The story of life: Gan Ping

Gan Ping was born into a peasant family, she has three older brothers, she is the youngest child of her parents, and the only girl, her parents and brothers are spoiling her. Therefore, he developed Gan Ping's temperamental, narrow-minded, and calculating personality.

But Gan Ping is very good at living a life, never wastes, and is also very low-key. When Gan Ping was sixteen years old, she went to a fur factory set up by the brigade, learned to make leather mats, leather mattresses, and earned money to help her parents supplement the family.

Gan Ping worked in the factory, met several good sisters, went to work together, left work, went out to play, and spent a happy teenager' time.

Gan Ping, who is in her 20s, has dark skin, is medium-sized, has a bit of mystery in her eyes, and speaks very gently. According to people, Gan Ping married a young man named Sun Wu. Sun Wu was a carpenter, with an average appearance, a diligent and loyal, moralistic, and self-motivated person.

Sun Wu's family was very poor, and Gan Ping and Sun Wu had no house when they got married, so they rented two houses in the city facing north and south. The main house rent is expensive, the south room is cheap, and every winter, their house is very cold. Gan Ping is not afraid of hardship, washing clothes in the south room, sometimes even the feet are frozen, at that time Sun Wu did not work as a carpenter, Gan Ping had to live a life of careful calculation, the two people lived a life of poverty, after more than ten years, did not give birth to a child.

Sun Wu's brother is a master in the construction team in the city, know some leading figures, he found a little work for his younger brother Sun Wu to contract, Sun Wu is very good at contracting, slowly developed, with money, bought a house, but has not had children is the biggest problem.

Sun Wu felt in his heart that his wife had a problem, but he did not dislike her, the wife felt that it was her husband's problem, and both people were thinking in their hearts, no one said it, and no one wanted to go to the hospital for examination.

Later, they successively adopted a daughter and a son, Gan Ping alone with two children is a little difficult, so he took his mother to help watch the children, the mother Yang is a very capable woman, to Gan Ping a lot of help.

Sun Wu's career is getting bigger and bigger, and he already has some fame, helping to bring Gan Ping's brothers to prosperity.

Men have money, they have flowers outside, back home, sometimes Gan Ping complains a little, Sun Wu will give her some face to see, Gan Ping can't bear to swallow, she is sullen. Behind her husband's back, she went to the sisters to talk to her, and the sisters could only comfort her and give her a word of relief.

Gan Ping is also poor and accustomed, with money, but also as before, in addition to her reluctance to spend, even her husband's daily expenses she also has to manage, which makes her husband very disgusted.

Gan Ping's daughter Fangfang was admitted to a junior college, and after graduation, she worked in other places and found a partner, named Wei Wei, who was doing economic and trade work, and her family conditions were superior. Wei Wei is not only handsome, but also sensible and self-motivated, and Gan Ping and his wife are very satisfied. When the daughter got married, she married a luxury car.

Later, Fangfang became pregnant, and in order to take better care of her daughter, Gan Ping let her daughter return to her side, and Sun Wu bought a house for her daughter Fangfang locally.

Son-in-law Wei Wei works in other places, comes back to see every New Year's Festival, and sometimes returns to his parents' home for the New Year's Holiday. Gan Ping was not happy, she did not want her daughter and son-in-law not to come to her place in the New Year, Gan Ping felt that her family bought a house for her daughter and son-in-law and a car, they should come back for the New Year. After a long time, Fang Fang was also affected by this aspect, and she complained to her husband Wei Wei at every turn.

Fang Fang gave birth to a boy, just at home to watch the child, Wei Wei is still working outside, because Wei Wei is excellent in all aspects, there are girls chasing him. Wei Wei came home and was not as good as before for Fang Fang, Fang Fang also sensed that something was wrong, and the two little ones had a contradiction, and Fang Fang cried and told her parents about these things.

In order to keep his daughter's marriage, Sun Wu and his wife Gan Ping went to consult with his relatives, said a lot of good things bitterly, let Wei Wei quit his job, went to his own contracting unit as an assistant, first took Wei Wei into his own contracting industry, and when he was old in the future, he wanted Wei Wei to succeed him.

Wei Wei's parents thought about it, and in order to maintain their son's marriage, they agreed to let Wei Wei settle in Gan Ping's hometown. Wei Wei listened to his parents very much, so he quit his job and followed his father-in-law. Sun Wu valued this son-in-law and trusted him, so that he could do anything at ease. Wei Wei was very capable, quickly adapted to the work given to him by his father-in-law, and did a good job.

Sun Wu spent money to arrange his daughter to work at the Forestry Bureau, and the marriage between the two was stable. But every day together, there are inevitable bumps and bumps.

At another holiday, Fang Fang said to her husband, "I'll buy my mother a dress." ”

Wei Wei replied, "Buy it, buy one for my mother too." ”

Fang Fang listened, was silent for a moment, and said, "Forget it, my mother has a lot of clothes, and I don't want to buy them for my mother." ”

Wei Wei did not make a sound, after a few days, Fang Fang quietly bought and sent it to her mother, and told her mother what she said to Wei Wei, Gan Ping felt that her daughter was doing a very reasonable job, felt that her whole family was so good to her son-in-law, and her daughter bought something for herself, and he also had to carry his mother, thanks to her daughter's intelligence.

Once Fang Fang and Wei Wei quarreled, Fang Fang said: "This family is what my parents bought, your parents bought something, you have nothing, according to my family's conditions, go out and grab a random one is better than you." ”

These words made Wei Wei very sad, and he lay on the bed and cried all night. Fang Fang went to call Mom and Dad. Sun Wu did not blame his daughter Fangfang, but only persuaded Wei Wei. Gan Ping and his wife also said: "Under this condition in my family, it is very easy to find a good son-in-law. ”

Gan Ping's mother has been at her house for more than thirty years, and Gan Ping wants to go out to play, but she can't rest assured that her mother is alone at home, and her heart is a little annoyed with her mother. Sometimes, friends go to the house to sit and chat, and the mother in her 90s also likes to watch the liveliness, and Gan Ping said to her mother: "Mom, you go into your own house quickly, and our sisters will talk for a while." "The mother had to go back to the house alone.

The mother wanted to go back to her hometown for a few days, Gan Ping and her brothers discussed, wanted to let the mother go back to her brother's house for a few days, and give her brother some living expenses, the brother and sister-in-law said that she would not let the mother go back, saying that when the mother was young, she brought children to Gan Ping, did not bring them children, Gan Ping had no way, the mother did not realize her wish to return to her hometown until she died.

How much money Sun Wu had, Gan Ping was not very clear, Sun Wu in order to reassure Gan Ping, do not think wildly, saved her a million cards, handed them to Gan Ping's hands, let her as pocket money. Usually, she needs to buy something and give her money.

Later, Gan Ping's brother died, and her nephews and nieces all had their own homes, and Gan Ping was distressed about her sister-in-law, so she and Sun Wu took her sister-in-law to the city and rented a house for her sister-in-law to live in.

Sun Wu's nephew came to borrow money from him to marry his daughter-in-law, but Gan Ping was reluctant and always said how Sun Wu's nephew used to be. Sun Wu ignored her and lent it to his nephew. I don't know how much Gan Ping borrowed specifically, Gan Ping knew that he nominally came to borrow money, but in fact, he simply borrowed it and didn't pay it back, so angry that Gan Ping didn't close his eyes for several days and nights.

Gan Ping's son Liang Liang also grew up, graduated from college, and his father entrusted him with a relationship, arranging him to do some easy work in the county to run errands and go to the countryside, but such work also had to pass the examination before he could go to work. Liang Liang is not tall, looks very thin, does not love to study, does not seek progress, did not take the exam several times, Sun Wu was angry in front of many people, scolded his son fiercely, Liang Liang, who had not been wronged, ran home, lay down on the bed and cried to Gan Ping, saying that his father scolded him in front of so many people, he did not want to live.

Gan Ping looked at her son and felt pain, but in order to find a job for her son, she advised: "Liang Liang, your father is also for your own good, you don't work hard to pass the assessment, what if you don't have a job in the future?" No matter how rich we are, you must also work, otherwise you will not even be able to marry your daughter-in-law. Liang Liang listened to his mother's advice and finally passed the examination to have today's work.

Liang Liang met a girl named Lin Jing, a self-motivated girl who did not compare or love vanity, and worked as a secretary in the county party committee.

Gan Ping suspects that Lin Jing is a rural person with poor family conditions and does not want her son to be with Lin Jing. Liang Liang loves Lin Jing very much and says that she will not marry. Gan Ping had no choice but to agree to the marriage.

Lin Jing first lived with her in-laws and mother-in-law, she had a very good personality, she was not picky about anything, she was diligent and thrifty, and Gan Ping slowly fell in love with this daughter-in-law. Lin Jing is not a person with sharp teeth, and Gan Ping hopes that her daughter-in-law will call them father and mother diligently and will make her happy, but Lin Jing is not this character. Gan Ping sometimes sulks.

After Lin Jing gave birth to a child, she lived back in her own building, and did not often go to see them, Gan Ping thought of her grandson, she went to her son's house to see, and her daughter-in-law did not leave her to eat.

Lin Jing is the same in the unit, not accustomed to people's intrigue, will not bend the leader, and does not want to continue to work in the county party committee. Sun Wu wanted to entrust the relationship to find a satisfactory job for his daughter-in-law, and Lin Jing did not want to rely on the relationship to find a job, and by her own efforts, she was admitted to the people's teacher.

Liang Liang, on the contrary, was tired of going to the countryside, and said to his mother that he did not want to do this job, Gan Ping understood Liang Liang's ability and said to him: "It was not easy for your father to find you this job at the beginning. If you don't go to work, what can you do? Although we are not short of money, you can't sit on the mountain and eat the sky, people always have to do something. Liang Liang was speechless.

Gan Ping had a sister named Feng Xia who married her daughter-in-law and borrowed 20,000 yuan from Gan Ping, and two years later, Feng Xia and her husband went to Gan Ping's house together and repaid Gan Ping 10,000 yuan. Gan Ping pondered in her heart: Lend me 20,000 yuan, how can I pay back 10,000 yuan? Maybe pay me back in installments, I don't have the embarrassment to ask. After a few months, Gan Ping chatted with another sister named Mei, talked about Fengxia, and Meili said that Fengxia was really capable, and in a few years, she paid back all the money borrowed by her son and daughter-in-law. When Gan Ping heard this, she was anxious in her heart, so she said, "She still owes me ten thousand yuan, how can she pay it off?" Gan Ping lost sleep again.

One day, Meimei and Fengxia chatted and tentatively asked Fengxia, "Have you paid off all the money you borrowed from your daughter-in-law?" Feng Xia said, "Well, there are only a few relatives left." Beauty said, "The last time I heard Gan Ping say that you still owe her ten thousand yuan and have not paid it back." Feng Xia listened, and was also anxious, so she said to Meimei: "I finished the wedding banquet for my son, and there was ten thousand yuan left, and on the same day, I went to Ganping with the child and his father to pay her back ten thousand yuan, I remember it clearly." ”

Feng Xia returned home, tossing and turning, and did not sleep all night, and decided to talk to Gan Ping well. That day, Feng Xia and her husband went to Gan Ping's house together, and explained the matter of repaying the money to Gan Ping, and Gan Ping said: "No matter who borrows or repays the money, I write it down in a book, I don't remember it in this book?" No matter how Feng Xia explained, Gan Ping always remembered that she had only repaid more than 10,000 yuan, and Gan Ping's husband Sun Wu said on the side: "In fact, 10,000 yuan is nothing, that is, Gan Ping can't sleep at night." ”

Feng Xia couldn't say anything more, and people said that they couldn't do anything about it? The old couple got up to say goodbye, returned home, and did not close their eyes for a few days, ten thousand yuan is difficult for them to save. Feng Xia thought that she could only blame herself for not having the ability, and if she didn't borrow money in the first place, she wouldn't have these things today. People were kind enough to lend me money, and then the family couldn't sleep for this matter, and besides, if Gan Ping was angry about this matter, I would become a sinner. After a few days, FengXia went to Gan Ping's house to pay back ten thousand, and a stone in Gan Ping's heart finally fell to the ground, and she could sleep steadily.

Gan Ping's son and daughter-in-law never paid any attention to them, only the son-in-law would occasionally call to greet them, Gan Ping was a little sad in her heart, the children were really ignorant. Now Gan Ping is almost 70 years old, often traveling with friends and enjoying her old age.