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Take Uncle To College Qin Mengyao, a girl from Wudu in Longnan Province, has not given up on taking care of her paralyzed uncle for ten years

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The Wudu girl took her uncle to college

Qin Mengyao, who studied in Lan, has not abandoned and cared for his paralyzed uncle for ten years

Take Uncle To College Qin Mengyao, a girl from Wudu in Longnan Province, has not given up on taking care of her paralyzed uncle for ten years
Take Uncle To College Qin Mengyao, a girl from Wudu in Longnan Province, has not given up on taking care of her paralyzed uncle for ten years

10 years ago, 12-year-old Qin Mengyao, still in elementary school, stood in front of Uncle Da's bed and said, "Uncle! It's okay, Grandma grandpa is gone, you and me, I will learn to take care of you! ”

10 years later, Qin Mengyao, who was already in the third year of college, left his hometown of Tanba Village in Longxing Township, Wudu District, Longnan City, with his uncle to Lanzhou, where he had been studying and living for three years.

In Lanzhou in early December, temperatures had fallen below freezing. In the bungalow area of Dianzi Street in Donggang Town, Chengguan District, which deviates from the main road, a cold hut of eight or nine square meters is an old and a small home. Uncle Qinfeng was paraplegic and had been bedridden for 20 years. Niece Qin Mengyao, since the death of her grandparents, has taken care of her uncle for 10 years without leaving...

life! The little girl who is not good at math has been calculating for six years

On the morning of December 7, Qin Mengyao, a junior student in logistics management in the Department of Business Administration of The Evergreen College of Lanzhou University of Finance and Economics, who had just left class, trotted out of the campus and ran back to his "home" not far from the school. Because of the early end of class, Qin Mengyao wanted to add a dish in addition to sauerkraut noodles at lunch, fry a shredded potato, and improve her life for herself and her uncle.

The eight- or nine-square-meter hut has no heating or coal stove, although not long ago a well-wisher gave them an air conditioner, and they did not dare to open it often in order to save money.

Although Qin Feng, who was lying motionless on the bed, rarely went out, the clothes under and off Zhou's body were clean and tidy. When Qin Mengyao's rapid footsteps came from outside the house, Qin Feng moved his gaze from the ceiling of the hut to the door.

"Bo, I'm back, early after class today, let's fry a potato silk ha at noon!"

"The girl is back! Sit for a while and take a break! I'm not hungry yet! ”

"Hmmm!"

Despite this, Qin Mengyao still did not sit down to rest, put down the book, and began to prepare lunch.

"It wouldn't be expensive to eat in the cafeteria, would it?" The reporter asked.

"A box lunch costs 8 yuan for one person, and two people will cost 16 yuan for a meal..."

"We Wudu people love to eat sauerkraut noodles, sauerkraut is what I buy online, it can be much cheaper!" And the following strip is convenient and saves time! While sharply cutting shredded potatoes, Qin Mengyao told reporters that he did not learn mathematics very well, but what he thought about most every day was to calculate accounts, calculate time, and calculate expenses. It takes 6 minutes to walk quickly from school to the rental house, and it cannot take more than 1 hour to eat lunch, otherwise the afternoon class will be late. Spread the rent, water and electricity, food costs, the daily cost can not exceed 70 yuan, otherwise the uncle medicine money is not enough. At night, every two hours or so, you have to turn over your uncle, otherwise it is easy to grow pressure sores, as well as regular medication, regular change of clothes...

Qin Mengyao has been like this, meticulously through the whole 6 years, from high school to college.

promise! You and I, I will learn to take good care of you

"I used to be an English teacher in middle school, and then I quit my job to go to the sea to do the transportation business, and I was paraplegic in a car accident during a car trip. Four or five years after the car accident, his wife ran away from home and never came back..." Qin Feng told the Lanzhou Morning Post reporter, and the doctor said that he would have to be accompanied by someone for the rest of his life. For the first 10 years, his elderly parents took good care of him until the death of the second elder.

"I was 12 years old, and my grandmother and grandfather were gone. Because my family is not well-off, my father needs to work outside the home for a long time, my mother is not in good health, and I have a younger sister and a younger brother to take care of, so only I can take care of my uncle! Taking over Uncle Da's words, Qin Mengyao said that since she could remember, Uncle Da had been lying on the bed. Although he couldn't move, he was very nice to her and often smiled at her. On the learning problems, uncle can always explain them to her one by one. Before high school, she and uncle had been living with their mother and younger siblings, and their mother would prepare their meals, and every night she would accompany uncle and turn over every two hours.

Looking around the cabin, a double bed, a writing desk, a simple electromagnetic stovetop, and a folding wheelchair standing in the corner, this is all the belongings of the two of them. Although the sun was shining outside the window, the cabin without heating facilities was still cold.

Speaking, Qin Mengyao had already prepared lunch. In order to show abundance, Qin Mengyao clipped out the shredded potatoes, covered the sauerkraut noodles in the bowl, and brought them to Qin Feng.

Trying to raise his head, Qin Feng brought his mouth as close to the edge of the bowl as possible. Every time Qin Mengyao fed uncle a bite, he would quickly wipe the soup water stuck to the corner of his mouth with a towel.

choose! Take your uncle to high school

Qin Feng said that in the three years of junior high school, in order to take care of her, Mengyao often ran home in the middle of class, helped him turn over, fed medicine, and gave him urine and defecation. For three years, Mengyao ran between home and school, helping him turn over and get up at night every night. But even so, her studies did not fall behind.

Qin Feng told reporters that until Mengyao was about to graduate from junior high school but dropped out of school to take care of him, he suddenly realized that he could no longer drag his niece down and ruin her future. He thought about suicide, but he didn't even have the ability to commit suicide... Because at that time, except for the slightest movement of his head, the rest of his body could not move at all. During the period when Qin Mengyao dropped out of school, Qin Feng kept advising his niece to go to high school and college, and he could not give up on himself. In the end, after Qin Mengyao re-studied for a year in the third year of junior high school, she was admitted to Wudu Bayi Middle School with excellent results, and she decided to take her uncle to high school. As she said, on the day of registration, she took her uncle to the county seat, stayed in a simple rental house, and began her education.

In the past three years, Qin Mengyao has spent a strong time in the increasing burden of study and the heavy work of taking care of uncle. On the day the college entrance examination results were announced, Qin Mengyao's results were not ideal.

"She tried, she really tried! She was able to get this result, and I am proud of her! I haven't slept a night in 10 years, and I have to go home between classes to cook, wash, feed medicine, feed food, and pick up urine! She was able to take this test and really worked hard! Speaking of this, Qin Feng, who had been happy all along, had red circles in his eyes.

thanksgiving! Thank you to those enthusiastic people who have helped us and are helping us

"In fact, I didn't fall too far behind in my studies, and it was also related to the fact that my uncle had been giving me make-up lessons, after all, he had been an English teacher in middle school." At that time, I had only two choices for my score, either to choose a higher vocational college with lower tuition or to apply for one of the three colleges with more expensive tuition. Because the tuition and living expenses of the previous high school were all donated by school reductions, government support and caring people, I thought, I can't increase their burden anymore, just choose a higher job with lower tuition! Seeing that Qin Feng's eyes were red, Qin Mengyao patted Uncle Da and said. Later, the well-wishers who had been helping them in the local area found her and hoped to continue to help her go to undergraduate colleges, and finally she and her uncle decided to go to Lanzhou to study.

Last year, when Qin Mengyao was a sophomore, Qin Feng proposed to let his niece push him out of the house to look at the scenery of Lanzhou and let the children grow up and see. Because since arriving in Lanzhou, Qin Mengyao has been running between the classroom and his home, and has never been on the street. For the first time, the two of them walked on the streets of Lanzhou. Look at the traffic on the road, look at the tall buildings lined up on both sides of the street. On that day, Qin Mengyao had been using a wheelchair to push him from Dianzi Street to Reader Avenue, and the silver bell-like laughter of his niece behind him was incessant.

"I also thank those who have helped me or are helping me, and I also thank the government!" Without their help, our family would not be able to sustain itself now! Qin Mengyao said that now the two can get about 2500 yuan in donations from various charity organizations and individuals every month, and daily life seems to be enough. Now, what the two fear is getting sick. Qin Feng was paralyzed and unable to move, so there were problems with his entire body function, especially without resistance, and he had to take cold medicine every day. In the room that Qin Mengyao rented, there was a stack of medicine boxes on the desk, and every three days he had to buy cold medicine, and once he had to spend more than sixty yuan. Two days ago, because of the power outage in the house, the air conditioner could not be used, Qin Feng suffered a day of freezing at home, and the condition immediately worsened, and it just so happened that Qin Mengyao also had a cold. Looking at the girl whose small face was pale and so uncomfortable that she couldn't even open her eyes, and she had to turn herself over again and again in the middle of the night, Qin Feng felt particularly guilty.

Qin Feng said that the most rare thing in the world is the long-term companionship and care that does not abandon and does not give up, no regrets, and Qin Mengyao, a girl, has done it. From the age of 12 to 22, ten years of time, more than 3600 days and nights, Qin Mengyao gave Qin Feng the courage to live, and Qin Feng also made Qin Mengyao firm in his determination to continue further education, and they have become each other's spiritual pillars.

At the end of the interview, the Lanzhou Morning Post reporter asked Qin Mengyao what difficulties she still had for her and needed help from the outside world. Qin Mengyao thought for a moment and said, "There is no difficulty, I can handle everything myself!" At this time, the firmness on her face made people feel respect. Qin Mengyao said: When she graduated from college, she would take her uncle to find a job, and no matter what step she took in the future, she would take her uncle with her.

Text/Lanzhou Morning Post/Pocket Lanzhou Reporter Xia Miao Photo/Lanzhou Morning Post/Pocket Lanzhou Reporter Zhao Xinyuan

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