In life, sometimes neighbors often quarrel with each other because of a word or a small matter, blushing and necking thickly, and sometimes even fighting hard, causing serious discord between neighbors and neighbors, old and dead, hurting and hurting feelings.
People often take the phrase "take a step back from the sea and the sky, and endure the calm of the wind and waves for a while." "To persuade others, but once it happens to you, then don't say anything else."
Once sitting on the town bus to the city, halfway up, three old men came up. After getting into the car, the three of them scrambled to take money out of their pockets, and they humbly gave in to each other, "I'm out", "I'm out"!
Old Man A and Old Man B fell and took out the money first, of which Old Man A grabbed Old Man B's hand and handed the money to the driver, and Old Man B grabbed the money that Old Man A handed to the driver, handed the money to the driver, and the driver took the money.
At this time, Old Man C did not take out the money several times, and saw that Old Man B had handed the money to the driver, and a trace of embarrassment appeared on his face.
When all three were scrambling to pay for it, passenger a said, "This is a good thing, scrambling to pay, if they all argue not to pay it it will be ugly"?
Passenger B smiled and said, "Don't just say it in your mouth, you just can't pull it out." ”
The driver followed, "That's it!" ”
Old man C did not take out the money, it was a little embarrassing, and now the passenger b said so, the old man C's face was even more uncomfortable, plus the driver added a sentence, this time, the embarrassment of the old man C turned into anger, and the driver quarreled.
"I don't know which pocket I put the money in just now, but I didn't pull it out, who do you say doesn't want to pay for it?" Saying that, he took out a bunch of big red plates and fell on his hand, "Who doesn't want to take it out, Lao Tzu has a line, not to mention the fare of ten yuan and eight yuan, that is, three hundred and five hundred is a thing!" ”
Passenger C said, "Don't be angry, everyone just talked to you about playing."
The driver said, "I'm not laughing at you, what are you annoyed about!" ”
Old Man C said, "You just said I didn't want to pay for it, who made you say that!" ”
Then the old man C and the driver quarreled more and more, and the language gradually upgraded, the more noisy and more powerful!
The driver said, "The next time I see you, I won't let you get in the car." ”
Old Man C said, "As long as Lao Tzu pays, who dares not let Lao Tzu sit in the car!" Lao Tzu went to your boss and sued you! ”
The driver said, "Just don't let you sit in the car, you go to sue, if you want to sue, you can sue!" ”
Passenger a said "Driver, you don't have to say it, concentrate on driving, pay attention to safety." ”
……
The crowd exhorted, but to no avail.
Under the repeated persuasion of the crowd, the driver stopped talking.
The old man stopped making a sound, but his face was blood red!
So consider the old saying, "Evil comes out of the mouth," and that's true.
If passenger b does not say that sentence, the driver master does not say those three words, take a step back and say, if the old man C is a little more open-minded and does not take the words of other people's laughter and laughter seriously, everything will not be a thing.
All that says "silence is golden", and that less talk and less trouble in case of trouble is the king.
"Let the wind and waves calm down, take a step back from the sea and the sky." This sentence is easier said than done in life, and the story of Six Foot Lane is thought-provoking and worth learning.
The story goes like this:
During the Kangxi Dynasty of the Qing Dynasty, a man named Zhang Ying came out of Tongcheng, Anhui Province, who became a scholar of the dynasty, and the neighbor Wu Shi wanted to encroach on the border land of his family's house, and Zhang Ying's family wrote to Beijing, asking Zhang Ying to suppress Wu's arrogance with official authority.
Who knew that Zhang Ying replied to a poem: "Thousands of miles of cultivation books are only for the wall, so why bother him to be three feet." The Great Wall is still there today, and Qin Shi Huang was not seen in that year. "The meaning is clear: back off.
The family got the poem and took the initiative to give in three feet.
Wu Shi heard it, was moved and retreated three feet, three plus three equals six, it became "six feet alley". At the entrance of the alley, the middle of the yin text is engraved with the picture story of "Three Feet Alley".
Tolerance is a valuable quality, whether it is tolerant can be said to be a collective display of a person's popularity and demeanor.
Tolerance is an essential quality for success - if there is no amount of leniency at all, and everything is calculated, how to cooperate with people? Do you still want to succeed in this era without cooperating with people?
Keep your heart calm, calm and elegant, cherish the people in front of you, do a good job in the moment, and happiness will be within reach.