If we talk about the life experiences of those who are doing well,
The common trait of these people is that they do not make obvious mistakes, and they will correct small mistakes in time.
There are also some people who have made big mistakes, but correct them with a resolute attitude, and for the small mistakes of capsizing in the gutter,
They also have a very serious mentality and are ready for battle.
When talking to them about the rights and wrongs of certain issues, they often do not take into account the so-called "diversity of groups".
Right is right and wrong is wrong, especially when talking to them head-on.
There are reasons and evidences on the table, and the discussion is not about the explanation of those mistakes and nonsense.
but through dialogue,
to understand the cost behind those choices.
One of my friends talked to me about the cost issue.
He had a very good friend when he was young, and the two had known each other for more than ten years.
But his friend is very fun-loving, and he plays crazy, compared to the cautious rationality of this friend,
The other party is like the opposite of his life,
Or rather, the upside-down side.
However, in the relationship of friends, you don't have to deliberately pay attention to whether the other party's personality is the same as your own.
On the contrary, if the two people are too close, it is easy to have compromises that are difficult to overcome.
Therefore this friend of mine, and this friend of his, because of their different personalities, and because of their mutual recognition,
has been getting along for more than ten years, and the thickness of their friendship can be imagined.
It's just that his fun-loving friend went astray and touched something that shouldn't be touched.
And the other party also asked his friends to "learn to enjoy life" like himself.
As I said before, my friend is cautious and rational, and he knows that he must not touch those things.
And I also advise my friends to stay away early, otherwise it will cause a catastrophe sooner or later.
As a result, it is not surprising that the other party was carried away by the so-called passion and lifted out the vital conditions between them,
If you are friends, you will play together, and if you don't play, you will not be friends.
As soon as these words came out, it was too hurtful, and this friend of mine still recalls his timely refusal,
also seems to feel a little guilty,
Of course, he was not guilty of his refusal, but of his guilt for failing to help his friend see the seriousness of the problem as soon as possible.
On that day, they broke off contact completely, and it didn't take long for the friend to learn that something had happened to the friend.
In the days since, although they have never seen each other again, friends always think about their former relationship.
has been inquiring about the status and progress of the other party,
It's a pity that there is reincarnation in the way of heaven,
Oh no, it should be said, fortunately, there is reincarnation in the Heavenly Dao.
His friend, completely ruined on the "passion journey" he pursued,
Later, a friend attended his friend's funeral,
Offering a bouquet of white flowers, placed next to the once familiar smile,
The happiness in the photo is destined to never return.
When a friend told me about this past, he told me that he never regretted his judgment on this matter.
He knew that there were some things, and the cost of falling deeper and deeper was far beyond what he could bear.
This is not an exaggeration, but if it is the end of the relationship itself, the friend for those who are seduced and unrepentant,
also gave a sufficiently clear and firm evaluation,
Speaking of which, the evaluation itself,
It's the same way I often summarize certain groups in my articles.
The evaluation is, deserved.
There are some things that you regret when you think about it one more time.
But the reason why I still have to do it is not because I didn't think much about that step.
but didn't realize that the step of thinking too much had an impact on themselves.
how crucial the impact is,
This step is wrong, and it is destined to become more and more difficult.
And the result of self-inflicted suffering, after all, can be sympathized and comforted,
But sympathy and comfort, in the end, are nothing more than those words based on politeness,
and more eyes will be locked on the emerging cycle of cause and effect.
Yes, if people have clearly seen the cause that "should not have appeared",
That fruit is destined not to be too far away.