Some time ago, Xu Yaoxuan, a teacher of Chinese opera, was asked such a question in an interview: Are the girls in Chinese opera married well?
Xu Yaoxuan said that girls like those who graduated from Nortel in The Chinese Opera generally do not marry too badly. First of all, these people's image will not be bad, and they have gone to a good university, and their income is also good, so why marry poorly?
At first glance, Teacher Xu's words seem to be very reasonable, but if you think about it carefully, you will find that this answer is obviously avoiding the important and light. In fact, what netizens want to know is not the equal "marry well", but whether there is such a kind of marriage?
Or to put it further, why do female stars in the entertainment industry want to marry into the rich?
Of course, the reason for this is very simple, nothing more than for power, for power, for wealth, and compared with it, the so-called love has suddenly become cheap.
Is it just that the giants are so easy to enter?
First there was Chen Farong who missed the second generation of the giants and still hated to marry, and then there were Liang Luoshi triplets who had children, but they still could not enter the Eyes of the Li Family.
As for those who marry into the rich, they may not have a good life.
Guan Zhilin divorced less than a year after marrying a rich businessman, and later she wandered among several rich people, but she was only used as a plaything by the big guys.
Ye Yunyi married Chen Baihao for 5 years and divorced, and was angrily scolded by her father-in-law and ex-husband for "demanding too much", and now she is said to be a sales lady.
And like Gan Wei and Liu Tao, who marry "fake giants", the bitter fruits are also to be carried by themselves.
But these are not nothing, really compared to it, Shen Lijun is the most miserable "rich wife".
After all, others have only given their bodies and youth at most, but what she has lost is a living life.
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In 1983, Shen Lijun was born in the magic capital of Shanghai.
Regarding Shanghai, only friends who have actually survived there know that although this is a metropolis full of opportunities, the "sentient beings" around you always remind you of what is the real "class gap".
Among these gaps, there is not only the local people's sense of superiority over outsiders, but also the Huangpu District's contempt for Minhang District, and even more Tomson Yipin's disdain and contempt for alley alleys.
Shen Lijun's parents are locals, but they are only a humble member of the millions of "ordinary locals".
Therefore, if Shen Lijun is responsible for going to school, working, and marrying, then she may also pass her life ordinary.
It's just a pity that Heaven has doomed her to be unusual.
In fact, only from the word "Lijun", we can see her parents' beautiful expectations of her, and Shen Lijun has never lived up to this expectation.
From a very young age, she was born with a beautiful embryo, and later when she grew up, she became more and more watery.
However, compared with her appearance, Shen Lijun's studies are very general, and she only went to a very ordinary vocational college after the college entrance examination.
After Shen Lijun stepped into the society, this bit of education really did not help her find a job in the slightest.
But fortunately, with her tall figure and Peugeot's looks, she also sought a part-time job as a model.
After the modeling circle has been mixed for a long time, Shen Lijun has also broken out some reputations.
For example, what Taobao Wangwang Star, NetEase Bubble Campus Champion, Ruili Shanghai Fluttering Star Champion, and head text D Drift girl competition runner-up.
Later, she was favored by Korean advertisers and took over the endorsement of the online game "Eternity", and won the title of "Shanghai's First Beauty".
Next, she ventured into the entertainment industry, and successively participated in film and television dramas such as "The 601st Phone" and "Family Happy Affair 2009".
Of course, if you really want to calculate, at best, it is a third- or fourth-line small actor. After all, in the great entertainment industry, this kind of actress is a big catch.
But the important thing is that as long as she can constantly show her face, it is enough for people with hearts to notice her.
And Li Lijun's future "rich second-generation husband" Wu Kaixin is also one of them.
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It was at the wedding scene of the two mutual friends, Shen Lijun and Wu Kaixin, who met for the first time, saw each other as before.
Shen Lijun's conditions are naturally needless to say, her figure and appearance are extremely outstanding, and few men can not fail to notice her. Although Wu Kaixin's appearance is not outstanding, it can also be called generous, coupled with his solid family foundation, it has always been a woman who pounces on him.
The two can be said to appreciate each other, so they quickly came together.
Shen Lijun later recalled, "Everything was very beautiful at that time, two people one sunny and one kind and humorous. ”
She liked to watch movies, and he took her to the movies.
She likes to play mahjong, and he accompanies her to play mahjong.
She loves to travel, and he wants to go with her even if he drops off all his work.
In this way, Shen Lijun gradually indulged in the sweetness of love and could not extricate herself, but at that time, she did not know that all this was just a gentle trap.
At the end of 2010, Li Lijun, who had been in love with Wu Kaixin for 8 months, married into a rich family and officially began the unfortunate second half of her life.
Probably because of the self-conscious "high climbing", Shen Lijun has been trying to play the role of a wife after marriage. Although she had a nanny at home, she went to learn pastry baking in order to please her mother-in-law and husband.
Unfortunately, when she brought the cake to her husband, instead of exchanging a word of praise from the other party, she also said that she was not as good as the country grandmother.
At that moment, all the sweet disguises of the hot love period were completely torn apart in an instant.
In addition, the giants pay the most attention to the continuation of incense, so not long after marriage, the mother-in-law urged them to have children.
Helplessly, Wu Kaixin's sperm deformity rate is high, and Shen Lijun's body has been relatively weak, although she is actively preparing for pregnancy, but after becoming pregnant, there were signs of threatened miscarriage.
For this reason, when she gave birth to the eldest and second eldest, she continued to play fetal protection injections, adding up to a total of more than 200.
Later, after giving birth, Shen Lijun's body was still very weak, coupled with three consecutive months of lochia, so that her spirit and body suffered double torture.
But at that time, because there was often news that the nanny poisoned the child, she still insisted on taking the child with a handful of and a handful of urine, and the mother-in-law did not trust the child to sleep with the nanny.
And at this time, what is her husband Wu Kaixin doing?
During Shen Lijun's pregnancy, Wu Kaixin went out day and night to play cards, and when she returned home, she was indifferent to her wife.
After the birth of the child, he went to sleep in another room because the child was too noisy at night. But these are not the most excessive, for Shen Lijun, when pregnant with the second child, she found that her husband cheated on her, which was the most fatal blow to her.
Shen Lijun once mentioned divorce, but in the face of the bitter pleading of her mother-in-law and husband, she believed them softly.
Even though she knew that everything they did was for the sake of their unborn child. But she is still willing to believe that after the birth of the second eldest, her husband will gradually accept his heart.
Unfortunately, she did not see this scene in the end, but waited for the "little three" to step by step.
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Shen Lijun's social platform has sent a lot of imaginations about a better future.
Ironically, in the comments under these dynamics, there is often an account full of ridicule for her.
If nothing else, it is all the masterpiece of the "little three".
Finally, Shen Lijun fell ill!
Her chronic depression led to depression and was diagnosed with cervical cancer by doctors.
Until this time, her husband did not show a trace of heartache, but said that she "didn't just take a child, so pretentious." ”
Shen Lijun quarreled with him, she said, "If I don't die, you can also divorce me and Xiao San."
Wu Kaixin's answer was, "I don't divorce you to collect your body."
That time, Shen Lijun, who had never beaten anyone before, raised her slap and threw herself at her husband in front of her fiercely.
Later, she ran to her mother-in-law to complain, and her mother-in-law said, "Originally, he was still wrong, but if he hit someone, it became that you were wrong." The mother-in-law's calf-guarding remarks completely crushed Shen Lijun's heart.
And in the end, Shen Lijun's ending was just as Wu Kaixin said that day, a word became a slur.
When she left, Shen Lijun had thought about taking her two children with her, but in the end she couldn't bear it.
She left her children with many instructions, hoping that they would survive in that cold home.
After all that should have been said, Shen Lijun slowly stood up, and she walked to the balcony on the 28th floor and jumped lightly, ending her short life.
In the last sentence of the suicide note, she wrote: "The path I chose myself, but now I am cornered." ”
Giants are hard to get in and hard to get out.
Although Shen Lijun used to be hard, she was happy to earn money with her own skills.
After marriage, she is no different from a "house finch" with broken wings, and she can't fly out of the "high-walled deep courtyard" no matter how she flies.
In fact, for unmarried women, Shen Lijun's story is not a wake-up call.
No matter how sweet the love that comes up, it is not as stable as the marriage that is evenly matched. Because in the end, the only thing a woman can rely on may be herself.