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The brain is the most important organ of the human body, but it is also the most complex organ. Scientists have been studying the human brain, but so far they haven't fully understood it.
In Freud's "The Interpretation of Dreams", it is written that human dreams are related to the subconscious, and the subconscious mind is some repressed emotion, which lurks in the deepest part of our hearts and can only be manifested in the dreams of the dead at night.
By observing your dreams, you can become aware of your current situation and find out what the problem is. Therefore, dreams often give people a wake-up call, and the three major signals that appear in the dream represent the great evil and indicate that there may be some not-so-good things in your life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="28" > dream of falling from a height</h1>
This is a very common dream, falling from a height, and the same meaning of jumping off the building, no one will easily describe this matter, jumping from the upper floor, either dead or injured, I believe that in real life, I have also seen or heard of what a tragic phenomenon it is to fall from a tall building.
This kind of dream implies fear, represents that you have lost control of the things around you, and generally means that you have recently experienced major changes around you, which has caused great impact and trauma to your relationships and life, and people who are under heavy pressure are most likely to have this kind of dream.
When a person came to do psychological counseling, he explained that he had such a dream: falling from a tall building, the feeling of weightlessness made him very frightened and uncomfortable, and then fell into the deep sea, and fell from the sky for several kilometers to the ground, such a vicious circle of dreams. This friend had recently checked out depression.
So this dream represents stress and loss of control, and he's sending you a message: You're already in an overload of work and should adjust a little bit to take a break.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" > dream of being chased by monsters</h1>
Dreaming of being chased by monsters, or dreaming of being chased by evil spirits, symbolizes the fear of death and the content related to death, unlike dreaming of being chased by people, the monster that appears in the dream is a giant made in your subconscious, you shape the fear and worry into a creature, it is chasing you, symbolizing a simple fear.
This fear may be a fear of desire or a fear of feelings. Representing that your life is "forced" to carry the weight forward, and at the same time there is a strong uncertainty about the future, and the appearance of such dreams by women means that recent bad luck, career obstruction, stress, and may have some major diseases in the body.
At this time, you must adjust your physical and mental state, especially those strong women. Men dream of being chased by monsters, which means that the career may encounter great obstacles, and there may also be unexpected injuries coming, remember not to be too tired, pay attention to the safety of the trip. This kind of dream represents insecurity and fear – you have to face your inner fear slowly, otherwise it will only make it worse.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="9" > you dream that you are terminally ill and dying</h1>
It is another dream related to death, of course, do not be too afraid, this dream does not mean that you really want to have a terminal illness, it mainly reflects the problems in your interpersonal relationships, you may be lonely in life, no one really understands you, not by the attention and care of family and classmates, friends.
Everyone subconsciously longs to be accepted and recognized, and I wonder if you have ever been isolated? This feeling is very helpless, there is a feeling of imminent "death", feeling abandoned by the world, and even the urge to commit suicide.
So you subconsciously long to be recognized, in the dream to create a scene of your terminal illness, to get everyone's care and respect, of course, the most wanted is sympathy, you hope that there is a person in real life who can understand your suffering, understand your sadness, and can hurt you from the bottom of your heart.
This kind of dream means loneliness and helplessness. Some people say that this dream is a warning of cancer, but there is no scientific basis for the time being.
Of course, it is a definite reminder to you that it is time to make some changes, otherwise it will continue to sink, and then you may actually do something that you regret.
There is such a law in psychology, it is called Feistinger's law, similar to the butterfly effect. Specifically, 10% of your life is made up of what happens to you, while the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happens.
In the book, Feistinger gives an example: when Castin went to work in the morning, he put a high-end watch on the washstand, and his wife was afraid of getting wet, so he put it on the dining table, and when his son accidentally broke it, Hastings beat his son and scolded his wife.
The two quarreled because of this matter, Castin did not eat, ran directly to the company, found that the briefcase was not brought, when he returned home, he found that the key was not brought to his wife to ask for the key, when the wife rushed home from the company, she knocked over the fruit stall next to it, made a long time to let go, and also because of the early withdrawal of the month's attendance award, the son was eliminated because of the first round of the baseball game because of a bad mood.
In this case, the three people were in a bad mood and reacted badly to the other 90% of things to cause bad luck, and the watch was broken only 10% of them. When we have these dreams, it means that we are in a bad mood, carrying too much pressure on our bodies, and our attitude towards things has changed.
Maybe a very small thing will be magnified by us. For example, the phenomenon of learned helplessness, which has a characteristic, is that it will generalize, and a small thing can make the person have pessimistic thoughts, which is very scary and will lead to bad things around us.
However, don't be too afraid of the above dreams, adjust your mentality in time, and pay attention to rest.
Dreams are indeed related to the subconscious mind, the correct analysis of dreams, is conducive to our better understanding of ourselves, understand what our most real needs are, we do not have to blindly believe, it has no bad signs, after all, dreams and reality are opposite.
Releasing the repressed things and adjusting your state is the most important thing.
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参考资料：Collins, N. L., &Miller, L. C. (1994). Self-disclosure and liking: a meta-analytic review. Psychological Bulletin, 116(3), 457
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