1. Sun Honglei's guilt and regret
With the passage of time, Sun Honglei, who has entered middle age, has a thriving career and a happy family, but deep down in his heart is always accompanied by a deep trace of regret and self-blame. One of the most regrettable is that he was unable to let his dearest parents witness the moment when he walked to the marriage hall.
Whenever he recalls his mother Yang Shuying's will on the sickbed, "Don't cry, my mother is most relieved of you, I hope you can also step into the door of marriage as soon as possible", Sun Honglei's tears quietly slipped down.
Once upon a time, he neglected to care for his mother's later life because of his busy career, and finally failed to fulfill his mother's last wish, which made him fall into the abyss of guilt and self-blame.
What is even more sad is that his father died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage due to overwork in order to prepare for his wedding. The kind old man who was once eagerly looking forward to seeing his son enter the marriage hall failed to get his wish and left this world with regret.
On December 24, 2009, Sun Honglei received a call from his eldest brother with bad news, and learned that the news of his father's unfortunate death due to a sudden cerebral hemorrhage was like a bolt from the blue, and he instantly froze in place. The eldest brother revealed to him that his father had been tossing and turning all night in preparation for his marriage, and he was so excited that he couldn't sleep.
When Sun Honglei hurried back to his hometown of Harbin to take care of his father's funeral, he looked at his father's peaceful appearance and had mixed feelings in his heart. He hated that he was too attached to his career and had not returned to his hometown to visit his parents for many years.
Now that he is about to enter the palace of marriage, his father can no longer witness this moment, and Sun Honglei's heart is full of endless self-blame and regret.
Indeed, throughout his life, he had a successful career and a happy family, but his parents passed away one after another, and he could never see the moment when they laughed and laughed. This regret will forever become an indelible knot in his heart.
2. A child from a poor family
Sun Honglei was born in a poor family and has tasted the hardships of life since he was a child. His father was an ordinary teacher, and his mother, Yang Shuying, worked in a galvanized iron wire factory, and the family of seven was crammed into a small space of only 20 square meters, and life was very difficult.
The family's livelihood is supported by her mother Yang Shuying's meager salary. Whenever the family was financially strained, the mother would go out to pick up garbage and scrap in exchange for money to support the family expenses.
In his childhood, Sun Honglei often did not have enough to eat, and even had to go to his classmates to eat, enduring the ridicule and rejection of his peers.
Recalling that immature and youthful day, Sun Honglei came home from school and accidentally caught a glimpse of his mother standing under the door of a neighbor's house, humbly pleading for help. At that time, Sun Honglei was still young, but he already deeply felt his mother's helplessness and bitterness.
"I know that at the end of every month, my mother will go elsewhere and beg for a loan of ten yuan, otherwise, our family will not be able to survive," Sun Honglei thought about his childhood, and his eyes flashed with tears.
However, her mother, Yang Shuying, never flinched due to the hardships of life, and in order to take care of her children, she even dived into the water to pick up plastic bottles in exchange for a meager income. In Sun Honglei's heart, his mother is the brightest light in his life, and she illuminates every footprint of his way forward with her strong, unyielding and enthusiastic maternal love.
Whenever others laughed at his mother's "scavenging" work, Sun Honglei couldn't help but feel a little ashamed although he was young. However, my mother never felt inferior because of this, but responded calmly: "Scavenging is also a hard-working profession.
His mother's spirit of labor and optimistic attitude towards life were deeply imprinted in Sun Honglei's heart.
3. Break dancing leads to a turning point in life
Sun Honglei, who has had a deep love for break dancing since he was a child, has transformed this passion into his own unique talent. When he was in junior high school, he began to sneak away from school at night and go to the Harbin Youth Palace to dance alone, which angered his teacher and informed his mother about it.
In the face of his mother's criticism, Sun Honglei seemed righteous: "My love for dance has been deeply rooted in my bones, and if I can't dance, my heart will feel extremely painful." Seeing her son's obsession with dance, his mother, Yang Shuying, despite her apprehensions, finally chose to understand and support him, and bought him a tape recorder so that he could practice better.
In high school, Sun Honglei made a splash in the Heilongjiang Break Dance Competition and won the first prize. This award gave him great confidence and encouragement. After graduating, he resolutely gave up his studies and joined the Chinese Break Dance Star Art Troupe, and since then he has embarked on the road of making a living through dance.
During that time, Sun Honglei worked hard and was able to reap generous rewards every month, and became famous in the Harbin area, known as the "King of Breakdance". It was with this unique talent that he not only improved the living conditions of his family, bought a new home for his parents in the city, but also made himself move from poverty to the peak of his life.
All of this is deeply rooted in Sun Honglei's love for breakdancing! In the face of such an outstanding son, Sun Honglei's parents were naturally full of joy and were deeply proud and proud of him.
In their eyes, this child is the expectation and sustenance of the whole family.
Fourth, the road of chasing dreams in the north
Time passed quickly in 1995, and Sun Honglei, who had a dream, resolutely embarked on a journey to Beijing, and he firmly decided to apply for the Central Academy of Drama. However, at that time, the registration time for the film and television performance major had closed, and he could only choose to participate in a supplementary enrollment place in the musical theater class.
In order to be able to pass the physical test smoothly, Sun Honglei, who originally weighed as much as 178 pounds, made up his mind to carry out a crazy weight loss plan. He sweats on the playground every day, running 25 laps in one breath; At the same time, he strictly controlled his diet and consumed only green leaves.
In just one month, his weight plummeted by 36 pounds, and he finally reached the standard of physical testing. Among the more than 700 candidates, Sun Honglei became the only lucky one who was successfully admitted with a tenacious fighting spirit.
At this time, he was over 25 years old, and his life trajectory had changed dramatically.
When her mother, Yang Shuying, learned of the exciting news, she immediately took a train from her distant hometown to Beijing. In order to celebrate her son's successful admission to Chinese opera, she invited 7 classmates to a dinner, but due to the exhaustion of money, she could only buy a standing ticket to return to Harbin.
Looking at his mother's hard work, Sun Honglei's heart was full of guilt, and he asked his mother with concern: "Why do you want to save this money after such a long journey?" And the mother smiled and replied, "Saburo, let me tell you the truth, my mother really has no extra money."
"But you're so good, I'm really happy, even if it's walking home, I'm willing." Mother's words illuminated Sun Honglei's heart like a warm sun. Since then, he has been determined to work hard in Beijing to repay his mother's nurturing kindness.
During his days in Beijing, although Sun Honglei was busy with his acting career, he never found time to go home to visit his parents, which made the two old people miss him a lot. Despite this, the parents still unconditionally support their son, hoping that he will carve out a world of his own in Beijing.
Fifth, accompany the mother through the last days with filial piety
In 2006, her mother, Yang Shuying, was deteriorating in her health. It turned out that she was suffering from severe advanced diabetes, her whole body was swollen, and she was almost blind in both eyes.
This news alarmed Sun Honglei, who was filming a movie in other places, and he hurried back to Harbin, feeling heavy and worried along the way.
When he saw his mother's aging and frail appearance, Sun Honglei felt deeply heartbroken. He was determined to bring his mother to Beijing, hoping to be treated in a hospital to slow down the course of her life.
In order to make his mother recover, Sun Honglei did his best. He did not hesitate to find various home remedies, and even bought 11 pumpkins at one time to go home, hoping that his mother would consume the appropriate amount of food that is believed to have the effect of curing diabetes. At the same time, he also learned to inject insulin himself, and took care of his mother's daily life wholeheartedly.
However, despite Sun Honglei's countless hard work, his mother's condition is still deteriorating. Seeing that she was gradually unable to stand and almost lost her ability to take care of herself, Sun Honglei's heart ached like a knife, and he even longed to exchange his life for his mother's life.
In order to express his filial piety to his parents, Sun Honglei specially planned a grand golden wedding celebration in 2006. On that day, seeing the happy picture of Yang Shuying and her father smiling with tears, Sun Honglei said with gratitude: "Their tenacity, forbearance and great fatherly and maternal love have deeply influenced and shaped my life and become a precious wealth of my life."
In 2007, the hospital issued a notice to Sun Honglei that his mother was critically ill, seeing that his mother's life was coming to an end. Following his parents' wishes, Sun Honglei sent his mother back to his hometown in Harbin, where he spent the last peaceful years of his life.
On the seventh day of the first lunar month of the following year, Mother left us forever. When she was dying, she said weakly to Sun Honglei: "Don't be sad, the only thing I can't let go of is you, and you have to start a family as soon as possible."
The death of his mother brought a heavy blow to Sun Honglei. During that period of grief-stricken time, thanks to the careful companionship and patient persuasion of his girlfriend Wang Jundi, he was able to gradually get out of the haze.
Since then, he has devoted himself to taking care of his father, always being by his father's side, supporting each other with his father, and facing the ups and downs of life together.
6. The sudden death of my father
In 2009, Sun Honglei finally found true love in his life journey and fell in love with his girlfriend Wang Jundi. When he learned this exciting news, his father, who was already in his old age, couldn't help but be overjoyed and immediately urged his son to enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible.
In order to avoid worrying about his father, Sun Honglei and Wang Jundi quickly finalized the wedding on New Year's Day 2010. This news reached the father's ears, which made him even more happy, and he immediately rushed to his hometown in Harbin to devote himself to preparing for his son's wedding.
In order to make his son wear a red dress and step into the marriage hall under his eyes full of expectations and blessings, his father poured countless hard work and time, working hard every day and night, and even a short sleep became a luxury.
Seeing the elderly man so passionate, Sun Honglei's heart swelled with great relief, he was looking forward to this day, hoping to witness his father's long-awaited moment, however, the merciless trick of fate appeared like a thunderbolt in the clear sky - on December 24, 2009, when the wedding date was approaching, a sudden cerebral hemorrhage ruthlessly took his father's precious life, when the eldest brother conveyed this bad news to him, Sun Honglei seemed to have suffered a heavy blow, the whole person froze instantly, and tears gushed out like the water of the embankment.
When he hurried back to Harbin to attend the funeral, Sun Honglei had mixed feelings in the face of his father's peaceful face. He blamed himself deeply for not returning home to visit his father for years because he was too focused on his career.
Now when he is about to enter the palace of marriage, his father failed to witness this scene, which made the father and son leave endless regrets again Indeed, although Sun Honglei's life is successful and his family is happy, the pain of his parents' death has always been with him, tormenting him all the time Their last wish is to see his son enter the palace of marriage, but after all, this regret has not been realized, and it will undoubtedly become an unrelieved knot in Sun Honglei's life.