"Wine and meat lovers"

There is a kind of romantic relationship called": "wine and meat lovers".

Eat one. At a meal, it is clear that there are grievances in the heart, and it will also be done. After watching - a movie, there is no desire to communicate. Made an appointment to hang out together, and didn't deliberately prepare a plan. Quarrel, unhappy, buy a gift to coax one-coax, just fine. You can stay up late and chat until dawn, and most of the conversation is trivial entertainment. --Cut peaceful and friendly, it seems to be quite sweet.

However, as soon as you touch a deeper intimate relationship, you begin to expose various problems, such as long-distance relationships caused by work problems, such as marriage problems caused by the original family, such as complaints and anxious communication caused by stress, such as making emotions when you encounter money problems, such as never thinking about whether to be happy in love or want to marry a person.

Most of this state of feeling is: take-step, count one step.

In fact, you have not opened your own world, nor have you entered the heart of the other party. You're not enriching your spiritual world because you're in love, you're just looking for someone to fill in the boring time. When that thumping heartbeat quiets down, the truth of life begins to settle small accounts with you.

What is the ability to have a deep love?

We get along with a person, is to run into the temper of two people, to exchange two people's views on something, bad habits and good habits, we will all learn from someone, you have the financial ability not to attach to others, he has a clean and neat execution ability, you are very familiar with office software, he is very good at photographic design, you. Occasionally lying in bed without makeup, he always steals supper late at night, one person's self-discipline ability will drive another person, and the same person's negative energy will also infect another person.

After a while.

Have you learned to control your emotions as a result?

Are you holding back your constant need for love and attention? Do you have the temper of peace of mind and listening to ugly truths?

What matters is whether you can clearly express your ideas, your needs, your self-awareness, and not hide things, do not hide words, and do not hide clumsiness in the process of chatting.

Another period of time passed.

When there is disagreement, you can understand each other's grievances

When gambling is awkward, can you solve those bad problems?

In the event of a misunderstanding, are you still willing to believe the other person and listen to the explanation?

The empathetic thinking we say on the lips, most people can't do it, you can transpose but your way of thinking is still your way of thinking, you don't understand each other's hearts, for example, I don't hate you eating street stalls, I don't hate your work is not good, I don't hate your family is not good, this is not called empathy understanding, this is called understanding and pretending to be confused, very mindful to say so, appear generous. Those quarrels look. The words that go up without going through the brain are actually the words of the heart.

Falling in love is looking down, not looking down.

Have you learned to calm your emotions?

Have you learned to say "no" to things you hate? Have you learned to stick to your bottom line and not be afraid to lose the other person?

Have you learned to be happy on your own?

With the people you like, after a long time together, you will naturally learn how to coddle each other, lose your temper, flirt with each other, negotiate, make plans, share dreams, etc., you will also learn to leave your gentleness, kindness, cuteness, and upward side to people close to you, you will become a person who "makes others comfortable", you are willing to understand each other's world, you are willing to accompany each other out of the valley, you will not care about hard work and pay, you learn to cooperate, you will see that there is a road ahead, you hold hands tightly.

Falling in love is not just two glamorous people, standing together - talking about the passage and laughing not to talk about tomorrow, but two people are scarred but hugging each other tightly, still looking forward to tomorrow.

Whether a person has a little monster or a little angel in his heart has a lot to do with who you meet, think carefully about this period of time when you are in love, whether you have become better or a little worse, so you are very clear that you are in love with luck or trouble.

Take a good look at love, in fact, most people lack not the object of love, the lack of love ability, and love ability, sometimes, does not necessarily need to be learned from lovers