Text: Huiyu
Have you ever had the experience of a quiet evening or a leisurely afternoon when you suddenly began to think about the meaning of life and the key factors that ultimately determine our happiness in old age?
We often think that money is the measure of quality of life.
But savor it carefully, the final tragedy of a person is not actually shyness, but when the years pass to the age of 50, the family falls into the following three embarrassing situations.
Lonely shadow alone in a row
Those heroes and heroes in history.
For example, Cao Cao during the Three Kingdoms period was famous, but in his later years, he faced the desolation of parent-child rebellion and family strife.
Among Cao Cao's many sons, there are many talented people, but in the end, due to the struggle for power and status, family affection has become thinner than paper.
This can't help but make people reflect, no matter how powerful and rich you are, if you can't share it with your family, won't you become a lonely person?
The family should be the warmest harbor, but once the family is estranged, it will be like a ship losing its lighthouse, and people will be adrift in the vast sea.
After the age of 50, if there is a lack of harmony and understanding in the family, it is really sad.
The offspring are weak
Another thought-provoking topic: the education of children.
Su Shi of the Song Dynasty was talented and had profound literary attainments, but he also failed to give his children enough companionship and educational guidance due to his unsuccessful career, which led to the fact that his descendants were not smooth on the road to the imperial examination.
This makes us realize that the long-term development of a family is inseparable from the cultivation of future generations.
After the age of 50, if you find that your child, because of the lack of early education, is unable to do anything in terms of knowledge, skills and personality formation, that sense of powerlessness and regret is also difficult for money to make up.
As the "Three Character Classic" says: "If the son does not teach, the father is guilty." ”
Educating children is the unshirkable responsibility of parents and the cornerstone of family happiness.
The family style is not right
In ancient times, Meng's mother moved three times, just to give her son a good growth environment, and now there are countless families, because of the improper family style, resulting in their children going astray.
In a family, if the parents are inconsistent in their words and deeds, and their greed is rampant, how can the children who grow up in such an atmosphere learn to be honest and kind?
"If the family style is right, the descendants will prosper, and if the family style is evil, the door will decline."
After the age of 50, looking back on the past, if you find that no one in the family can stick to the moral bottom line, the heartache may be more difficult to accept than poverty.
As Mr. Lu Xun said, "Education is rooted in love." ”
This good family style is the most valuable wealth to be left to future generations.
The road of this life is getting longer and longer, and the scenery after the age of 50 needs to be appreciated with more heart.
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