In 2002, Sun Honglei and Gong Li's scandals flew all over the place, while his legitimate girlfriend Ding Jiali was in pain. Before that, Sun Honglei, who was once a "social youth", had been in the midst of a thousand flowers, and after that, he also had a scandal with Actresses such as Li Xinyu, Zuo Xiaoqing, Yao Chen, Chen Xiaoyi, Susan, Ye Xuan, etc., but in the end he was surrendered by Wang Jundi, a mysterious outsider, and has never appeared in the Pink Dai River and Lake again.
Sun Honglei is not a handsome man in the traditional sense, why did he get so much heart?
One
In 1970, Sun Honglei was born in Harbin to an extremely poor family, so poor that three generations were crammed into a room, and the family often did not see a little meat.
Sun Honglei later recalled his childhood: "My childhood was a kind of poverty that lost its dignity. ”
In desperation, the mother went to borrow money at the end of each month to improve the family's food, and then paid back after the beginning of the month, which was often blinded and despised in the long run.
The indifference and ruthlessness suffered because of poverty caused Sun Honglei to be inferior and rebellious from childhood, and when he grew up, he and the social youth on the street "mixed rivers and lakes" in order to win respect for his family and himself.
Just in time for the beginning of the love sinus, hormones are raging, and he scans every girl who enters his range, and finally targets a round-faced bully.
But he is dark and thin and his eyes are still small, and his family is poor, so he does not dare to chase, so he will engage in a crush.
After Aunt Qiong Yao's several novels were bold, he finally plucked up the courage to start acting.
Every day, when it was time for school, Sun Honglei would follow the round-faced xueba far away and escort her home, rain or shine.
And he was also dreaming in the graceful back.
Suddenly, one day, the round-faced scholar found him and said, "You are sick, why follow me!" ”
In this way, Sun Honglei's love budded and was ruthlessly crushed.
How to relieve worries? Only breakdancing!
Since then, Sun Honglei has taken dancing as his own life-saving straw to fill the dark and lost juvenile period.
Two
In 1987, the gears of fate began to turn, and 17-year-old Sun Honglei won the "Heilongjiang Breakdancing Competition".
In 1988, 18-year-old Sun Honglei participated in the break dance competition again and won the second place.
Sun Honglei has since gone to the fast lane of life, he gave up studying, followed the Chinese break dance star art troupe to tour the country, a performance can earn more than 100 yuan, a month can earn three or four thousand, a year tens of thousands of yuan, which at that time equivalent to an ordinary person's annual income of 50 times.
This allowed his family to get rid of poverty and live a rich life, and he himself became the envy of everyone in that era, which felt like a dream.
Unfortunately, the self-confidence that Sun Honglei had just built up was once again ruthlessly crushed.
Once he went to the hospital and the doctor asked him how old he was.
Sun Honglei said: "19 years old. ”
The doctor was not convinced: "How old are you?" ”
Sun Honglei still answered that he was 19 years old.
The doctor reluctantly said, "Well, write you 19 years old." ”
Sun Honglei was very upset and asked, "How old do you think I am?" ”
The aunt said: "At least it has to be more than 30, isn't it interesting to say that I am 19?" ”
This really made Sun Honglei want to cry without tears, probably this is the fundamental reason why he only likes "sister" in the future.
Three
Because Sun Honglei often mixed in nightclubs with mixed fish and dragons, he met various "big brothers", and he became "Sun Heilei" overnight, nicknamed "Three Wolves".
He held tens of thousands of big brothers in his left hand, a big leather bag in his right hand, and bought a car to hire a driver, as for women, that is even more, do not worry.
Probably because the days are too comfortable, Sun Honglei is getting more and more blessed, coupled with the rough appearance of the rough house, making him more and more "Liu Huaqiang".
When he saw Ge You, Wang Zhiwen, Chen Peisi, Liang Tian, Jiang Wen and others acting in movies in front of the big screen, he muttered: "Looking like this can be famous, it seems that appearance is not a necessary condition for actors!" ”
In 1995, he heard that there was a school called Chinese Opera, and he could become an actor after graduation, so he rolled up his luggage and went to sign up.
How did you know that when you arrived at the Chinese opera, you were poured a basin of cold water, and the admissions office teacher said: "There is only one supplementary enrollment place left, and you are too fat!" ”
Sun Honglei, who was unfavorable, was very unconvinced, and he rented a house in Beijing and prepared to lose weight, just for the last supplementary quota.
He ran three times a day, went to the "sauna" after running, drank some beef soup and ate some cucumbers when he was hungry, and a month later, he lost 36 pounds.
When he stood in the exam room refreshed and refreshed, all the teachers were stunned and appreciative, so he stood out from more than 700 supplementary candidates and became the ultimate winner.
However, this supplementary enrollment quota is only an audit quota, he cannot become a formal student, and finally he cannot get a graduation certificate, only a completion certificate.
Therefore, Sun Honglei is much more diligent than others, he is obsessed with acting, and is called "drama madman".
It is this spirit of "no madness, no life" that planted a seed for the turning point of his life afterwards.
Four
While he studied hard every day, he did not delay love, this heroine is called Dai Yunxia, born in 1976, although smaller than Sun Honglei, but Sun Honglei's sister.
Compared with the "love field veteran" Sun Honglei, Dai Yunxia paid more for this relationship, and her meticulous care made Sun Honglei finally lose her freshness, so she quickly dumped her sister, and Dai Yunxia seemed to be too deeply injured, and she never got out of this relationship, and she has not yet married.
In 1997, the 27-year-old Sun Honglei only had a completion certificate in his hand, and those who were younger than him and held a graduation certificate had no advantages, and some art theaters he did not have the qualifications to register, but he had a good fate, met a good teacher who appreciated him, and after the teacher's recommendation, finally entered the China Youth Art Theater as an actor.
Sun Honglei, who has a Beijing hukou and a 12-square-meter dormitory, became a "fragrant feast", and a beautiful flight attendant entered his life and moved into his dormitory.
But the relationship didn't last long, because his girlfriend hated him for being too poor to satisfy his favorite red BMW, so he left with another man who could buy her a car.
Five
In 1999, 29-year-old Sun Honglei met 40-year-old Ding Jiali and starred in the drama "Marie Curie" together.
Ding Jiali was a famous "big sister" in the show business circle at that time, and even Ge You had to play a supporting role for her, and Sun Honglei was still an unknown newcomer.
Ding Jiali's sister is a bit special, in childhood, due to the family's "son preference", she often suffered from white eyes and dislike, which led to Ding Jiali's inferiority.
Xiao Lack of love, she wanted to get true love through dedication, but she did not expect to accidentally make a "human life" with her first love boyfriend at the Shanghai Theater Academy.
But her boyfriend is a scumbag, not only irresponsible, but also sneering: "It's that you don't love yourself." ”
In desperation, Ding Jiali quietly went to the hospital alone, and before leaving, she also suffered from the doctor's blank eyes.
Later, entering the entertainment industry, she experienced two failed marriages, each of which was infideled by her husband when she was pregnant. Although the acting career is in full swing, behind the starry path of the scenery in front of people, there are thousands of holes in the heart.
Sun Honglei, who lacks love, and Ding Jiali, who also lacks love, seem to have encountered a fiery fire, burning to illuminate the dark road ahead, and also illuminating Sun Honglei's frank star path.
Two people with similar experiences and lack of love meet, like two piles of dry wood, one point.
Ding Jiali soon lived in Sun Honglei's single dormitory, and people around her were not optimistic about this sister-brother relationship, and often talked about it behind her back.
Ding Jiali doesn't seem to hear this, she goes around helping him find resources and help him find roles.
He has participated in Feng Xiaogang's "Endless", Zhang Yimou's "Never Look Away", "My Father and Mother", and "Happy Time", but there is no splash.
Sun Honglei saw that the famous director Zhao Baogang had praised Ge You and Wang Zhiwen, and re-strengthened his belief: "It seems that the appearance does not affect my popularity."
In 2000, Sun Honglei won the film contract of Zhao Baogang's new drama "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", and some media reported that Ding Jiali gave Zhao Baogang a kneeling, so that Zhao Baogang agreed that the important role of "Alai" was played by Sun Honglei.
Sure enough, this drama became popular, Sun Honglei was also well known to the audience, and the "Alai" in the play was very affectionate, giving up his life for his beloved, and circled countless girl fans. But the real Sun Honglei is completely different from Alai.
Six
In 2002, After becoming popular, Sun Honglei co-starred with Gong Li in the movie "Zhou Yu's Train".
At that time, Gong Li had broken up with Zhang Yimou for many years and married Huang Hexiang, an executive of the tobacco company, and as a result, the news of Huang Hexiang's derailment made headlines every day, and she was depressed every day.
And Sun Honglei changed his body, first switched to the "warm male mode", comforted Gong Li, who was trapped by love, and replaced the old cannon with a new look.
Switched to the "scumbag mode" and dumped Ding Jiali, who was filming the TV series "No. 4 Female Prisoner" in Shandong at that time.
He called Ding Jiali and said, "Do you think we are a match?" So the two broke up.
Zhang Ailing said: "Fame should be early", but she who was once disappointed by Hu Lancheng has never told the world how to face the flower world of sound and color dogs and horses after becoming famous, especially to deal with those "Chen Shimei" who lifted her pants and left.
Not long after, the scandal between Sun Honglei and Gong Li was stirred up. The melon-eating masses are also directly addicted.
Later, the media not only photographed Sun Honglei and Gong Li shopping for clothes together, but also exposed that Sun Honglei took Gong Li back to his hometown in Harbin and played billiards with his old friends.
Later, Gong Li went to France to shoot L'Oréal advertisements, and also brought Sun Honglei with her, which could have been filmed in three days, and the two stayed stunned for a month, and were also photographed by the media in the same tour of France.
The love road is bumpy, Ding Jiali, who has been abandoned repeatedly, has a nightmare recurrence and is about to suffer from depression. Even in the face of media interviews, Sun Honglei's name could not be said, because he really couldn't stand it.
Venus said on the show
"Once a big sister in the show business circle, made a boyfriend who was much younger than herself, she did not hesitate to be inferior in front of the director for the future of her boyfriend, and her little boyfriend abandoned her after she became red."
Later, in the program, Wang Xun praised Sun Honglei for his good character, and Venus also asked: "Are you sure?!" ”
Although there is no name, the audience can still guess.
But when Sun Honglei was questioned by the media about Gong Li, he said: "If she is not married, I will definitely pursue her." ”
But when asked about Ding Jiali, he said: When I met him, I was a powerful actor, so I worked my own strength. ”
Seven
In 2003, the 33-year-old Sun Honglei became a big fire again with "Conquest", perhaps related to the experience of "mixing rivers and lakes" when he was a teenager, he played the gangster boss "Liu Huaqiang" and became a classic that could not be surpassed.
There are both gossip and masterpieces, and his unassuming Sun Honglei became a new star of traffic overnight.
Although his career has been smooth, but the emotional life has always bothered him, it turns out that his feelings for Gong Li have always been unrequited love, which is equivalent to "spare tire".
Sun Honglei thought for a moment: "Then I will also find a spare tire!" ”
In 2004, Sun Honglei met Li Xinyu, one of the "Eight Golden Flowers of Chinese Opera", at a gathering of his hometowns, and he switched the "warm male mode" again, not only driving his sister home, but also becoming a full-time driver for Li Xinyu's parents.
With the increase in contact between the two, Li Xinyu secretly felt affection, and did not expect that this feeling was also unrequited love.
Since he never waited for Sun Honglei's "confession", Li Xinyu couldn't resist and asked despite the girl's reticence: "I want to be with you forever, I don't know if I have this opportunity?" ”
As a result, Sun Honglei rejected her and confessed: "I have a crush on Gong Li for many years", which made her wonder: Since she is not with me, why is it so good to me?
Eight
In 2006, Gong Li ignored her previous suspicions and starred in ex-boyfriend Zhang Yimou's "The City Is Full of Golden Armor", and the media reported the scandal of the resurgence of the two old feelings.
The infatuated Li Xinyu finally plucked up the courage to find Gong Li and told her: "Since you don't like him, you might as well persuade him." ”
So Gong Li took the initiative to make an appointment with Sun Honglei, and the two talked for a long time, and finally Sun Honglei left in frustration.
It seems that it is not so easy to get the goddess. He was so lost that he needed comfort.
Soon, Sun Honglei found the spare tire Li Xinyu and said: "Once I hurt you so deeply, can you still accept my love?" Li Xinyu burst into tears, and she agreed ecstatically, but she was happy too soon.
This year, Sun Honglei filmed the film "Mei Lanfang" directed by Chen Kaige, in order to better understand the role, Sun Honglei planned to travel to Europe to find Mei Lanfang's footprints that year, Li Xinyu did not say a word, immediately packed his bags and accompanied him, and acted as an interpreter all the way.
During the filming of "Mei Lanfang", Sun Honglei's mother was seriously ill, Sun Honglei did not have time to take care of it, Li Yuxin volunteered to take the initiative to act as a free nurse, and then the grandmother died.
But Sun Honglei did not seem to plan to stop his search for true love.
In 2007, netizens saw Zuo Xiaoqing and Sun Honglei traveling together in Sanya, and went in and out of Sun Honglei's villa many times, not knowing whether they had exchanged Tang poems together.
But then the scandal between the two suddenly stopped, Sun Honglei said to the media: "I don't have high requirements for finding a partner, why is it too difficult to find a clean person who can talk all night long", Ming Li secretly did not know whether to say Zuo Xiaoqing again, and then Zuo Xiaoqing married a rich businessman who was 20 years older than himself.
In 2008, before her grandmother died, she said to her son: "She is a good girl, don't miss it!" ”
But Sun Honglei finally failed Li Xinyu, and the two eventually parted ways.
This year, he faced the media and said such a classic quote: "The overall quality of Chinese actresses is low, you see some of the actors I like: Jiang Wenli, Sun Li, Zhou Xun, Zhang Ziyi, Gong Li, Maggie Cheung... They all have bones and egos, unlike some people, in order to become famous, betray their moral bottom line, thinking that finding a big money or sleeping with the director can be achieved. ”
Soon, the 38-year-old Sun Honglei and the 29-year-old Yao Chen co-starred in "Latent", creating a ratings miracle, Sun Honglei changed his face in the past, and successfully created a gentle and thoughtful underground party, unlike the previous similar themes, there was no righteousness and awe and entering the tiger's den like a dance floor, but reshaped the underground party model, becoming a classic, and also Sun Honglei's famous work.
Because "Yu Zecheng" was too hot, he did not take off his glasses, but also laughed at himself: "The eyes are too small, wearing glasses can decorate the face", so his face changed from "rough room" to "fine decoration".
Since the "fine decoration", Sun Honglei's scandal has come to the fore.
The first is to rub out a scandal with Yao Chen and accidentally get involved in the divorce vortex between Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu. In the face of media questioning, Sun Honglei did not support Yao Chen, but said: "My family education does not allow me to answer such questions. This is reminiscent of the famous saying he once said.
Soon, he rubbed out scandals with actresses such as Chen Xiaoyi, Susan, and Ye Xuan.
Nine
Just when everyone thought that he would continue to become the "Prince of Gossip", he suddenly and suddenly got out of the way and had a high-profile public relationship with his girlfriend Wang Jundi.
Wang Jundi is a Parisian student, majoring in music, 15 years younger than Sun Honglei and only one year older than Ding Jiali's eldest daughter.
This year, 50-year-old Ding Jiali suddenly boldly confessed her past to the media:
The content of the confession is breathtaking, and as a former "big sister", the courage to unveil his scars in front of the public is really unique.
Later, the eldest sister gradually faded out of the audience's vision and Sun Honglei, and her career can be described as thriving.
He has starred in many popular film and television dramas such as "Warring States", "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb 2", "Witnessed by the Whole People", and "Untouchable".
In 2014, Sun Honglei and Wang Jundi entered the palace of marriage, and in 2017, Sun Honglei welcomed his daughter Addy.
In 2019, Ding Jiali, the year of Hua Jia, also conquered the audience again with her excellent acting skills in "An Jia", and even Sun Li, who was an acting school, was much inferior.
It's just that she hasn't been able to find someone to accompany her all her life.
And the feelings experienced in those years, the bumpy road of life that has been walked, have long become the past.
Time has gone round and round, and it has been relieved.
Life goes up and down, and it always goes on.