This is a real-life case.
A girl named Chen Keke is missing, and the child only disappeared while playing with the bouncy castle.
At that time, Coco's mother couldn't stand the child's play, so she asked Coco to play in the bouncy castle, and before going up, the stall owner said, "You should take care of your child, if you lose it, you will not be responsible." ”
At that time, Chen Ke's mother thought that the exit was here anyway, and the child would not lose it if she looked at the exit.
While waiting for Coco, Coco's mother chatted with the person next to her, and later, she felt that the child was tired of playing and wanted to drink some water, so she called the child at this time, but the child did not respond.
This frightened all the mothers, and immediately called their children.
Except for Chen Keke, all the children were recovered.
Then the stall owner gave up, and the castle quickly deflated, but the child still did not appear, because the stall owner had said in advance that it was irresponsible to see that his child was lost, so the mother took all the responsibility on herself.
Because of her own negligence, the child could not be found, and the mother couldn't bear the pain of losing the child, and began to become in a trance, and wanted to end her life several times, and was rescued many times, but she still couldn't let go of her knot.
Coco's father, who quit his job and wandered around looking for his daughter, discovered that there was something wrong with the castle by chance.
There is a small hole in the inside, which can be slid out directly, once the child walks through the wrong hole, there will be no return, and there will be someone waiting at the exit to catch the child randomly.
When Coco's father learned the news, he immediately called the police, and the police quickly cracked the case, which was a nationwide and premeditated human trafficking case.
But Chen Keke still couldn't find it, and her father kept looking for her.
Nowadays, human traffickers are becoming more and more cautious in their premeditations, and they are more and more likely to use some moral kidnapping to deceive their parents with kindness.
For example, pretending to be a divorced couple snatching children, taking advantage of the kindness of the people around them, and letting the children's parents fall into the trap of self-proof; After chatting with the elderly, I gained new trust, and after learning the specific information of the child, I said that the elderly man was a human trafficker, etc.
These people are all gangs, and at the same time, they use the surrounding people and environment to make people fall into self-evidence, and use this gap to transfer children, which is really unguardable.
I once watched a video of a trafficker who was arrested and bluntly said that "business is good during the summer vacation, and there are no children I can't abduct", and it was really creepy to hear such words.
What if we encounter one?
Of course, in the face of this new type of human trafficking scam, we must learn to deal with it calmly.
First, don't prove yourself
In fact, there is one of the biggest problems here, which is that many people are used to self-certification.
"The junior snatched the child, she is the junior!!" Most people will reply "I'm not, I don't know her." ”
In fact, the question has to be thrown back, "What evidence do you have to prove that I am a junior, take it out." ”
"It's not my child, who will prove it?"
You should get used to the method of the police, never suspect the crime, don't give priority to proving this matter yourself, and let the other party come up with proof to explain the matter.
The voice should be loud, you must not cry, you must be firm at this time, crying will not solve any problems.
Don't listen to what others say, but understand what you say, and don't prove yourself.
Must be in the first 5 minutes, clearly organized, can not go into other people's topics, and at the same time seek help from the people around them, people have a sense of justice, when choosing to designate the shop boss "Big brother / big sister, I believe you, help me call the police." ”
It must not be a random person on the side of the road, but a person who has been doing business here for a long time, and the person who is designated will have a sense of obligation to do the assigned task.
Second, expand the lie
Of course, this method is not 100% usable, because it is very time-consuming, and traffickers may use this time to snatch children.
So if you can't solve this problem in 5 minutes, and you can't get the surrounding people to call the police, then you have to expand the lie.
"I've said I'm not willing to sell D."
"Please, don't use my children to sell D."
"Brother-in-law, the child is not yours."
"Uncle/aunt, the child can't be sold to that person" and so on
Since the other side is lying, it is better to expand this lie, and develop it in a very gossipy or very serious direction.
It's best to say something related to D products, because only in this way can the masses call the police the fastest, and the other party has already involved the topic of human traffickers, so you must find a more terrible topic than this to say.
The police will not sentence you for your lie, and the surrounding people can also realize this problem and quickly call the police, because this is a topic that the whole people are vigilant about.
So in many cases, you can't get the other party to prove yourself, and you can't get into a situation of self-evidence, so as long as you expand the topic, you can get the fastest solution.
Third, expand the scope
When it comes to this point, traffickers often panic, so they will try to solve the problem.
So many people will grab it, and at this time they are fighting alone, and there is no way to resist alone, so they must expand the scope of damage.
1. Speech expands
Find the parents with the children and shout "Sister/brother, the child they want to hold." ”
Refer to a person casually, pull people into the water, and find a husband and wife, don't look for a single mother with a child.
Regardless of whether the person being accused is innocent or not, more people must be implicated.
2. Destruction expands
Damage to very expensive items around you, preferably watching people's mobile phones and the like, the more responsibility you take on yourself, these bystanders will not let go.
"We are together, I have no money, I have to pay them."
At this time, use the previous words of this group of people to tie up as much as possible.
Transfer the risks on your own to them, and turn the onlookers into your own help.
Fourth, the child does not leave his hands or eyes
From start to finish, there is one thing to pay special attention to, and that is that your child cannot leave your hands.
Usually, the child should never leave his or her sight, no matter where he plays, he must ensure that the child is within his sight, and when he finds a stranger approaching, hold his child tightly or hold the child.
Don't worry about your child being strangled, traffickers like to take advantage of this, as long as you feel sorry for your child and let go, the child will be gone.
The healing marks on the hands can be treated through medical equipment, and the most important thing at this time is to protect their children, so the most important thing is not to stay.
What do we do with our children?
01. Information security
From an early age, let children memorize important information: what is the name of the parents, what is the name of the child, the contact number of the parents, what city and what community they live in, important self-help numbers such as 110, 120, 119, etc., and let the child memorize it from an early age!
02. Ideological education
Take your child out to observe and describe more, help your child remember the buildings around your home, remember where you live, teach your child not to talk to strangers, not to eat any food and water other than that given by his family, and to hold his parents' hand when he goes out.
03. Popular knowledge
Buy safe science books for your children, such as the picture book "Self-protection of Children Against Abduction and Deception".
In the book, through the form of picture book stories + pictures, children are given popular science anti-abduction and anti-deception knowledge, so that children know when they are more vulnerable, in addition to anti-abduction and anti-deception, but also to prevent personal harm, what kind of "secret" can not be kept, what kind of stranger accosting is more vigilant, under what circumstances must be told to parents, etc.
In addition, what to do if you are separated from your parents, whether you should help a stranger when you ask for help, what kind of contact you must tell your parents, etc., this kind of information should be given to children after they are 2 years old.
Don't think that two- or three-year-old children don't understand anything, even if they don't understand, parents instill safety awareness in their children through various forms, and over time will form a natural conditioned reflex, when children encounter similar safety hazards, they will immediately remember their parents' advice, so as to avoid danger.
This set of "Anti-abduction and Anti-Deception Children's Self-Protection" picture book is very suitable for 2-6 year old children to read, and it is highly recommended to have a set for a baby of this age.
【Waiting for the Wind】Anti-abduction and anti-deception children's self-protection Complete set of 6 volumes ¥68 Purchase
There are no good people in this world for no reason, we must be wary of all those close to us, especially when chatting about children, never disclose birthdays, favorites, children's ages, nicknames, etc., and never reveal too much information about children to strangers.
Children's safety is no trivial matter, parents must pay attention to it!
Author: Wait for the wind to come
A working mother of two children, holding a pen in her left hand and a baby in her right hand, she likes to read, write, and paint, and firmly believes that even if she lives in a chicken feather, she must have her own poetry and distance in her heart.
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