Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
When people are deeply in love with someone, they become blind and naïve.
Through the sweet words and vows of the sea and mountains that came out of the population, you believed every word.
Believe that he will give you happiness, believe that he will live with you, believe that he will not be touched by others in the days to come.
As a result, the affection of the people who are three or four twilight people hastily disappears like a cloud of smoke.
You were still thinking about the two of you, but he suddenly got tired of you.
I didn't love you anymore, I didn't care about you anymore, and it wasn't even long before he came together with someone else again.
People who have betrayed their feelings will behave in a particularly inferior style.
While pretending to deal with you, while sneaking in with others.
He thinks he is smart, but there is a saying called "there is no fire in the paper", and what he does will one day be known to you.
On the day you expose the truth, men tend to have two reactions:
Either weep in front of you and say that he regretted it in the first place, or he tore his face directly with you and said that he did not want to live with you for a long time.
At this point, you have to make a choice, but in fact you don't know what you are doing to be right.
I want to tell you: the person you love changes his heart and learns to deal with it like the following, and you win.
If you have always believed that true love has collapsed, you must learn to be good to yourself and live well, otherwise, you will not have a good life in your life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > recognize reality and stop deceiving yourself</h1>
People who have changed their hearts like to make excuses for themselves the most.
Obviously, he did something sorry for you, but he had to blame all the mistakes on you.
One will say that you are not gentle enough, he will be attracted to others; the other will say that others deliberately approach him, and he has to do that.
If you want to be a little smarter, you shouldn't believe that. Unfortunately, there is a kind of woman who always has illusions about the man she likes.
He said so, and you believed it. In the days that followed, you began to dress yourself up and toss yourself, thinking that this would bring his heart back to you.
As a result, nine times out of ten, he still can't break off his relationship with others, he treats you like a fool, and you are still thinking about how to please him.
When a person decides to communicate with others behind your back, he is not worthy of your efforts.
He knows the harm his actions will cause you, but he still chooses to do so, which shows that this man neither respects you nor cares about you.
Self-deception, just a formal relationship, he will not love you more than ever, this is the truth.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > Don't cry, don't let yourself get hurt</h1>
Being betrayed by a loved one is, of course, a heart-wrenching thing.
However, the pain must be moderate, and no matter how sad you are, you cannot hurt your body.
I have seen a kind of woman, after learning about her partner's relationship with others, first crying, and then not eating or drinking.
The reason why she chose to do this was first of all to vent her emotions, and secondly, she should want to use her own embarrassment to make men feel guilty about her.
But how much is the pity of a man who has changed his heart worth?
Even if he hurts you in that moment, it is only his expedient, and you don't know what he will do to you later.
Is it necessary to use it as a way to abuse yourself, and to change that person is good for you?
Feelings have come to such a point, what is most needed is your sanity, for such a person to die or live, really too out of the ordinary.
How to go in the future, you need to think carefully, you have to hurt yourself at this time, life will certainly not be better.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > live well for yourself, and be more good to yourself in the future</h1>
One person's deviance will leave a mess in the feelings of two people.
He is the one who makes the mistake, but at the same time, he gives you a problem.
Whether to go or stay, sometimes it is not so easy to decide, if there are children, it is even more difficult to get away.
Women are always soft-hearted, especially when people reach middle age, they will think of enduring this kind of seemingly mysterious relationship for the sake of their children.
But at the same time, your heart hurts, and you spend a day with him, and you suffer for a day.
At this point, you should persuade yourself to look down on it, stop begging for his cheap care, and learn to love yourself.
No matter what he does to you, you have to calculate your future, save some money for yourself, and leave a way back.
The harm he has given you will be repaid one day, he is doomed to not get anyone's sincerity, how good can the end be?
In people's feelings, they must have backbone, don't be low, don't lie down, and don't deceive yourself.
When you are with him, you are willing to live a hard life with him, but in the end, he easily changes his heart.
Is it necessary to redeem such a person? Is it necessary to entangle?
When I chose to be with him, I wanted to be pampered and cherished by him, and the result was that he gave you the most hurt.
Forget it, from now on, you are you, he is him.
Even if you still want to live together, you should think more about yourself, and the happiness he can't give, don't ask for luxury. You run yourself well, is the only way out.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.