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This woman is the most calm woman in the whole universe after being derailed and having a family.
She is an actress, and her husband, who is married for half his life and is also separated for half a lifetime, who often beats him and cheats on him, is a rock singer, born violent, and at the age of 69, he took a picture without clothes and appeared in newspapers and magazines.
It doesn't look like it fits.
However, the world has never been unreasonable - there is no way, who let her love him, after more than 40 years of walking together, she still loves him.
She would only say, "I like him all, and if there is a next life, no matter what, I will always be vigilant and never see him again." Because... If I meet him again in the next life, I will still fall in love with him and spend my life like this again. ”
It's so chic.
This person is the Japanese film queen, Kiki Shirin.
On September 15, 2018, Shirin Kiki passed away at the age of 75.
The number of awards in her life is uncountable, but she is always humble and kind, and when she dies, all her relatives accompany her, generously attending appointments and going happily in warmth.
When we usually see her, she often appears in films where the Japanese director is Kore-eda, such as "Walking Non-Stop", "Like a Father Like a Son", "Deeper Than the Sea", "Thief Family"... She is always a knife-mouthed tofu heart inside, seemingly a little mean, but in fact Shinda is gentle like the image of the ocean's grandmother.
Moreover, she is not an ordinary actor, so many years of acting experience, so that she has a divine stroke beyond the director's thoughts.
It was in Kore-eda's movie "Thief Family" that Grandma said "Thank you" at the beach, which was not originally arranged in the original script, but Kiki Shirin as an actor at this time, she felt that she must say "thank you".
In this way, all emotions can be vented.
This scene is a classic scene in the history of film "the director did not shout to stop, but created a miracle on the screen", many people are tearful when they hear this sentence, and they also lament that the old drama bone acting skills are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
In addition to Kore-eda, she has also starred in many famous movies, for example, she is the mother in "Tokyo Tower" who slowly pulled her son to adulthood and has been silently paying.
He is also, in "Remember My Mother", when he was young, he "abandoned his son" and finally suffered from Alzheimer's disease.
If we take our eyes off the screen, the real-life Tree Shirin Grandma is not only a little weird, but also "cool" that doesn't fit her age.
Most people give Grandma a very high evaluation, and feel that there are many contradictions in her, and the attitude is also my own, showing the problems that a normal person and ordinary people will encounter in life.
She wasn't perfect herself.
Kiki Shirin also admitted that he was not very social, his temperament was too strong, and even his husband, who also had a very strong personality, was afraid of him, but in a certain way, he could not do without him.
Yoshinaga Koyuri, who is also a famous Japanese actor who has worked with Kiki Rin many times, said: "I thought that the personality of director Hirokazu Kore-eda was already very strange, but I didn't expect you to be even stranger than him." ”
Kiki Shirin smiled.
Oh, yes.
What would he do if he were to be someone else, and the husband punched and kicked himself every day, and the husband had run away from home, filed for divorce for an unknown number of times, got into trouble outside, and cheated frequently?
Most people's choice is either to get a divorce quickly or to get revenge.
Kiki Shirin made a crazy choice —
I don't care.
I love you, so the more violent you are, the more extreme I am.
For 45 long years, I want to live by minute by minute.
Because I love you, never give up.
……
Originally, Kiki Shirin didn't want to act, and life made a joke for her.
In the distant year of 1961, Japan held an actor audition for the Literature Seat.
A short, chubby girl with a face that was not thin, but somewhat rounded, silently walked up from the crowd to the front desk.
Only to see her stand on the stage, her voice bright and high-pitched: "My name is Keiko Nakatani, 18 years old this year." ”
Then, suddenly, she said, "I actually wanted to be a pharmacist, but I had a broken bone and missed my exam." ”
Watching this round-faced girl say these words very contrastingly, looking at the seriousness, the audience was laughed forward and backward by this sudden turn.
In this way, she entered the show business circle.
Two years after the Japanese theater troupe, she debuted under the name "Yugi Chiho".
Then she went out of her way, and after a while, she actually sold the name to an ordinary restaurant for twenty thousand yen, and said goodbye to the name.
I don't care about the fame I've accumulated.
Instead, I found myself a dictionary and gave it a new name.
Trees Shirin.
As soon as you hear the name, you will see the forest, trees, and natural scenery in front of you.
She seems to be indifferent to many things, does not care whether she is red or not, does not care whether anyone likes her, and whether she needs to concave a person who looks pleasing to the eye.
Never.
Nor does it.
In the matter of acting, she has always said that "everything follows fate", she does not act in those love dramas of Qingqing me and me, you and me, and even young girls do not act.
On the contrary, he favors the role of "old man".
When she was only 30 years old, Kiki Shirin would pick the role of the elderly grandmother.
She really loves acting and loves the role.
Kiki Shirin's first husband was the actor Kishida Mori (have you noticed that the names of the two are a bit compatible?). It was a very short-lived marriage, and after four years of unremarkable life, Kiki Shirin was discouraged and chose to give up the marriage.
For most Chinese, her first husband was really famous, not because Kishida Mori was more famous in Japan than other artists, but because he shot a lot of special dramas and accompanied the youth of many people.
Among them, there are "Strange Wars", "Dinosaur Express", "Sun Squad Solar Vulcan", etc., of course, the most famous is the Japanese Showa era "Jack Ultraman".
This is also a film that is regarded as a god by many Ultraman fans, and the plot is exquisite, full of speculation and thought-provoking.
His career success did not allow him to sustain his marriage to Kiki Shirin, and It is a pity that Kishida Mori himself died young in 1982.
Speaking of Kiki Shirin, after experiencing the failure of her first marriage, her heart seems to have lost its luster, she has reached a certain age, not the hopeful girl of that year.
The scars of love always need love to heal it again, and the single Kiki Shirin occasionally, when filming in the woods.
A rock singer passed by her.
Just one glance, love at first sight.
Since then, Kiki Shirin has encountered the greatest happiness and greatest misfortune in life, and perhaps this is the norm of long love.
This man is Yuya Uchida.
He is a rock singer, but also a part-time screenwriter, the real punk is very talented, uninhibited, Kiki Shirin sees him, it is like seeing the real redemption of ordinary life, the two of them have known each other and been in love for only five months, and the two people can't wait to get married.
At the wedding, the two of them did not wear suits and wedding dresses, and both of them stepped forward in jeans, ready to run for future happiness.
But for a rock singer and an actor in the arts, long-term happiness can be an unattainable luxury from scratch, and in just two years, the two of them are separated.
The love between the two of them was probably the most brutal sadomasochistic love of that era.
It is simply that there is love and killing at every moment in life, and in the short two years of getting together, Uchida Yu also smoked, drank heavily, and many times went home, leaving a lot of wounds on Kiki Shirin's body, and finally even became a very serious scar for the actor's acting career.
Compared with the pleasure of marriage, the two of them at this time seemed to be powerless to slide into the abyss, and for a period of time, the first thing Kiki Shirin did after waking up every day was not to wash and tidy up, nor to cook on the fire.
Instead, head to the JC Bureau first.
That's right, it was to go to the JC Bureau, she reported to the JC Bureau, hoping that when the family bao happened, JC would be able to get to the scene as soon as possible to prevent this from happening, and JC was also shocked when the trees first came.
But every day, JC finally knew the unusualness of the couple, and finally solemnly promised, you only ask for help, we will definitely arrive immediately.
And, no matter what he did, Kiki Shirin was a word— resolutely not to divorce.
Uchida Yu also can't stand it, as if he is determined to destroy this marriage, in addition to punching and kicking Kiki Shirin, he often cheats, and also breaks into his ex-girlfriend's house to make trouble in order to reunite with his ex-girlfriend.
He was also arrested for repeated intrusions into homes and attempted extortion.
If it were another woman, I am afraid that I would have long since left this man who did not love her, who was heinous, and too dangerous, and that there would only be many disasters and hardships in the future, and nothing else.
Kiki Shirin is still the same sentence - I will never divorce.
She really loved him.
That's how she lives, and living together is also life, and being separated is also living, it's a condition, and my life can't be without you.
For decades, it didn't seem easy for outsiders.
When Kiki Shirin's husband cheated, public opinion was shaken and there was an uproar, and the media all ran to Kiki Shirin's door early in the morning, blocking Kiki Shirin, waiting for an interview with the exclusive news.
Afraid of inconvenience to the neighbors, Kiki Shirin opened the door to welcome all the reporters, and said, "I'm going to make tea now, please wait." ”
After a while, she came out of the kitchen, just made herself a cup of tea, and then sat firmly in a chair and began to be interviewed, she lived her life very elegantly, not the sadness that outsiders thought.
The coolest man was still waiting for his husband, even when he was thrown a bottle and his ribs were broken, just as he had seen him for the first time.
Unfortunately, after separating from Kiki Shirin, Uchida actually derailed in a brazen manner, his life was extremely chaotic, and he abused drugs similar to dupin, and even went to make a SQ movie.
With this kind of husband, Kiki Shirin's face was thrown away by him.
She still said that.
"No divorce, I love him."
In the end, the first to file for divorce was Uchida Yuya, who filed for divorce in the 8th year of separation.
Ms. Shirin still insisted on not divorcing.
It was his love for him, but it was also his punishment.
The divorce case caused an uproar at the time, and everyone was watching the outcome of the verdict, and in the end, she succeeded.
The court ruled not to divorce.
As usual, she smiled and said to Hiroya Uchida, "Lose the case." ”
In this way, the two became older and older, but the connection between marriage was never broken from the two of them.
It may be precisely because of this unusual life that Kiki Shirin's acting skills have become more contemplative of life and human nature itself.
Kiki Shirin once said this —
"I really like to argue with people. Arguing, the ones that the other person hates the most, and the small piece that he wants to hide the most, will pop up in the quarrel, and I think it's funny. I'm the kind of person you definitely don't want to make friends with. ”
"However, it is precisely because of my personality that I think the profession of actor should be able to continue." If it were in other ordinary societies, I might have been wiped out very early, because I was an actor and survived to this day. ”
Perhaps because of this, it has led to her cooperation with director Hirokazu Kore-eda for so many years, thinking that although Hirokazu Kore-eda is a big director with international fame, he also has this enthusiasm and strange temper, which is really very compatible.
Kore-eda once said, "He saw divinity in Lady Kiki Shirin. ”
Kiki Shirin, on the other hand, said, "Take care of you." ”
In Kiki's old age group, she also told an interesting story about someone interviewing her once.
"Many reporters want to come and interview me, and they have been asking me about topics such as 'old age', 'death' and so on, and there is really no way to do it... I really don't have much to say. You have to ask me: 'What do you think of death?' I don't know, I haven't died, I'm still young. ”
She wasn't afraid of this.
At the age of 60, illness kept coming.
In 2003, when she was 60 years old, she lost all her sight in her left eye due to retinal detachment (and her vision slowly recovered a little later).
In 2005, at the age of 62, she underwent total mastectomy due to breast cancer.
After that, the cancer cells slowly spread throughout the body.
Kiki Shirin said, "Now, death is at hand." In this sense, cancer, a disease, is very valuable. ”
She sensed the dividing line between life and death.
In 2018, Kiki Shirin passed away.
She never felt afraid, silently greeting the arrival of the last moment, really like a saint, showing the greatest brilliance in the ordinary.
Finally, among the burned bones, Uchida Yuya also picked up a piece.
Not long after, Uchida Yuya also accompanied her, and when she died, Uchida Yuya's coffin was also buried with a bone of a tree Shirin.
They were buried together.
Before dying, Uchida Hiroya kept saying: "She is the strongest mother ever, the strongest actress, the most powerful wife." I wouldn't kneel down to her, but I apologized to her in the spirit of rock'n' roll that I've upheld all my life. ”
Thunder and lightning, as violent as the flames of rock spirit, this obedient, unruly, crazy rock old cannon after kiki Shirin died, dare to admit that he lost, rock lost to his wife's self-denial and tenderness, and her silent and long expedition.
They loved and killed each other for half a lifetime, and they knew in their hearts that this life could never be separated, so they were also together after death.
The two men went through a magnificent life until the end of their lives, and finally reconciled.
During Kiki Shirin's lifetime, someone asked her, "What advice do you have for today's young people?" ”
Kiki Shirin said, "Please don't ask me such a difficult question. If I were young, old, I wouldn't listen to anything the old man said. ”
Speaking of which, I'm an ordinary person, and I won't listen to anything they say.
She lived her life on her own terms, without complaint or regret, and never tried to teach anyone else anything.
Family, blindness, cancer, these ordinary people in the eyes of the misery appeared in her, but did not affect her heart.
She did go through a lot of pain, but, was it really miserable?
And Uchida Yuya's epitaph may be what this incompetent husband and incompetent father really want to say to Kiki Shirin, which has become the best afterglow left in the world after the end of Kiki Shirin's life.
"Go to his M's Yuya Uchida."
At this time, Kiki Shirin and Uchida Yu would not speak again, but if people really had a spirit in heaven, I believe that this kind and enthusiastic grandmother would still say that to him.
It won't change.
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