When you are young, you toss and toss more, that's right, toss well, maybe you can really toss a piece of the sky, just like the old saying, "love to fight to win".
This tossing energy, young people have, but people are over fifty, especially couples, if they still toss those unreliable things, if they don't do well, they will toss their blessings away, and the evening will be difficult to guarantee.
That's not a good thing.
is old, old and young, with a family on his shoulders, and he can no longer do whatever he wants like when he was young.
After this age, you have to live a stable life, don't toss blindly, tossing too much, it's really asking for trouble.
01
Still comparing with other couples, and then not satisfied.
People, appropriate comparison can stimulate motivation, but always staring at the life of other people's homes will only make your own family chickens and dogs jump.
Don't compare yourself with other couples at every turn, and then go home and push your other half to the brink of exhaustion.
Just like a family I know, the woman doesn't have much money herself, but she picks and chooses every day, thinking that her husband earns less, forcing the other party to breathe.
In the end, the two quarrel every day, and the family is in a miasma, what is the meaning of this life?
At the age of fifty, the career has long been finalized, so how can there be much room for development?
Instead of spending time arguing, learn to collect your heart, enjoy a rare tranquility, and stop worrying about meaningless vanity.
When a person reaches fifty, he has money in his hand or not, and the most important thing is to run a harmonious home.
Those who blindly dislike each other and don't make much money end up asking for their own hardships.
The two quarreled all day long for money, and finally consumed all the family warmth that should have been.
To put it bluntly, at this age, you should know how to be content, cherish the peaceful days in front of you, and don't always think about who makes more money than others.
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Do not discipline yourself morally.
People at this age should have planned for the rest of their lives a long time ago, but some people don't know how to converge.
I know an old neighbor, the man is messing with flowers outside, and the woman is not far behind, and the house is full of miasma.
This kind of person, counting on a happy old age when he is old? No drama at all.
In fact, when people are over 50, the most important thing to do is to be down-to-earth, run the family well, exercise well, and save the money in their hands.
Stop tossing around and live a steady life is the wisest choice.
Who doesn't want to grow old and have a peaceful life? If you can't even see through this truth, you have really lived all these years in vain.
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Excessive financial expenditure.
If you want to gain a foothold in society, you must have a clear understanding of your own economic level.
Those who invest impulsively and expand their spending will only push themselves into the abyss.
I know an acquaintance, Lao Liu, who is in his early fifties, and suddenly on a whim, he wants to do some side hustle to make a lot of money.
When he saw that the people around him had made some money in business, he felt that he could do it, so he invested hundreds of thousands of dollars without saying a word.
But the market is a cruel battlefield, and as soon as his business opened, he was overwhelmed by his peers.
After tossing for several years, all the savings were put into it, but the money was not earned, but a lot of debts were owed, and the family was almost unable to live.
When people reach middle age, their physical and mental strength is not as good as when they were young.
At this time, making a big move is like taking a dead branch to pry a boulder, not to mention the power, and it is easy to be smashed all over the body.
When you see others buying houses and cars, you follow suit, and when you see others investing in projects, you also rush in, and this kind of follow-up will only bring endless trouble to yourself and your family.
Especially when they are about 50 years old, the two of them should focus on stability, and stop thinking about "fighting".
Blindly adding large spending, even a small twist and turn, can leave a family in financial distress or even breathless.
We always think that we can be exceptional, but reality teaches us to be human beings again and again.
Let my words come into your heart
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