Remember Xu Zheng's "Get your father-in-law"?
Fan Jianqiang, played by Xu Zheng, is a three-nothing psychiatrist who once followed his girlfriend home and prepared to meet his future father-in-law. However, because Fan Jianqiang knew his father-in-law's secret, his father-in-law Su Bohu tried all kinds of crooked tricks to drive away Fan Qiangqiang in order to protect himself. Fan Jianqiang saw the tricks and dismantled the tricks, during which the jokes were full of jokes, and finally used the story of the beauty of true intelligence.
In life, getting the father-in-law is also a topic that we need to face together.
A few days ago, several good friends talked about this together, so everyone shared their own stories -
(1) Drinking and talking type
Ah Liang drank a lot of wine, and heard that the future father-in-law loved to drink, so he prepared two bottles of good wine when he first went to see the future father-in-law.
The first time I went to someone's house, I wouldn't say it didn't matter, it didn't matter if I didn't do anything, anyway, it was enough time to have a meal.
Ah Liang and his father-in-law drank a cup of my cup on the table, saying that the two drank more than two bottles of liquor, and finally became buddies directly with their father-in-law at the wine table, and even the bride price was discussed [laughs]
After drinking at the wine table, everything was negotiable, not only Ah Liang, but one of my cousins married my cousin home.
(2) Down-to-earth and hard-working type
Xiao Fan said that his alcohol intake was a bit overwhelming, and he could only score points based on his personal qualities.
It is said that Xiao Fan went to his father-in-law's house for the first time, and he didn't have anything to say, he could only help the officer with one mind, thinking about at least taking a good person card. In the end, the meal of the father-in-law's family was basically completed by Xiao Fan, and even the floor of the living room was swept away for an unknown number of times. [Like]
(3) Rich and powerful type
Among us, Ah Qiang is the most direct, there is no good alcohol of Ah Liang, there is no good quality of Xiao Fan, when I go, I bought the clothes and shoes of my father-in-law and my mother-in-law and brother-in-law, ate and drank, and drank, and pulled a full trunk. [Adoration]
Of course, it is said that it is said that the main thing is that Ah Qiang is good to his wife, which is clear to everyone, so when they first met, their father-in-law already understood Ah Qiang's situation, and it was natural for him to do things himself.
(4) Can speak the Taoist type
Da Lin belongs to people with very strong communication skills, especially the set of smoking, drinking and talking in his hometown. When Da Lin first went to his father-in-law's house, his father-in-law's family called the next door's uncle, second uncle, and third uncle to Da Lin without fear, and they talked about it. Smoking cigarettes, sniffing melon seeds, and drinking tea immediately captured the good impression of those present.
On this occasion, I am very good to say a hundred myself, and I am particularly good than others to say half a sentence that this child is good. Up to now, as soon as Da Lin arrived at her wife's house, as long as there was something wrong, he couldn't forget to shout at Da Lin.
(5) Confused type
I was different from them, the first time I went to see my father-in-law, I had to rush to where they worked, farther away, and stayed at their house at night. Be careful when eating, they ask me to answer, what to eat, it is best to help clean up the table, take a bath at night and wash your own clothes... I went back the next day, nothing happened, nothing said.
A month later, my girlfriend (who was boyfriend and girlfriend at the time, now my wife) told me that my dad said you've been back for a month and haven't even made a phone call [embarrassing].
So from then until now, I've called my father-in-law once a week. My friend asked me, I don't have anything to talk about with my own father, what can you talk to her father? In fact, there is nothing to talk about, the parents are short, more as a listener, listen to the father-in-law to say what he has been busy with recently.
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In short, for us, seeing the parents is a key step that two people must take together, no matter what kind of way this step is used, what kind of drunken talk, the type of money, the type of hard work, or the type of being able to speak the Tao, etc., these are just the way you handle things, in fact, the father-in-law does not agree with you together, more is whether you have responsibility, whether you are self-motivated, whether you can give his daughter happiness, whether you can make her daughter happy, whether you can be her daughter's permanent solid dependence.
Of course, we try our best to "get" my father-in-law, more to create more possibilities for our own happiness, to make the opportunities greater, even if it is small, we also have to try, which is also a kind of responsibility, a responsible attitude towards her. Looking back now, "Got your father-in-law" was indeed a classic comedy.