Seven points full for eating, seven points for drinking, seven points for lovers.
Women are used to love with their ears, and when they hear a few words "I love you and be together", they are very happy, but they do not know that the ear root is too soft is a disease and will lose themselves.
Love is an ability that can be released and taken back. If it is difficult to harvest the water, it will hurt yourself.
No matter how much you love someone, you must leave the following "bottom cards" of life, in order to respond to changes with no change and calmly be yourself.
01
No matter how old you are, you must have the courage to turn around and leave.
Too many women, after losing love, will be confused for a long time because of a sentence of "can't put it down", and even a lifetime can not extricate themselves.
Zhang Ailing said: "When I met you, I became very low and very low, all the way down to the dust, but my heart was joyful." And a flower blooms there. ”
At that time, Zhang Ailing fell in love with Hu Lancheng without hesitation, even if he was more than ten years older than her, he was a hypocrite, and his family could all be accepted.
She thought that as long as they understood each other and truly loved each other, even if Hu Lancheng used her residence as a hotel, it didn't matter.
Hu Lancheng is an amorous person in the end, no matter who he is, he will not be responsible for the end. After several marriages and divorces, Zhang Ailing was completely forgotten.
Met the negative man, really hateful. But women should not blame each other, but reflect on themselves.
Humility can be exchanged for touching, but it cannot be exchanged for love. Two people who truly love each other are right and love each other.
If you love wrong and insist on not turning around, then you lose it is the whole life.
"It can withstand the wind and rain, but it cannot withstand the ordinary; the wind and rain are in the same boat, and the sky and the sun are scattered." How many men, in the midst of suffering, cling to the hands of those around them, let go when the rainbow appears.
Therefore, women must put the power to break up in their own hands, rather than resigned to fate and be dumped around.
02
No matter how rich he is, he has to work to earn money on his own.
One of my cousins, Xiao Gu, has been at home with children since she got married and never goes out to work again.
The circle of life is slowly shrinking into the circle of the family.
Xiao Gu often complained that at the end of the month, the family had no money to buy rice, so she could only ask her husband for it. If the husband's business is not good, he will be furious: "I know that I want money, what else can I do except this?" ”
Women should understand that the money they earn is spent in an atmospheric way.
In case, the man doesn't want you one day, and you don't have a job and savings, you have to go through a long period of lows. Re-establishing networks, joining the workplace, and adapting to society will not be too easy.
Tu Lei, a love mentor, said: "Girls must be financially independent and have the ability to make money. At any time, don't live with your boyfriend, so that you can have a voice in love and even marriage. ”
Love cannot be eaten as a meal, and if you have money, you can eat well, and everyone is the same.
03
No matter how bad the marriage is, keep yourself clean.
There is a saying in the countryside: "If you do the first year, don't blame me for doing fifteen." ”
That is to say, a person will have a sense of revenge. When the other party hurts themselves, they must use the same way to return the "hurt".
When meeting a man who casually betrays his marriage, a woman is bound to be angry. Some women, with emotions, looking for new relationships, think that by doing so, their husbands will be uncomfortable and they will return to the family. Such behavior is really stupid.
Even if the marriage is about to fail, we must live today and maintain the moral image we deserve. As for getting a divorce certificate tomorrow, make another plan.
Don't do bad things during the day, and don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door at night. Be a clean person, at any time, you will not suffer losses. Leave the dirty things to others.
In addition, stealing, calculating others, poisoning hands behind their backs, selling their bodies and souls, etc., do not do it, do not break the jar because the marriage has failed.
04
No matter how hard life is, try to improve yourself.
When he was young, Sanmao, because he saw a picture of the Sahara Desert in National Geographic Magazine, liked it and walked there without hesitation.
Her husband, Jose, lived with her at home in the desert. The house is very small and dirty, but Sanmao is not abandoned, trying to clean the house and planting flowers at the door.
The yellow sand in the sky was desolate to the extreme, but Sanmao felt the beauty. Always insist on reading and writing books.
She wrote in The Story of the Sahara: "Life, in such a desolate, backward and poor place, thrives as much, and it does not struggle to survive..."
Yes, the meaning of life is not to struggle all the time, but to live gracefully in painful places, and to laugh and talk when life is at its worst.
No one knows whether married life will get better and better. When the darkest hour comes, you don't live to be a resentful woman, but experience life with your heart and find an outlet for the light.
Days, always get better. The ancients said, "Happiness gives rise to sorrow, and things must be reversed." "There's nothing set in stone. People who can live happily and happily have been actively facing the ups and downs of life, even if they encounter accidents, it is also an unexpected surprise.
05
"No one has far-sighted worries, but there will be near-term worries."
Whether the present is good or not, you must have long-term plans. Every step of life is designed by yourself, someone walks with you, that's because he loves you very much; someone is separated halfway through, it's because he has another way to go.
Loving someone is a very painful thing in itself. For women, marriage is a second life.
At the beginning, we must carefully consider that we should not regret and cry because we are in love with someone with extremely poor character.
The person who loves you treats you as a priceless treasure, and you are worthless to the person who does not love you.
Love or not love, there are too many variables, the only constant is - you can change yourself.
Woman, take your hole cards, you are the queen.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.