I summarize 9 words: more accompaniment, less interruption, and guidance.
3~6-year-old children's concentration in learning is not long. Parents don't have to worry too much, pay attention to more guidance in the future.
My story
My child is now in kindergarten and this is his second child. Because cultivating my sister's interest in reading began in the first grade, it took a lot of effort at that time.
So I still attach more importance to Erbao's reading habits. At the age of one, I started subscribing to toddler magazines and reading them with my baby. 3-5 minutes each time. When my baby can't focus, I stop.
Later, the child's mobility increased, and it was no longer me holding the baby in my arms to do whatever it was, and the reading was carried out intermittently. In retrospect, I should have read at that time.
Then the baby didn't cooperate, so I stopped. Because the sisters are obsessed with cartoons. But my sister spends other time reading her favorite books.
It is conceivable that in order to limit the scene at home when children watch TV. I was racking my brains.
About four years old, I used the app to show the story to Xiao Erbao. And then it got out of hand. A collection of stories is about 50-60 episodes, and children can listen to it four or five times.
When listening to stories, he is the kind of person who listens while playing, a bit like grinding his ears. Therefore, there is no way to judge the child's concentration. I never bother when he's playing. Sometimes you can play for an hour or two by building blocks on your own.
Because the kids are going to school! I started reading with my children again, and then I found that the books I had chosen were not of much interest to them. I don't think I met a child who particularly likes it. Or the child doesn't like the form of sitting there reading a book.
Because he can also do homework and draw at the desk. It can be ruled out that you can't sit still.
Then I took him to read and memorize ancient poems, and the children could accept it. I can't memorize it at first, but I can remember it after repeating it a few times.
Personal Opinion:
I think so! When it comes to children's education, it is important for parents not to be anxious, not to compare, and not to urge.
Sometimes I can watch other people's children do anything, and it's fake that I'm not in a hurry. But let's think about it from another angle, it is normal for other parents to teach early and persist for a long time, and the children will be more.
Let's start to insist on it for 1 year now, and the children will get no less. So, the important thing is to get started! This is inseparable from the company of parents. For such a young child, it's not realistic to let him learn by himself!
To cultivate children's concentration, it is important for parents to distract less. Because the child's concentration is not high, if the parents always disturb the child, the concentration is scattered, and the child will no longer focus on this matter. You may also be quickly attracted to other things.
Parents can refer to the following points:
(1) Plan your time.
For example, when you are about to eat and go to bed, don't let your child play games that require thinking and do things that require concentration. Therefore, parents should plan the approximate time allocation of their children each day.
(2) Accompany but do not disturb.
Sometimes children pull their parents to play with them. Avoid judging your child's game when playing.
Just imagine, when we are doing something, there are always people next to us who comment on this and give an opinion from time to time, will it disturb our train of thought?
Therefore, when playing with children, adults should make fewer remarks and can play quietly with themselves. Unless the baby asks for parental involvement or help.
In life, we can only control our own behavior, but we can't decide the behavior of others. If your child's concentration is interrupted or distracted by the family, parents should not worry.
Say
Mom and child are planning to build a building block castle, and dad brings some fruit for the baby to eat. The baby's attention is immediately attracted by the delicious food. And the castle was only partially built.
At this time, the mother can wait for the baby to finish eating the fruit, and then guide the baby to rebuild the castle.
There are quite a few situations in life that are interrupted. It is a very important ability to let the baby return his attention to what he has to do before, and it is also part of cultivating the baby's concentration.
Raising a child is not difficult, but it is not easy to raise a child well. Parents, let's do it together!
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