July 28 was the big day for a couple in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, when the bride and groom were leading the convoy back to the groom's house in a Bentley, they were stopped at the gate of the community.
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At the gate of a community in Zhengzhou, an unusual scene of "wheelchair interception" was staged. Five seventy or eighty-year-old ladies are quite respected in the community on weekdays, but this time they blocked the gate of the community in wheelchairs, just stopping a convoy to welcome relatives.
Seeing this, the host immediately understood, and hurriedly got out of the car and handed red envelopes to each old lady, hoping to take the bride out smoothly. However, the old ladies were still not satisfied after receiving the red envelopes, felt that the money was not enough, and resolutely refused to let the convoy enter the community.
Five elderly ladies in wheelchairs huddled in a row in front of the gate of the community. These old ladies are all residents of the community, the oldest is in his eighties, and the youngest is in his seventies. When the wedding car drove to the door, the host quickly understood that this was the old rule of asking for "red envelopes".
The host hurriedly got out of the car and handed each old lady a red envelope, thinking that this would be a smooth release, and everyone was happy. Who knew that the old ladies were still not satisfied after receiving the red envelopes, and signaled that they wanted more. Now the main family was really sad, so in desperation, they had to take out the red envelope and distribute it again.
Even so, the old ladies did not give way. The crowd of onlookers couldn't stand it anymore, and they came forward to persuade them, and finally persuaded them to leave the gate.
This kind of behavior of stopping the wedding car to ask for red envelopes is really a headache for the newlyweds, and it also makes us feel that this old custom is really infuriating - give it once, and even have to do it again and again!
Some netizens ridiculed: "Whose old man is this?" A large screen should be installed at the entrance of the community to play their pictures on a loop, so that their children can claim them and take them home! ”
Some netizens said: "This kind of behavior can be dealt with by the police." Two days ago, I saw a video of an old lady who was taken away and detained by her police uncle for blocking the road to ask for red envelopes. In our hometown, it's okay to stop a car to please you, but if you ask for money or make excessive demands, you will definitely be punished! ”
There were so many witnesses around, and these five old ladies didn't care about any courtesy, righteousness and shame, so they had to block the road and ask for red envelopes. After persuading the people around them for a while, they reluctantly left. This kind of behavior really made their children lose face in the local area, and there must be a lot of discussion around them. Imagine how their children will behave under the critical gaze when they find out.
The local sub-district office responded that they usually mainly persuaded them, and they also felt helpless in the face of this situation, so they could only try to persuade them to leave.
Marriage is a festive event, and everyone wants to have a ceremony at an auspicious time, but it can be a real headache. The children of these old ladies should really educate their elders well and not cause trouble to others.
On July 29, the reporter contacted the local sub-district office, and the staff reluctantly said that they could only try their best to persuade in the face of such a situation.
These old ladies are old and have complicated physical conditions, and it is indeed difficult to deal with them strongly. In the event that they fall during the conflict, it can also give rise to other legal problems.
Netizens have discussed this, and many people said that it is really embarrassing. Many netizens fried the pot, bluntly saying that it was too embarrassing for their children, and questioned how the children of these old people would feel when they saw this scene. They questioned whether it was really appropriate for such behavior to cause chaos on other people's important days.
You said that these old people are old and look inconvenient in wheelchairs. In this case, no one dared to quarrel with them, after all, if something happened to the old man, no one wanted to see it on such a festive day.
These old people really understand the psychology of young people too well, and they obviously rely on the old to sell the old and make some small moves! The groom was also helpless, so he had to give another red envelope, which made them give up and make way for them.
Netizens are also talking about this matter. Someone said, "I really don't know where this evil spirit comes from!" Marriage is a happy event, just give some candy, you have to ask for a red envelope, really! ”
If it is to add to the festive atmosphere, it is reasonable to give something to a good fortune, no matter how much. But if it's too little and it makes a fuss, it's obviously looking for trouble, and it doesn't feel good.
If you really want something festive and stand next to it and say some blessings, people will naturally be in a good mood and may take the initiative to give it. But if you stop in the road, it's a different matter entirely, and it feels very uncomfortable.
Locals revealed that they do have a lot of old people here who like to come out to ask for red envelopes on other people's happy days, and this phenomenon has even formed a kind of "industrial chain", and some old people have even joined the "work group", and as soon as someone gets married, they will immediately notify everyone to assemble.
The main reason why this kind of behavior can always exist is that families who do happy events usually don't want to make too much noise on the big day, after all, everyone feels that it is unlucky to call the police on such a day, and many people would rather "break the fortune and avoid disasters" and give some money to ask for peace and harmony. This also invisibly contributes to the spread of such behavior.
One time is not enough, I have to do it again, it's too much! The first time the master was generous and didn't care, but the second time it was obviously unbearable. Is it because they are old and feel that others can't do anything about them, so they can bully others?
This kind of behavior not only almost messed up the wedding, but also completely ruined the couple's good mood. Of course, we should respect the elderly, but this respect should also be selective. Seeing that these five old ladies have gray hair, you can't imagine that they can do such shameless and cheeky things.
To put it mildly, they are old, but their minds don't seem to grow much. And the reaction of the passers-by around turned out to be very flat, is it already strange, or is it just just not caring?
These grandmothers really use their age as a pass, as if old age is a reason to make moral norms float out of the clouds. Such behavior not only gives the bride and groom a headache, but also sounds a wake-up call to the atmosphere of our society!
Older people should also be dignified. We are entering an aging society, and the elderly are our treasures, but the treasures should also maintain their due image. Stopping the wedding car to ask for red envelopes, let's stop doing it, okay?
The moral bottom line is no joke. Morality may seem illusory, but once its bottom line is breached, it may lead to serious social problems.
We can't let this kind of behavior of "stopping the wedding car and asking for red envelopes" become a trend and erode the moral bottom line of society little by little.
Since ancient times, we have paid attention to "the old and the old", and always try to take care of and care for the elderly.
But recently, there has been more and more negative news about the elderly, which is surprising! Some elderly people occupy seats on buses, some rudely flirt with young girls on the streets, and some even shoplift in shopping malls.
No, this time, some old ladies went to the wedding site in wheelchairs to ask for red envelopes, regardless of how indecent this behavior would be. What's going on? What's wrong with the current social climate? Such behavior really shouldn't be a label for the elderly.
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