son said, "It is rare for a person who is filial to his parents and loves his brother, but likes to offend those who are in a higher position; there will be no such person who does not like to commit a crime but likes to make trouble." When a gentleman acts on the fundamentals, establishes the fundamentals, and the Tao arises. Filial piety is the root of benevolence! Some people think that if a person can be filial to his parents and obedient to his brother at home, then he can be loyal to the country when he is outside, and loyalty is based on the premise of filial piety, and filial piety is for the purpose of loyalty.

If you love your parents deeply, you will care for others and love your own country, and only then will there be "self-cultivation and family governance in the university".

In the Book of Filial Piety, there is "Zi Yue: Filial piety is the ultimate, through the gods, light in the four seas, omniscient." "Poetry" Cloud: "From west to east, from south to north, without thought." ”

Confucius said: When filial piety reaches the extreme, it can reach the gods, illuminate the world, and feel communication anywhere. In the "Poetry Classic, Daya Wen Wang Yousheng", it is said: From west to east, from south to north, no one is not convinced.

It was because of his filial piety that Emperor Yao passed the throne to him.

Most of today's children are arrogant and habitual, afraid of melting in their mouths, holding them in their hands for fear of flying, just like the flowers in the greenhouse, they can't withstand half a bit of wind and rain! The best are left to the children, reluctant to let the children work, even if it is to wash a pair of socks to wet the sleeves, wash a bowl to break the bowl, are very painful. All the housework is big, all the tiredness is borne by the adults, and all the good ones are left to the children. Try to save money to buy a house and a car for your children, and leave a large fortune for your children when you leave. These are the root causes of future catastrophes in human society. College and university famous college students have poor psychological endurance, commit suicide if they have a slight displeasure, and do not know how to get along with people.

A truly filial piety person will not commit suicide, because the "Filial Piety Sutra" says that "the body has skin, and its parents do not dare to destroy it", so how can it be because of a momentary unhappiness and seek death and find life? He will not immigrate and be a traitor. Because they love their parents so much, the country! Just like Su Wu shepherding sheep, snow walking in the North Sea! The environmental conditions are so harsh, they have not betrayed their motherland! That is where the classic three principles and five permanent values lie: "benevolence, righteousness, wisdom, gentleness, and frugality, loyalty, filial piety, courage, and honesty." ”

Ten years of trees, a hundred years of tree people. Lay a solid foundation for moral education, inherit 5,000 years of Chinese excellent traditional culture, and start from filial piety!