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Speaking of Zhang Dongsheng, I don't know why I think of Jin Yong's Li Moxuan.
The mention of Li Moxuan is very graphic, a woman who kills people like hemp, looks very beautiful, but her heart is like a snake and scorpion.
The most memorable thing about "Chi Lian Immortal" Li Moxuan is her "theme song": Ask the world, what is love, and teach life and death to be promised? Heaven and south and north double flyers, how many times the old wings have been cold and hot? Joy and fun, parting from bitterness, there are more idiot children in the middle, the king should have a word, the clouds are small, the mountains are twilight and snow, and the shadow is only to whom?
Li Mo is worried about the magic of this person's love, and she is also a typical representative of the "love brain".
She loves only one person in her life and is fascinated by one person, she is not the kind of person who lives purely for survival, and the value of her life lies in a "true" word and a "stupid" word.
She fell in love with Lu Zhanyuan, but Lu Zhanyuan lost her, and since then, her temperament has also changed greatly.
Li Moxuan is a lover, her love is possessive, and she cannot tolerate betrayal.
I love you and give all for you, how can you fail me? If you fail me and don't get you, I will destroy you completely. Because of love and hatred, Li Moxuan actually destroyed Lu Jiazhuang for revenge for love, and even some people related to He Yuanjun's name were killed without mistake.
Because of a "love" word, carrying too much, committing heinous crimes, and finally being buried in the sea of fire, when he died, he sang the sentence "Ask what is the love of the world, and tell people to live and die..." The desolate death is not worthy of sympathy, but disgusting.
People with "love brains" are extremely easy to go crazy, you love him and follow him, he is very good, you dare to rebel against him and betray him, he will destroy you. Even if you don't get you, he won't let you live a good life, for such a person, love is a kind of possession, extremely domineering.
Zhang Dongsheng and Li Moxuan are still a bit similar, others live in middle age, in front of their parents-in-law and wife to do small prostrations, no matter how much he pays, his marriage with his wife is still in jeopardy.
In fact, his parents-in-law did not have anything excessive, much better than some bad in-laws, but Zhang Dongsheng still remembered the revenge. When his parents-in-law advised him to open up and divorce Xu Jing, Zhang Dongsheng had a murderous intention in his heart.
Taking advantage of a chance to climb the mountain, Zhang Dongsheng unexpectedly killed his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Once a person has done something bad and started, you will also have the retribution you deserve. Zhang Dongsheng thought that he could marry Xu Jing safely and unharmed, but he did not know that some of the lost things could never be found again, and he and Xu Jing could not go back to the past.
Destroying it if he didn't get it, Zhang Dongsheng lived a dignified life, looking at a gentle teacher, and his heart was as deformed and twisted and ugly as his bald head.
He was plotting a big conspiracy, and in a hidden corner, his heart was full of the words "revenge."
Zhang Dongsheng eventually killed his wife Xu Jing, and he himself was bound to go to tragedy.
Like Li Moxuan, he can't tolerate betrayal by others, and if he doesn't get it, he will destroy it, his love is possession, he is afraid of losing, even if it is destroyed, he doesn't want it to become someone else's thing. Because of love and hate, because of love, a proper terrible and hateful, unworthy "love brain".
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After watching the high-scoring domestic drama "The Hidden Corner", I read a lot of analysis of the plot on the Internet, especially I wanted to write about Zhang Dongsheng. The reason why I want to write About Zhang Dongsheng is because I think there are a lot of "Zhang Dongsheng" around us, they look no different from ordinary people, but it is easy to go crazy because of love.
Some people also sympathize with Zhang Dongsheng, feeling that it is excusable that he has become bad, after all, he has paid so much but his wife has failed him.
What I want to say is that a scum like Zhang Dongsheng is not worthy of sympathy, love is something that you love and I wish, and then his wife Xu Jing has said to him countless times that they have no feelings, and it is not good for two people not to love and open up their own way of life?
But Zhang Dongsheng does not think so, he is a "love brain", paying too much for love, and feels that he can't afford to lose.
One author likened Zhang Dongsheng to a girl who was "far married".
Personally, I think it's still quite appropriate, but the gender is different. Zhang Dongsheng's such a place, if it is discussed on the girl who is "far married", abounds. In order to love far away married into a city where the place of life is unfamiliar, suffered from the dislike of her husband, and the unfair treatment of her in-laws, she was also depressed in her life, and her husband was also cheating, and her marriage was in jeopardy.
It's just that in real life, more "far-married" girls like Zhang Dongsheng will torture themselves because of love, and they dare not go to the other extreme like Zhang Dongsheng. Destroyed, burned, but the loss of their own life, is it worth it?
Let's combine the original "Bad Boy" to analyze the person Zhang Dongsheng in "The Hidden Corner".
Zhang Dongsheng originally had a good youth, he was a high-achieving student of a prestigious school, and he could go straight to Bo. But because he fell in love with Xu Jing, the two of them loved fiercely, and Zhang Dongsheng became unselfish and resolutely followed Xu Jing, from the far north to the small city of Ningzhou in the south.
When they were young, Zhang Dongsheng and Xu Jing should have really loved each other, and we can also imagine how hot and sweet they used to be. When love is cultivated and two people are married, does that mean that they can live a happy life from now on?
But love is too illusory after all, marriage you have to implement, mature people know that marriage is not so simple.
Zhang Dongsheng's original dedication and sacrifice also implied that he and Xu Jing would not have a good ending.
After coming to the small city of Ningzhou, Zhang Dongsheng was not satisfied, he could only rely on his mathematical talent to be a teacher without formal preparation in the Juvenile Palace, in 8 years, his self-confidence and sharpness had long been smoothed out, he became a drifter, and began to look at Xu Jing's eyes.
Contrary to Zhang Dongsheng's dissatisfaction, Xu Jing is mixed up like a fish in his hometown, after all, it is a place he is familiar with. Xu Jing in the original work is working in a tobacco company and has a high income. Although the TV series does not introduce her job, we can also see that Xu Jing's career is far better than Zhang Dongsheng.
Their marriage was not agreed by their parents at the beginning, when Xu Jing married Zhang Dongsheng, Zhang Dongsheng also signed a "prenuptial agreement", that is to say, if Zhang Dongsheng did not have a marriage, it is likely that he would have "nothing" and would not have any property. This may also be one of the reasons why he is reluctant to divorce.
His father-in-law and mother-in-law were very indifferent to him, after all, Xu Jing had no feelings for him, could it be that his father-in-law and mother-in-law could still face him?
By middle age, the love between him and Xu Jing has long disappeared with the triviality of life, coupled with the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, long-term emotional discord, parting ways is sooner or later. Xu Jing once loved him, and now when she looks at him again, she only feels that marriage is boring.
Feelings are the easiest thing to become, especially when two of them have changed.
You don't see anything appealing to you in him, and watch out for how long your love lasts, let alone marriage.
There is a detail, Zhang Dongsheng accompanied his parents-in-law and Xu Jing to attend a party between relatives, it can be seen that Xu Jing's relatives are mixed well, Zhang Dongsheng is a bit out of place, was squeezed "no career establishment", and can only smile bitterly.
Xu Jing was still interesting enough, knowing to give Zhang Dongsheng face and secretly hand him money under the table.
I think Xu Jing is not bad, she still knows to maintain Zhang Dongsheng, and did not embarrass him too much. It's just that Zhang Dongsheng's self-esteem is too strong, and he can't see the warmth given to him by others, but he has remembered some sneers in his heart.
The reason why Zhang Dongsheng killed his father-in-law and mother-in-law is that I think it is a kind of paranoia. He may have always felt that his father-in-law and mother-in-law were the biggest obstacle between him and Xu Jing, but he did not expect that Xu Jing had already changed his mind. Zhang Dongsheng volunteered to take his father-in-law and mother-in-law to climb the mountain, and when he heard his parents-in-law's persuasion of him, he immediately became murderous.
Zhang Dongsheng's person is really terrible, his father-in-law and mother-in-law are really innocent, and they have not done anything to apologize to him, but his thinking is distorted.
After his parents-in-law died, Zhang Dongsheng thought that his marriage to Xu Jing could be saved.
He still left work early as usual, buying vegetables and cooking, but found that he and his wife Xu Jing could not go back to the past. Xu Jing had someone outside, and she and Zhang Dongsheng calmly communicated many times and divorced early, but Zhang Dongsheng did not agree. When Xu Jing decided to move out, Zhang Dongsheng had the intention of killing again.
Xu Jing has low blood sugar, so she often takes a blood sugar-raising drug, and Zhang Dongsheng secretly replaces sugar with blood sugar. Xu Jing likes to swim in the sea, and as a result, she eventually takes the wrong medicine and causes her to lose her strength and drown.
After Xu Jing died, was Zhang Dongsheng happy? Will he be able to go back to the old days?
No, but because he wanted to cover up the crimes he had committed, he killed one person after another.
Some people say that Zhang Dongsheng was used by Zhu Chaoyang, I don't think, but Zhang Dongsheng can't hold back his hand, he has killed three people, but if one person stops him, he will destroy the stumbling block. There is no way back, he will only allow himself to make bigger mistakes and eventually kill himself.
Zhang Dongsheng's marriage to Xu Jing failed, not only because he was frustrated in middle age.
For a man with self-esteem, both baldness and infertility are extremely hurtful. Zhang Dongsheng was bald, and this matter may not even be known to Xu Jing. In addition, he and Xu Jing have been married for eight years without children, and he has no fertility.
I want to see that Xu Jing was right to divorce him, xu Jing did not do anything excessive, it was Zhang Dongsheng who had a problem in his heart, and his personality was flawed.
A "love brain" who counts his unsatisfactory intentions on others, feels that he is about to lose it and is eager to destroy others. But if you ruin it, will you be able to live well? In the end, it is not retribution, let yourself fall into another dead cycle, still unhappy.
Because a person who can't learn to be relieved and won't let go of others, how can he let go of himself, and how can he live happily?
Only when people choose to accept and let others go, will they really let go of themselves and will get real happiness.
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Zhang Dongsheng's father-in-law was right: "She has the right to a new life." ”
The feelings of two people are gone, and they have the right to a new life when they make it clear to each other. Love should not be possessive, but respect. Besides, Xu Jing's marriage with Zhang Dongsheng has long been a loveless marriage, the two have been separated for many years, Xu Jing has mentioned many divorces, but Zhang Dongsheng will not let go.
Parents-in-law, Xu Jing are not wrong, only Zhang Dongsheng is wrong.
He was wrong that he should not have given up everything for love in the first place, you can love very much, but you also have to think more about yourself. One has to remember that you yourself are always the most important. Leave a way back for yourself, love soberly, and if so, he will not let himself fall into madness.
In fact, even if he is divorced, Zhang Dongsheng will not have nothing, but he feels that he has nothing.
He drilled the tip of the bull's horn and went into a dead end, and such a person is extremely dangerous.
Is there such a paranoid personality as Zhang Dongsheng in reality? Of course.
When I was in college, I heard a friend talk about her boyfriend, she said to him to break up, the boy did not agree, and threatened her "If you dare to break up with me, do you believe it or not I will kill your whole family", she was very panicked, has been afraid to break up with him, and finally chose to call the police, entangled for many years before finally escaping. There is also news like this, so-and-so because he is unwilling to break up or divorce, he hates his other half and retaliates because he loves to hate.
People like "Zhang Dongsheng" are not non-existent, but hidden in hidden corners of reality, they look like dogs, but their hearts are extremely dark. If you follow Him, it doesn't hurt, and if you don't follow Him, you will ruin you. Such people don't deserve sympathy because they're so scary and there's no bottom line.
When we talk about love and mate selection, we must be careful of people who are similar to Zhang Dongsheng's paranoid personality.
If someone threatens you, "If you are not with me, I will commit suicide or will do something very terrible", meet this kind of person quickly break up and flee, you meet a paranoid "love brain", it is too terrible, with him, you are equivalent to planting a time bomb around yourself.
Be careful, your partner will get into your intimate relationship, will know your privacy, and choose someone with a sound personality and a mature mind.
Today's topic: Do you have people like "Zhang Dongsheng" around you? How do you get rid of this dangerous suitor? Welcome to leave a message.
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