Speaking of Gan Ping, this name may be unfamiliar to many people.
But Gan Ping in the 90s was a singer like Yang Yuying and Mao Ning.
In 1994, he won the "Youth Song Competition" award with a song "Three Monks", and after that, he often performed music abroad.
If nothing else, her musical attainments will be high.
But soon after, Gan Ping met a man named Li Bing.
Li Bing, if you like football will know the name, once served on the national football team, retired as a football coach.
The two people who could not hit the eight rods originally had an intersection because of a shooting advertisement.
Since then, Li Bing has pursued Gan Ping fiercely.
And for the sake of fame, she never dared to reply positively.
In 2004, Li Bing and Gan Ping were suddenly exposed to live together, causing countless people to discuss hotly.
In everyone's eyes, Li Bing is a man who has been married for many years, while Gan Ping is a single actress.
In doing so, she undoubtedly interfered in someone else's marriage.
In fact, what the outside world does not know is that Li Bing has been divorced for many years and has not been married for a long time.
Gan Ping held several press conferences in a row, but no matter how she explained, she was greeted only by rotten vegetable leaves and blades.
A sentence from a fan: "Stink without face", let Gan Ping want to cry without tears.
The new marriage was originally happy and sweet, but Gan Ping spent every day in depression.
Later, Li Bing and Gan Ping could only "go away to avoid the front".
18 years have passed in the blink of an eye, and Gan Ping, who gave up her career for love, now regrets it?
This time, let's talk about their stories.
01, Gan Ping, who does not love singing and sports
In 1970, Gan Ping was born into an ordinary family in Hunan.
Both parents were literati, loved to write, and loved to read.
But only Gan Ping was different, her parents taught her to write and read, but she ran outside to play football in the blink of an eye.
When her parents saw that she had a boyish personality, she had a headache.
"How can this kid like to play football?"?
"Girls are too lively, and it will be difficult to find in-laws in the future."
The parents decided to take their daughter to learn table tennis for the long term.
My father decided that playing table tennis was more elegant than playing football.
When she grew up, Gan Ping was not satisfied with exercising at home.
She told her parents that she was going to go to sports school.
The parents saw that the child had been begging, so they had to send her to the sports school.
There are many sports in the sports school, and Gan Ping's favorite is swimming.
She felt like a fish in the water.
In order to be better than others, Gan Ping exercised more time every day.
Often the coaches all went home to eat, and she was still swimming in the water.
The hard-working Gan Ping is highly valued by the coach, but unfortunately her body cannot keep up with the rhythm.
One day, when Gan Ping was swimming, she suddenly felt weak.
Her parents immediately took her to the hospital for examination, but the doctor told her that she could no longer exercise.
Gan Ping's body was very weak and could not undergo high-intensity training.
If you continue like this, you will be worried about your life.
After her parents listened, they rushed to take her from the sports school to the ordinary school.
When Gan Ping left the sports school, her face was full of reluctance.
During that time, she suddenly became quiet.
The neighbor's child told her to go out and play, and she didn't go out.
When her mother saw her like this, she was very worried.
"Is this kid still worried about sports school"?
Father carefully enlightened Gan Ping, but the things he loved in his bones could not be done at once, and it was impossible to be good at once.
Soon, Gan Ping's fate was changed.
At a school party, the teacher looked at Gan Ping sullenly and let her sing on stage in order to cheer her up.
Standing on the stage, Gan Ping was a little nervous at first, but soon calmed down.
After singing a song hard, the classmates in the audience would applaud her.
Gan Ping looked at the envious eyes of her classmates and decided to become a singer in the future.
With the accompaniment of music, Gan Ping gradually came out of disappointment.
In high school, Gan Ping was very blind and did not know what major she was studying.
Her parents thought she was singing very well, so it was better to study art.
The filial piety of Gan Ping, when she graduated, directly applied for the Art College.
Later, she was assigned to study at the Flower Drum Theater.
Soon, Gan Ping's musical talent was stimulated.
It is worth mentioning that Gan Ping can become popular and cannot be separated from the help of a noble person.
This nobleman is the songwriter Chen Xiaoqi.
When it comes to this person, everyone is not familiar with it.
But when it comes to the songs he composed, every capital is familiar at that time.
Songs such as "The Sound of the Waves Is Still There", "Plateau Red", "Fireworks in March" and other songs are still popular.
In 1992, after hearing Gan Ping's singing, Chen Xiaoqi decided to tailor an album for her.
Later, the album "Big Brother, How Are You" came out.
Gan Ping also became popular because she sang the first song in it.
As we all know, Mao Ning sang the most famous song is "Tao Sheng Still".
In fact, the original singer of "The Sound of the Waves" is Gan Ping.
Later, Mao Ning liked this song very much and sang it once in the spring evening.
Who knows, Gan Ping did not sing the song of red, Mao Ning sang red.
Gan Ping began working in the Huagu Drama Theater, and later transferred to the Guangzhou Song and Dance Troupe.
Guangzhou Song and Dance Troupe has frequent foreign exchanges, and Gan Ping has also followed the team to perform in Hong Kong and many places abroad.
At that time, Gan Ping was proud of the spring breeze of her career.
Together with Yang Yuying, Li Chunbo, Mao Ning and others, they are known as the "94 new generation singers".
Gan Ping, who became a popular singer, was full of schedules every day.
Her business is no longer just singing.
She is involved in filming, taking over business performances, and shooting advertisements.
In 1995, a cola company in China wanted to shoot a well-known advertisement.
Among the many stars, Coke Company chose the red-hot Gan Ping and the well-known Li Bing.
At that time, Gan Ping had only heard of Li Bing's name, but had never seen a real person.
When they first met, Li Bing did not leave a very good impression on her.
At this time, Gan Ping did not know that she would have a relationship with Li Bing in this life.
02, deeply involved in scandal, get married and go abroad
The first time Li Bing saw Gan Ping, he was a little confused.
He did not expect Gan Ping to be so short, the two shot advertisements together, and were always scolded by the director.
The director let the two look at each other like lovers in order to shoot a meaningful picture.
But Li Bing was half a head taller than Gan Ping, and the two wanted to be parallel, so they could only grievance Li Bing and half squat.
Gan Ping felt very embarrassed, but fortunately, Li Bing had always been very warm-hearted and advised her not to mind.
In the end, the director really couldn't watch it, so he let people move a wooden box.
Gan Ping stood on the wooden box and completed the shooting.
When saying goodbye, Gan Ping left a signed photo of herself.
She told Li Bing that she had loved sports since she was a child, and she was very happy to be able to shoot advertisements with him.
Li Bing held Gan Ping's signed photo in his hand, thoughtful.
Gan Ping thought that after this hasty goodbye, there would be no chance to meet again.
Unexpectedly, in just one year, she would meet Li Bing again.
Gan Ping was heavily respected by the leadership and was sent to Sichuan for exchange performances.
She was on a plane to Chengdu and saw that the people next to her had familiar faces.
At first, the other party was wearing sunglasses, and she did not dare to speak, for fear of embarrassing to recognize the wrong person.
After Li Bing stood up to get the water, Gan Ping found that this person was really Li Bing.
"Hi". Li Bing was holding a cup of water in his hand when he suddenly heard a crisp voice.
He looked down and it was Gan Ping.
The two chatted on the plane, and Gan Ping asked him if he was going to Chengdu to participate in the competition.
Li Bing stuttered a little and replied vaguely: "No, I am, my home is in Chengdu."
Gan Ping nodded and continued to talk about other topics.
When he was about to get off the plane, Li Bing learned that Gan Ping had come to Chengdu at this time not only for a performance, but also to visit a child.
It turned out that many years ago, Gan Ping saw a poor child who was very pitiful, so he privately accepted her as a righteous daughter.
Every month, she would send a sum of money to the small family for the children's reading.
Gan Ping knew that Li Bing was a husband with a wife.
During his time in Chengdu, Li Bing invited Gan Ping to go out to watch the ball game many times.
Gan Ping originally wanted to refuse, but she really liked to watch the ball game, so she agreed to come down.
The relationship between the two progressed from strangers to ordinary friends.
However, every time Gan Ping and Li Bing watched the ball game, they were very careful.
She would wrap herself tightly for fear of being seen.
In fact, she is not afraid of being recognized by others, but she is afraid that there will be media propaganda.
In 2002, Li Bing invited Gan Ping to watch his own game, but Gan Ping refused for the first time.
She said: "I didn't go, I went to be photographed, and it didn't affect us well."
But Li Bing said, "Isn't it true that invitations between friends are not good?"
Gan Ping thought about it and took several friends to Li Bing's soccer field.
Li Bing saw her friend, smiled awkwardly, and thought about the "world of two" into a "friend party".
Later, Li Bing told Gan Ping that he was divorced and he wanted to marry her home.
The moment Gan Ping saw the divorce certificate, she was instantly moved, who would reject a tall and handsome man?
Li Bing's pursuit path is very smooth.
In fact, it was because Gan Ping had always loved him silently, before because he was married and did not dare to get too close to him.
After learning that he was divorced, Gan Ping had nothing to be afraid of.
But she still ignored it, she knew that Li Bing was divorced, but the outside world did not know.
The moment she appeared in the light and Li Bing, she was destined to be spurned.
Because, no one can tolerate the singer they like, is a "third party".
In 2003, Li Bing accompanied Gan Ping on his way to Chengdu to visit poor children and was recognized.
Soon after, the news of the two living together was exposed.
For a time, Gan Ping and Li Bing were pushed to the cusp of the storm.
In fact, the two have helped each other in their careers.
For example, most of the activities that Gan Ping went to participate in appeared at the same time as Li Bing.
When Li Bing is doing business, Gan Ping will also bring her colleagues to support.
Before, everyone didn't know about the relationship between the two, so they didn't dig deeper.
However, I don't know when the feelings of Li Bing and Gan Ping became more and more outrageous.
Some people pointed out that it was because of Gan Ping's appearance that Li Bing divorced his original wife.
Someone else came up with ironclad evidence that the two had known each other 7 years earlier.
At that time, Li Bing and his wife were still living in Chengdu.
As soon as the love was exposed, Gan Ping's life had no privacy at all.
In order to explain the misunderstanding, Gan Ping had to hold a press conference.
But no matter how many press conferences she held, everyone thought that she was a third party.
Li Bing resisted everyone's opposition and still married Gan Ping home.
In 2004, the first year of Gan Ping and Li Bing's marriage, they were greeted not by blessings, but by countless insults.
As long as Gan Ping went out, someone would throw dirty water and throw blades at her.
In the face of everyone's resistance, Gan Ping was afraid that her life was in danger, and she did not even dare to take a step out of the door.
But everyone still did not want to let her go, and at night, someone smashed the glass of the house with a stone.
Seeing that his wife was depressed at home every day, Li Bing was fierce and proposed to stay away from his homeland and live abroad.
"Mom told you not to marry Li Bing, you have to marry him, now it's good, you can't even live at home."
The biological mother heard that her daughter was going abroad because she was married to Li Bing, and her heart ached.
Her face was full of complaints, and she felt that this son-in-law could not be wanted.
Gan Ping lowered her head and swallowed all the bitter water.
When she looked up, she smiled and said, "Mom, I chose all this willingly, and no one forced me."
Giving up a career for love is not a wise choice, but she wants to take a risk.
If she wins, her future will be very happy.
After losing, she came back to work hard again.
If Li Bing knew what she was thinking, he would definitely laugh at her: "You have abandoned your career, how can I abandon you?"
03, 18 years of happy marriage
In 2004, less than half a year after arriving in the UK, my daughter was born.
For this little daughter, Li Bing is very fond of her heart.
"Baby, let Daddy kiss one".
Li Bing lifted the child high and pressed his forehead against the child's stomach.
After Gan Ping, who went downstairs to get warm milk, saw it, she was frightened and rushed to catch the child.
"What do you do, the child can't hold so high."
She took the baby and gently shook it.
The child was amused and laughed happily.
Although the three-month-old child cannot see his parents clearly, the child can feel the strong love of his parents.
Li Bing then remembered that the child was only three months old and could not be frightened.
"I was wrong, don't get angry".
Seeing that his wife did not give him a good face, Li Bing immediately admitted his mistake, like a child.
Since the birth of the child, Gan Ping has rarely gone out, and she takes the child at home almost every day.
Occasionally, in-laws and biological parents come to the UK to see their children.
But most of the time, it was Gan Ping who took care of the children alone.
Later, after the child was older, Gan Ping had a hard time taking care of her alone.
Li Bing then invited a Chinese nanny back to help with the children.
After Li Zixuan went to kindergarten, Gan Ping, who was idle, sang at home all day.
But she still felt that such a life was boring.
Gradually, she began to think back to the joy she had had when she used to work.
After Li Bing knew, he persuaded her to come back and step back on the stage.
But Gan Ping knew that she had been deeply involved in a scandal, and it was difficult to regain her popularity when she stepped onto the stage again.
In fact, she saw that Yang Yuying, Mao Ning and other people who had sung on the same stage were lonely, and some of them had palpitations.
She is afraid that when she returns to China to develop, she will once again be involved in the past.
After deliberation, the two decided to settle in England, but occasionally returned to China to visit their parents.
After returning to China, Gan Ping was still singing, but she was completely different from before.
She used to sing to make money, but now she does it to help more poor children.
By doing public welfare, Gan Ping's reputation is getting better and better.
She had the opportunity to hold a concert again, but after thinking about it again, for the sake of her family, she chose to be patient.
Li Zixuan grew up, she lived in school and rarely came home.
Li Bing did not have to go home every day to take care of his daughter, so he followed his wife back to Work in China.
Li Bing, who had re-embarked on his homeland, felt a thousand emotions in his heart.
He became the coach of the Chengdu football team and returned to his old profession.
In 2022, Gan Ping and Li Bing have been married for 18 years, and they have become more mature from their original youthful madness.
But the only constant is that the love of the two for each other is still deep.
Epilogue:
Since 2016, Gan Ping has rarely appeared in everyone's field of vision.
Did she live abroad?
In fact, since Gan Ping returned to China that year, she has been living in Sichuan with Li Bing.
The two now live a true "world of two".
Children are studying outside the home and do not live with them.
The in-laws like to live alone, and their biological parents are also in their hometown in Hunan.
Gan Ping, 52 years old, experienced the peak of her career and also fell into a trough.
However, she did not regret her actions.
There are gains and losses in life, she has lost her career, but she also exchanged her love for a happy and happy family.
Rather than struggling alone, Gan Ping would rather live an ordinary and happy life.