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How many people have you loved in your life?
In Mr. Mu Xin's poem "Once Upon a Time Slow", he once wrote: "Once upon a time the sun became slow, and the cars, horses, and mail were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime." "The love in this poem, how many people yearn?
And now, in the era of fast food love, don't say that you only love one person in your life, even the pursuit of a person, it is only three or five days, or ten days and a half months, the more you grow up, the more you find that the so-called love, has become more and more inconsistent with our imagination, we are becoming more and more impatient, and it is less and less difficult to have a long-term relationship.
01.
Strictly speaking, in the movie "October Sonata", what is constructed is a love triangle. But in fact, from beginning to end, the two people who love each other have never changed, and here you will see that the choice between the people I love or the people who love me has never been entangled, because for them, some people meet for a lifetime.
Because of the news of the unfortunate death of the idol, the grieving Xingzhen went to the idol's memorial service, but accidentally met a man named Lavi, who was about to go abroad to study for a master's degree, transporting luggage all the way to a friend's place, but bumped into the soulless Xingzhen.
The short hitchhiking trip made an inexplicable affection between the two young people, and in the dark of night, the fireflies after turning off the headlights were the first light in the gray and dark world of Xingzhen. Xingzhen, who grew up in an orphanage, was often beaten by the director and felt that life was unfair, while Lavi, who was also poor, felt that no matter what kind of person he was, he had the value of existing in this world.
The Yukin and Ravi in the movie "October Sonata" are destined to be a fruitless love affair. One represents the sun in Thai, while the other is the moon. The sun and the moon are always in different time dimensions, and it is difficult to see each other.
When did love begin? Maybe it was at the moment when the two people looked at each other, or at the place where she said she wanted to see the idol crash, or when she saw the fireflies in the sky, she was serious and fascinated? Maybe even he didn't know it. Love, often without our own knowledge, comes silently, but in the rest of our lives, we will spend a lifetime of nostalgia.
Because of the delay along the way, the arrival time was too late, the friend had already slept, and finally Ravi and Xingzhen walked into a seaside hotel called "Pearl Hotel". At the hotel, they chatted and talked, and he read her favorite book for her, told her that the girl in the story was called "XiaoLe", and she told him that she wanted to be a girl like Xiaole.
But he said, wait until you read it and tell me if you still want to be her. Although it is a story, it is a metaphor for this movie. In the end, the two people agreed to meet here on October 8, two years later, and then start a new life.
02.
The first engagement between Zhen zhen and Ravi was two years. For real life, two years can actually change a lot. Some people are in love, some people are married, some people have children, and some people are divorced. But for Xingzhen and Ravi, everything is just to fulfill their original promise to meet with the people they like on October 8.
In the past two years, While working, Xingzhen went to night school, learned to read and read, in order to understand the books that Ravi gave her as soon as possible, in order to know early whether the "Xiaole" in the book was what she wanted to be. In the process, she also met another boy, Lin.
Lin is from China, the family is good, and she is also very good to Xingzhen, and she can't be picked up every day, if she hadn't met Ravi, maybe Lin was indeed a very good choice for Xingzhen.
Many people are entangled in this choice, who should I choose to love mine and what I love? At one time, I also thought that maybe everyone would be entangled in this, and then I understood that the reason why we are entangled is only because we are uncertain in our hearts, uncertain about our feelings, uncertain about our hearts, and uncertain about the people around us.
But there is a kind of person who really knows how to choose and will stick to it to the end, such as Xingzhen. Unfortunately, 2 years later, on October 8, when Xingzhen dressed up and waited for him with the book he gave her and her self-confidence, she waited for his default. But even so, she still did not give up on her agreement with him.
03.
What is the best love? I think it must be powerful and give me growth. For you I have become a better self, for you I actively work hard, for you I insist on my original intention, I think that this kind of love is the best love.
Before knowing Lavi, Xingzhen had always been an ordinary female worker with no great ambitions, although she felt that life was unfair, she did not want to resist, let alone think about what to fight for. And Lavi's love gives Xingzhen hope, and Lavi's belief ignites Xingzhen's motivation to fight for her own strength.
But in the end, when she thought she could reach happiness, she didn't wait for the person she wanted to meet, and the person she didn't want to see was always by her side. After a series of blows, when the ideal is defeated by reality, she begins to gradually accept reality and marries Lin, who loves her deeply.
All the regrets of missing out are regrettable, but regrets happen from time to time in our lives. And the truth behind those regrets is even more painful. She did not know that on October 14, 1973, about 400,000 protesters led by Thai students launched a demonstration to overthrow the junta. Ravi was part of the protest crowd. The soulless Andrea Yukin agreed to marry Lin when Ravi was arrested.
On October 6, 1976, the military bloodily suppressed student protests and the military regained power. Many of the left-wing students who participated in the student movement fled into the mountains and forests and went into hiding. Determined to leave Lin's Xingzhen, when she returned to the Pearl Hotel on October 8, Ravi had fled into the mountain forest, leaving Xingzhen with a typewriter and a letter encouraging her to embark on the creative path.
Every year on October 8th, Xingzhen will come to the Pearl Hotel, looking forward to seeing Ravi again, hoping to see him still be healthy, this is love, but also obsession. Until the hotel withered, until the hotel became the hotel of the forest...
04.
From marriage to divorce, from uncultured "tailor girl" to becoming a writer, all of this is supported by Ravi's belief, and in order to match him, she strives to become a better version of herself.
Every year on October 8, whether she was single or married, they would wait for him at the hotel they had been to, which was 14 years, but they finally saw each other very few times, until they finally learned of his death.
Zhen's life is lucky, but at the same time unfortunate. Fortunately, she found the love of her life in the vast sea of people, and she insisted on it for a lifetime. But unfortunately, in that turbulent era, the people she loved did not give her the ideal life, but the people who loved her guarded her for many years.
"He is the sun, sending light to the atrium of my heart. I am the moon, glowing in the darkness of the night, and at dawn, I hide in the tops of the rolling mountains, looking at him, and blooming into the world. "The love of Ravi and Xingzhen is the love of the sun and the moon, which cannot be together, but always give each other warmth and light.
Suddenly, I remembered a sentence that He Yichen said in "Why Sheng ZhenMo": "After meeting you, I knew that everyone else was going to be ready." "This should be true love."
It's just that sometimes, the affection when you look at others is also an irreplaceable light in the eyes of another person. If in the end the sun and moon can't be together, will it be another kind of happiness if you try to accept the stars? Unfortunately, life has never been if, and people who love deeply always make people more distressed.
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