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Retirement means a new chapter in your life. I don't know if you've noticed it, but those who live comfortably in retirement have similar attitudes and practices in the following areas.
Don't worry about your children, don't be a babysitter for your children. When children grow up, they have their own concepts of life and ways of doing things. If the elderly always measure and demand their children according to their own standards, and quarrel endlessly if they do not agree with each other, then the family relationship will inevitably be strained. Just like driving on the same road, young people like to drive fast and seek excitement, while old people seek stability and safety, if they blame each other for this, how can the road be smooth? In addition, after retirement, some elderly people devote themselves to the life of their children, taking care of their children and taking care of household chores, and they are busy like a spinning top. But this not only exhausts oneself, but also makes children dependent. Wise elders know how to give their children space to grow up independently, and they can also enjoy their own leisure and family life.
Accept the imperfect first half of life, and don't self-exhaustion. The road of life is full of twists and turns, who can have no regrets? I once missed the growth moment of my children for the sake of my career, made a wrong investment decision for the sake of my friends, or hurt the hearts of my relatives because of impulsiveness. However, dwelling on the mistakes and regrets of the past can only torment the soul. It's like being stuck in a quagmire, and the more you struggle, the deeper you sink. The past is in the past and cannot be changed, the important thing is to cherish the present and let the future days be full of sunshine.
Be kind to yourself and stop being harsh. When working, for the happiness of the family and the future of the children, save money and save for yourself. I am reluctant to change a piece of clothing after wearing it for many years, and I want to keep a meal in front of my family. Now that you're retired, it's time to be kind to yourself. Stop wronging yourself to save a few bucks, buy what you like, and go where you want. The body is your own, and health and happiness are the most important things. Just like a tree, when you are young, you should shelter others from the wind and rain, and when you are old, you should loosen your ties and enjoy the moisture of the sun and rain.
Knowing that "being too idle is a curse", cultivate your own hobbies. After retirement, I suddenly had more time. If you do nothing all day, the days will become long and boring. Cultivating a hobby is like planting a seed in your heart, watering it with your heart, and you can bloom gorgeous flowers. If you like calligraphy, you can splash ink and feel the charm of Chinese characters; If you like photography, you use your lens to capture the beauty of the world; If you like to exercise, you can sweat it out and make your body full of energy. With hobbies, life has sustenance, and the soul has a home.
Strict self-discipline, smoking moderately, drinking a lot. As we age, our body functions gradually decline. In the past, smoking and drinking may be unavoidable for work and entertainment. But after retirement, you can't indulge yourself anymore. Smoking too much, hurting the lungs; Drinking too much alcohol can damage the liver. We must know how to exercise restraint and grasp the degree. It's like driving a carriage, the reins are loose, and it's easy to lose control; The reins were tightened, and the horses could not run fast. Only with moderate tightness can you move forward smoothly and enjoy a healthy old age.
Life after retirement is like a picture waiting to be painted. Visionary people, with wisdom and courage, sketched beautiful lines and filled them with brilliant colors. They are not entangled in the past, not lost in the present, with a positive attitude and the right way, write their own wonderful. Let's all learn from these visionaries and live quality and happiness in the years after retirement.
Author: Lao Pang
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