The Bible says: Love is tolerance in all things, hope in all things, and patience in all things.
We all think that we are born to love people, and we are born with the ability to love people, but this is not the case. Love needs to be cautious and skillfully use appropriate methods in order to convey its feelings and achieve its intentions.
Love is humble.
Zhuangzi said, "The ancients are to man, and first to himself and then to others." ”
Zhuangzi told people that if you want to help others, you must first enrich yourself, and to give love to others, you must first learn to love. The ability to love others is not innate, and you must not overestimate yourself.
Compared with the car, the mantis has a huge disparity in strength, and the mantis does not know it, and can only be destroyed under the rut.
If people can't realize the limitation of their own power and force others to accept your kindness, the result will not be as desired.
In the family, parents are on top, using emotions to coerce children to obey, using force to coerce children to obey, thinking that they have achieved their goals, but making children more and more distant from themselves, and even going against each other.
Love is not charity, love is faith, it is giving with a sincere heart and humility.
Love is pure.
The love of fame and fortune is not only hypocritical, but also terrible.
Zhuangzi admonished the people: "Cultivate the beauty of man with the evil of man, and the fate of the man." ”
If you want to use the shortcomings of others to set off your own advantages, this is harming others.
When love is not understood, it is often the possibility that it contains malice.
Although the King of Shang was faint and cruel, the reason why he had to dig his heart out of the abdomen was not because Bi Gan pointed out his dimwittedness, but because he suspected that Bi Gan, who was the uncle of the king, was self-cultivation and moral, and had a disobedient heart.
Parents love their children, and if they are mixed with vanity, they will force their children to achieve their parents' goals and requirements. Conditional love will be expressed as a sword, severing natural and innocent feelings.
Love is not for acquisition, love comes from the heart, like the laughter of a baby, pure and clear.
Love is respectful.
"The form is like a lot, and the heart is like a peace."
Where love is concerned, you should integrate your own behavior into the other person's behavior, penetrate your own mind into the other person's mind, love what you love, and enjoy what you like.
Only when you accept others can others accept you, and Zhuangzi has never been meticulous in observing people's hearts.
Wishful thinking is love that lacks respect, that imposes one's own preferences on others, and that one's own happiness.
The horse keeper was kind enough to slap the mosquito fly for the horse, but it frightened him and wanted to get rid of the reins in fear.
Parents want their children to grow up according to their own wishes and live according to their own ideals, but they do not know that their children have their own wishes and their own ideals.
If love is a lonely palm, it will be difficult to sound. Love is one heart reflected in another heart, and each other's hearts have a sharp mind.
"There is something to be meant and love to die."
If love is misplaced and messed up, even the best intentions will be counterproductive.