After Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing divorced at that time, the whole five years were spent by herself.
It wasn't until she met Qin Hao at a dinner party in 2013.
At that time, Yi Nengjing was surrounded by a large group of reporters, and Qin Hao, who saw such a situation, immediately went up to relieve the siege.
I think that when Qin Hao pursued Yi Nengjing, it really caused an uproar in the entertainment industry.
Yi Nengjing asked Qin Hao at that time:
"I'm ten years older than you", those girls who are younger than me, are their skin inferior to mine, or are they not as tall as me? What do you like about me?
Qin Hao smiled and squinted, "I just like your skin, and your big chest and small face."
Yi Nengjing blushed and said, "We are really not suitable, I want to be in love to be able to get married together for a lifetime, I don't want to fall in love, I just want to get married."
After Qin Hao heard this, he immediately called his mother at home and told his mother very directly: I want to register my marriage with Yi Nengjing.
Why did Qin Hao choose Yi Nengjing, who was 10 years older than himself? And why yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing's marriage will break down
Today we will take a look at Yi Nengjing's bumpy life.
1.
Speaking of Yi Nengjing, we can always think of her and Yu Chengqing's marriage that began to love vigorously, but finally ended in a hurry.
The reason why she divorced Yu Chengqing, who is about the same age, is because she has been in a "sick state" in this marriage, and it is most appropriate to use this word to describe it.
The two people have gone through a total of 23 years from falling in love to getting married.
She had thought that after marrying Yu Chengqing, she would heal her unfortunate life, and finally she could have someone to shield her from the wind and rain.
But then I never expected that all the wind and rain were brought by him.
At the age of 50, Yu Chengqing, who still has a big grin, has no way to understand the sense of security and belonging that Yi Nengjing wants.
She hopes that Yu Chengqing is her shelter, her patron, the spiritual pillar in the face of collapse, the initiator of bad emotions, and the person who can support her.
However, the character that caused Yi Nengjing to come from her original family in the final analysis.
Yi Nengjing loves toss and a little small personality, but she lacks a sense of security in her heart, why can Qin Hao receive such a personality?
Relative to Yi Nengjing, Qin Hao was born in a very perfect family when he was a child, and he was loved by his family when he was a child.
2.
Her real name is Wu Jingyi, Yi Nengjing was born in a patriarchal family,
She had 6 older sisters, but three of them died tragically.
In fact, her mother also wanted to beat up when she was pregnant with Yi Nengjing, but someone told her mother,
You see this belly is so pointed, this fetus must be a boy, so before these words gave up the idea of beating up.
The sky was not satisfactory, with a loud crying sound came out, Yi Nengjing was born, and his father listened to such a loud crying, thinking in his heart: This must be a little boy, can't be wrong.
When the father saw it, he was extremely disappointed, and while he was endlessly accusing his mother, he said to Yi Nengjing, who was swaddled: Why are you not a boy?
But what's wrong with Yi Nengjing, who is still a baby? She couldn't decide her own birth, let alone her gender
Since Yi Nengjing was born, his mother gave birth to 6 daughters in a row, and his father did not have any hope for her mother, so his father said to his mother:
"Don't you have a son, I'll find someone else to give birth to?"
It can be seen that her mother's life at home is not good.
Because at home, my father did not treat her very well, and the conditions at home were not good, there was no such meal,
When she was 6 years old, she was sent by her mother to her sister's house to live.
But her brother-in-law has a bad temper, and every time he loses his temper, he will beat up Yi Nengjing.
Yi Nengjing, who has experienced abuse since childhood, is insecure absolutely.
Later, her mother remarried to Japan, and her mother was relieved that the youngest child in the family was not small.
She also took Yi Nengjing to Japan and naturally changed her name from Wu Jingyi to Yi Nengjing (following her stepfather's surname).
Originally, after arriving in Japan, she fantasized that she could have a carefree childhood.
However, when she was in school, she was blinded by other classmates, who often bullied her quiet little girl.
On the streets of Tokyo, the musician Liu Wenzheng saw the pure Yi Nengjing, and she said to Yi Nengjing very directly:
Come to our company to sing, sign up for our company.
However, when signing the contract, the family needed to sign it, and the mother tried the hardships of singing, and she also felt that such a job was not decent, so she decided to sign for her daughter.
At that time, Yi Nengjing very much wanted to make a lot of money, and since my mother did not agree, I ran away from home.
When there was really no way, she contacted her father, who had not been in contact for more than 10 years.
Yi Nengjing dialed his father's phone: Can you help me sign the contract?
My father readily agreed, and said: If you have fame in the future, don't forget me.
As a result, before Yi Neng could get on fire, his father unfortunately died in a car accident.
However, after her father left, he left a huge debt of tens of millions of yuan for the young Yi Nengjing, and when she learned the news, she directly collapsed.
In order to be able to pay off her debts, she did all kinds of odd jobs, washing dishes in restaurants, and doing all kinds of hard work, but she never gave up.
Maybe God will open a window for you by closing the door for you, or maybe the heavens can't bear to see this little girl suffer all this.
In 1986, 18-year-old Yi Nengjing had already become a big beauty.
She and Qiu Haizheng and Fang Wenbin formed a girl group, named "Flying Eagle Three Sisters",
At that time, the group was popular all over the streets, and her life was slightly better.
It didn't take long for this combination to disband, but Yi Nengjing himself became more and more popular, and his career became straight up.
Later, "The Last Day of 19 Years Old" and "Wandering Child" became popular throughout Taiwan.
At that time, I Nengjing's image was very good-looking, just like the beautiful girl in Japanese manga.
Later, she entered the film and television circle, and in the drama "Good Man and Good Woman", she played two roles alone.
With this drama, she successfully entered the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress,
Later works "Goodbye To the Southern Country" and "Flowers on the Sea", the praise reputation was even more explosive.
Whether in music or in movies and TV series, she has to treat it well.
Because of all the tragedies she suffered in her childhood, she understands that these achievements in front of her are hard-won and should be cherished.
3.
At that time, there were many rich people chasing her, but Yi Nengjing couldn't see it.
Probably because of her childhood experience, she wanted to find someone who could be nice to her and give her a sense of security.
As a rich man, Yu Chengqing, who can understand the days when Yi Nengjing is a little turbulent and displaced,
How the two look at this marriage is not matched, the gap on the door, doomed to this marriage will not be so simple,
At the beginning of their marriage, the ending was written.
Yu Chengqing's father was a politician and also an elite in the business world, and his mother's reputation in the Peking Opera circle was very loud.
Because with all this he doesn't have to prove anything to the outside world, he's been very low-key.
When the two fell in love, because Yu Chengqing's father was a politician, the two did not even dare to hold hands on the street, for fear of bringing a negative impact to his father.
That year, Yi Nengjing found a tumor, and surgery may require the removal of the uterus.
At this time, Yu Chengqing, who was like wood, instantly became very excited, no matter what, he wanted to marry Yi Nengjing,
Fortunately, the final test result was not a malignant tumor, and Yi Nengjing also saw that the man in front of him was worthy of trust.
From 1986 to 2000, they ended the long run of love and finally got married in the United States.
There are no romantic proposal ceremonies, and there are no huge weddings.
After getting married, she lived in Yu Chengqing's family, one is a family that has seen the world, the other is a Cinderella-like existence, which shows that the mother-in-law is not very kind to see this daughter-in-law.
Fortunately, after marriage, she had a son Harry, which also became everything that could heal her in this family, and she would never let her children suffer from the suffering she suffered as a child.
Although the mother-in-law did not want to see her, she looked at her children and her husband who loved him, and she had to live a good life.
Until the back of the hand-in-hand door incident broke out, which also quietly changed the status quo of all this now.
In 2008, Yi Nengjing's hand-holding door incident caused an uproar.
A few months later, the two announced the end of the marriage with a statement, and the son was raised by his father.
At that time, Yi Nengjing denied that the divorce had nothing to do with others.
It is its own reasons, in this relationship, gradually lost itself.
She took Yu Chengqing as a safe haven, hoping that he could heal his unfortunate life,
But people come to find their daughters-in-law, not to "see a doctor", and it is impossible for anyone to do it as you imagine.
At this time, she suddenly realized that what is needed in marriage is a balance of strength, rather than blindly paying,
Unequal love, not enough door-to-door love, will eventually go to rupture.
In the five years of divorce, she did not look for it again, but has been precipitating in her own world.
Recently, 60-year-old Yu Chengqing accidentally had an accident while riding a bicycle, and from the photos he sent, there were abrasions on his arms and legs, but fortunately it was only some skin trauma.
The photo is accompanied by text: in the package, it can be seen that he is 60 years old or very humorous.
Until she met Qin Hao, she was really bitter.
The first time the two met, at a charity dinner, when the reporter saw Yi Nengjing, he surrounded her.
Nothing more than to ask her about the latest situation and previous events,
At that time, it was Qin Hao who broke the siege for her, but in the face of her 10-year-old brother, Yi Nengjing did not say much.
At this time, her girlfriend came out to break this embarrassing situation, and the two also added WeChat.
Men basically look at the face first, and he feels love at first sight to Yi Nengjing.
Qin Hao, who had returned home, couldn't sleep at night, thinking of making an appointment with her the next day and being able to talk.
The next day, the two men "talked about the philosophy of life from poetry and song" and talked late together.
After Qin Hao asked her to come out to meet, she decisively decided, she saw the thoughts of this brother, and thought:
I'm so much older than her, divorced, and all the gossip in the outside world, I can't delay him.
But in the face of this crazy pursuit of Qin Hao, she gradually began to be a little moved.
She told Qin Hao: I want to get married, I don't want to fall in love, don't waste time here.
Qin Hao: "It's okay to get married, I'll talk to my family now."
When he called his mother at that time, he probably thought that her mother would object, but she did not expect her mother to say:
If I found such a famous person, why should I object? Think well yourself, no matter what, your mother will bless you.
When Yi Nengjing learned that Qin Hao's family said this, she was moved to cry.
In March 2015, the two people held a wedding in Phuket,
At the wedding, Qin Hao's father said to all the guests at the scene: From now on, we have another girlfriend.
Yi Nengjing burst into tears on the spot, and this time she finally received the respect she deserved in her marriage.
The life of these two people after marriage is very happy, and Qin Hao does his best to give her the best.
Qin Hao is a well-known "anti-correctional master" in the circle, and in the program, he also said that Yi Nengjing was very good, and Qin Hao said in the program: If you don't do it, I will not fail.
When "jingjing" met "poisonous tongue men", they never expected that they could live very happily.
Yi Nengjing lived a very unhappy life for the first half of her life, but the heavens took great care of her.
In the second half of her life, she finally met Qin Hao, the man who could rely on her shoulders.
Not long ago, Yi Nengjing posted a photo of eating barbecue with Qin Hao on the Internet, and the two people were very low-key in the barbecue shop.
Qin Hao has been playing with his mobile phone with his head down, but the 53-year-old Yi Nengjing has played with selfies.
It can be seen that there is also simple happiness in ordinary days.
The 53-year-old Yi Nengjing is very young, looking at nothing like this age, the skin is white and tender, the eyelashes are black and long, and the real age cannot be seen at all.
The original marriage was not optimistic, and now the family of these two people has become a model couple in the entertainment industry.
The best state of marriage is nothing more than that I am making trouble and he is laughing.
Qin Hao was willing to accept everything in Yi Nengjing's past, bear her work, and become her safe haven.
And Yi Nengjing, she likes flowers, likes the sense of ceremony, and also likes to do ordinary things with people she likes and likes herself.
And these seemingly common things are the romance of life.
In marriage, many people are not optimistic about sister-brother love,
But as long as two people complement each other, you understand my bad words, I understand your unspoken meaning, so that two people can go to a long way,
There is no gender in love, let alone age?
Yi Nengjing's second half of his life was a bitter end.
May their love flow forever.