Someone said: "The stupidest behavior in the world is to reason with others, and always remember: the position is different, and less words are precious; Cognition is different, there is no need to argue; The three views do not agree, and the tongue is wasted. If the heart is small, anything is a big thing, and if the heart is big, everything is a small matter, only by constantly improving their own pattern can they not invade all kinds of poisons, the way of thinking determines the way out, and the pattern determines the outcome. ”
The only way to win an argument is to avoid an argument, and if you win an argument, it will be dishonorable, and if you lose an argument, you will be angry. Really smart people keep their mouths shut, silence is golden, they don't compete with anyone, they don't take advantage of their tongues, and they don't use gushing language to brush their sense of existence. There are mountains and seas in the heart, quiet and indisputable. The three views are different, and there is no need to be strong. The position is different, and it does not have to be at the same frequency. The circles are different, needless to say.
Not every fish lives in the same sea, and not everyone has the same values and way of thinking. Even if what others say is wrong, it has nothing to do with you, listen to it if you want to, walk away if you don't want to listen, don't say important things to unimportant people, don't say unimportant things to important people, control your mouth, be cautious in words and deeds, and don't quarrel or quarrel, which is the top self-discipline of a person.
When the heart is big, the matter is small. When the heart is small, the matter is big.
Constantly improve your own pattern and realm, tolerate other people's cold words and strong words, no matter how conflicting views, smile slightly, and everyone is fine.
