No matter how hard it is to study, compared with the struggle for survival in society, studying and living in school is the most comfortable time in life. This is true not only of modern people, but also of the ancients. The Yuan Dynasty literary scholar Yao Fu wrote a small order describing the twists and turns of the psychological journey from the comfort zone of school to society.
《Putianle Beiyou Zhejiang Autumn》
(Yuan) Yao Fu
Autumn in Zhejiang, Night in Wushan.
Sorrow goes with the tide, hatred and mountains stack.
Han Geese come, Furong thanks.
Cold rain and green lights read the schoolhouse, afraid of parting and early parting.
Tonight drunk also, the Ming Dynasty to go also, rather nai more.
Appreciation:
Yao Fu's small order was interpreted by previous people as the theme of farewell, and carefully read, the author is the one who was sent away. The Yuan Dynasty was very dark for Confucian readers, the imperial examination was held from time to time, and sometimes it was not held, and the road to advancement was basically closed, and most of them relied on recommendation. Yao Fu was a Northern Han, the Yao family was also a northern Noble Family, the teacher was the Northern Confucian Xu Heng, and Xu Heng was Kublai Khan's dragon minister, so Yao Fu's social resources were very good, and his career was high all the way, and he gained fame and fortune.
It is reasonable to say that Yao Fu had been studying in the north when he was young, and should not have been to Hangzhou, Zhejiang, but it is not excluded that Yao Fu had travel experience.
The background of this small order seems to be that Yao Fu was ordered by the family to suspend his studies for some reason during his study tour, summoned back home, and made other arrangements for use.
Therefore, after Yao Fu learned of the family's arrangement, the first psychology was "worrying". From a young reader to a spokesperson for the family, there will naturally be trepidation. However, in feudal society, the glory and mission of the family is higher than the existence of the individual, so sorrow must be overcome. Therefore, Yao Fu said that "sorrow goes with the tide", and wanted to understand, the sorrow naturally faded like the tide of the Qiantang River.
The second psychology is "hate", and the hatred here is not resentment, but the helplessness and regret of the individual ideal succumbing to the will of the family. Yao Fu is the author of the Yuan Dynasty, very much admiring the Confucian learning of Zhu Xi in the Southern Song Dynasty, and the pursuit of learning may be the ideal of the young Yao Fu, who came to Hangzhou in the south to study, perhaps for this. This is equivalent to knowing that you can study with a master's degree and a doctorate, but the family orders you to go home and take over the family business, and it is also common sense to have the resentment that it backfires.
Therefore, at this time, Yao Fu had "hate", "hate and mountain stacking": the regret in my heart was as endless as Wu Mountain on the edge of the West Lake.
Yao Fu's third psychology is a contradiction that is difficult to give up friends and must be broken. Therefore, Yao Fu said: The cold autumn rain, the blue light of the lamp, saying goodbye to friends in the study, reluctant to part, but must be hastily parted.
Since this is the case, it is better to have wine in this dynasty and get drunk in this dynasty, and after the Ming Dynasty, we will welcome a new beginning, abandon our burdens, not blindly depressed, and show the true color of openness and relaxation.
Youth should be like this, sorrow and sorrow do not stay overnight, full of passion to meet the new process.