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Cai Qin: Falling in love with a man who does not love himself, the marriage ends in tragedy, and the old age is released

The entertainment industry has never lacked idiot men and women.

This year's melon in the entertainment industry is stubble after stubble.

No one expected that Huo Zun, who was the main immortal, and the story of his ex-girlfriend Chen Lu were boiling over.

Compared with Chen Lu and Huo Zun's 9 years of time, what makes people feel even more worthless is the ten years of folk song diva Cai Qin and Yang Dechang.

Cai Qin: Falling in love with a man who does not love himself, the marriage ends in tragedy, and the old age is released

Ten years of sexless marriage, ten years of unrepentant giving, Cai Qin and others are Yang Dechang's cheating, showdown, divorce.

In 1984, Cai Qin's mellow singing voice has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and men, women and children hum a few words of "Your Eyes" from time to time.

Cai Qin: Falling in love with a man who does not love himself, the marriage ends in tragedy, and the old age is released

On the other hand, Yang Dechang crossed half the world and returned to Taiwan from the United States to pursue his film dream. On the way to chasing dreams, one of his phone calls changed Cai Qin's life. Yang Dechang is preparing to make a new movie, he invited Cai Qin to be the heroine, after the film was filmed, the two also fell in love, and the next year, they entered the marriage hall. From life to work, after marriage, Cai Qin became a full-fledged nanny, in addition to taking care of Yang Dechang's living, she also sang the theme song for her husband's movie, cameo role without hesitation, and even for the later publicity, even the work of an artist was also done together.

Cai Qin: Falling in love with a man who does not love himself, the marriage ends in tragedy, and the old age is released

Yang Dechang gradually became one of the new Chinese directors, the combination of talented queens, attracted many envious eyes, on the variety show, Yang Dechang, who is not good at words, always has to be maintained and saved by Cai Qin, when asked why there is no crystallization of love, Cai Qin is full of expectations, Yang Dechang said: "We must consider well to have children." No one expected that the host and the audience came with blessings and waited for a divorce statement between the two. In 1995, Yang Dechang showed cai Qin: "I am tired of such a marriage, and I have fallen in love with someone else, divorce it." Cai Qin was confused after listening, and she asked incoherently: "Where am I not doing well, can I not get a divorce?" Yang Dechang was already determined and did not want to say a word.

Cai Qin: Falling in love with a man who does not love himself, the marriage ends in tragedy, and the old age is released

Cai Qin's tears and pleading, did not save her husband, after completing the divorce procedures, Yang Dechang married his lover as he wished, this time he did not need to consider, soon had children. Cai Qin finally collapsed, people know that ten years ago, Yang Dechang proposed to Cai Qin before marriage that the feelings of two people should be pure, and marriage can only be a "spiritual couple", and Cai Qin, because she loves her husband deeply, even agreed! Cai Qin, who was 38 years old at the time of divorce, was unable to be a mother once. After crying, hurting, begging, and getting tired, Cai Qin slowly learned to let go. She finally understood that whoever she loved was not as reliable as loving herself. She told her friends, "I have so many things I haven't tried!" Learning to dance, learning to act, she began to march towards song and dance drama.

Cai Qin: Falling in love with a man who does not love himself, the marriage ends in tragedy, and the old age is released

In the first performance, Cai Qin put on makeup and looked at the mirror, and before she went on stage, she was already in tears: "After a year of preparation, today I finally want to present it to the audience, and the result is no matter what, I am already great!" With the applause of the audience at the end of the curtain, the atmospheric and confident Cai Qin returned.

When Yang Dechang died, reporters scrambled to call Cai Qin, and the whole world pricked up their ears, waiting for the ex-wife to show her attitude.

Cai Qin choked up: "Life is so short, Yang Dechang, you go to find someone you like earlier, isn't it good?" ”

This sentence is said to her ex-husband, but also to herself.

Cai Qin: Falling in love with a man who does not love himself, the marriage ends in tragedy, and the old age is released

Now 64-year-old Cai Qin stands on the stage, less stubborn, more elegant and calm.

The long road of life, anyone can meet the wrong person, rather than continue to consume themselves, turning around and leaving is a wiser decision. Spend your time and energy on people and things that are worth it, dare to say goodbye, and be rewarded with new beginnings.

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