"Oh, big brother big brother big brother how are you?" Years later, is there a home you don't want to leave?"
In the 1990s, Gan Ping's "Big Brother, How Are You" became popular all over the country, and countless people were touched by the melody and lyrics of this song.
Later, she sang many classic songs, such as "A True Story", "Girl in the Army" and other songs, which also made her stand firm in the Chinese music scene.
She also met her "big brother" Li Bing in her love life, and the two married in 2004.
But what is surprising is that after Gan Ping got married, she suddenly disappeared from the public's vision.
Marriage itself is a sweet and happy thing, but why did Gan Ping disappear after marrying Li Bing? What is the story behind their marriage?
01
In 1970, Gan Ping was born in Xiangyin, Hunan Province, and her childhood can be said to have nothing to do with singing.
Although Gan Ping looks quiet in appearance, she is very passionate about sports activities, and she entered the Hunan Sports School from the age of seven to carry out professional swimming training.
When she was in junior high school, she began to practice gymnastics for a long time, which also laid a good foundation for her beautiful body.
Gan Ping's father also loves sports, he often takes Gan Ping to play table tennis, her father plays football very well, and the father and daughter often go to watch football games.
Perhaps it is fate at work, and Gan Ping's life after that can be said to be an indissoluble relationship with football.
Gan Ping's physique at that time was not very good, often could not keep up with the training in the team, in order to maintain health, she could only say goodbye to professional sports.
The so-called style does not separate the family, the road of sports does not work, just be a literary girl.
Gan Ping, who left the sports circle, was admitted to the Hunan Provincial Art School, and her sports career as a child brought Gan Ping a good figure and good strength.
In those years, even if Gan Ping did not wear makeup, she was very temperamental, walking on campus, there would always be a lot of suitors, and there were often little boys "blocking" her at the door of the class.
Maybe she loved sports before, so her lung capacity is also relatively large, she is very confident when singing a lot of songs, and the effect of singing is better than others.
After graduating from art school, Gan Ping entered the Hunan Provincial Flower Drum Drama Theater and began her career as a singer.
Although her singing career is not the peak of her debut, as soon as Gan Ping appeared, she surprised many people with her own strength.
Since 1991, Gan Ping has emerged in various singer competitions, winning the runner-up of the "KENT" Song Contest in Guangzhou, the "Most Promising Female Singer" in Guangdong Province and other awards.
The song she sang, "Big Brother, How Are You", was sung in the streets and alleys everywhere, and Gan Ping's name was remembered by more people.
Later, she was transferred to the Guangzhou Military Region Song and Dance Troupe, became a military singer, and followed the song troupe to visit Hong Kong many times to sing songs.
In 1996, Gan Ping won the title of "National Top Ten Singers" and won the silver medal of the CCTV Military Song Grand Prix for her song "Girl in the Army".
In those years, Gan Ping's career can be described as day in the day, and she often represented the country to visit foreign countries for cultural exchange performances.
For a time, she became a hot female singer in the nineties, and various commercial performances and advertisements also flocked to her.
During an advertising shoot, Gan Ping and football player Li Bing met, and Gan Ping did not know him at that time, but the tall and strong boy in front of her left a deep impression on her.
During the filming process, due to the difference in height between the two people, a lot of interesting things happened.
Li Bing's figure is tall, Gan Ping looks much petite as she stands on the side, and in the shot, the faces of the two people are always not on the same level.
At that time, Gan Ping was still a little angry, and she thought to herself: "Isn't the director embarrassed?" Find me someone so tall to shoot ads with. ”
At that time, Li Bing was also very warm, always bending over to cooperate with the shooting, but the director was not satisfied with the shooting effect.
Gan Ping saw Li Bing's heart-warming behavior, and the anger in her heart was also reduced a lot, and she let people move two wooden boxes to step on their feet before the shooting was completed.
After the work was over, Gan Ping learned that the person in front of her was Li Bing, the Chinese footballer of the year.
She thought that the two would not intersect after that, so there was not much communication, and she left after work.
But fate is like this, the emergence of Li Bing, so that Gan Ping and football continue to the frontier.
02
Shooting commercials was part of Gan Ping's job, and she didn't pay attention to her cooperation with Li Bing because her singing career was too busy in those years.
In addition to following the troupe to participate in performances in various places, Gan Ping is also constantly participating in various singing competitions and participating in public welfare performances.
In 1997, she won the bronze medal of the CCTV MTV Grand Prix for her song "A True Story", and her reputation in the Chinese music scene is also getting louder and louder.
On a flight to Chengdu, Gan Ping found that the people in the seat next to her were very familiar, and she took a closer look at Li Bing, who had filmed an advertisement together a year ago.
Gan Ping said: "Is it so coincidental that I actually met you on the plane, are you going to Chengdu to compete?" ”
Li Bing looked back at Gan Ping and said with a smile: "Ah, no, my home is in Chengdu." ”
Li Bing stuttered a little, because he had known Gan Ping for a long time, he had known him before shooting advertisements, and he often listened to "Big Brother, How Are You", so it was still a little nervous to meet again.
The two talked for a long time during the boring journey, plus there had been cooperation before, so the two were familiar with each other a lot.
Li Bing thought that Gan Ping asked Chengdu to participate in the event, but Gan Ping said: "I went to visit a child I adopted, her parents are not in good health, and I have been helping her to go to school and live." ”
Li Bing looked at Gan Ping in front of him and thought, "Not only does she sing well, but she is also kind and loving, no wonder she can be famous." ”
The exchange between Gan Ping and Li Bing was not in-depth, because she felt that the relationship between the two was not very familiar, so there was no discussion about some topics such as family and feelings.
Gan Ping often played football with her father when she was a child, plus she loved to watch games, and later entered the star football team after becoming famous, so she and Li Bing talked a lot about football.
Later, we met again, and it was because of football that Gan Ping participated in several star football team activities and met Li Bing several times.
The relationship between the two has also gotten better and better, and Li Bing often invites Gan Ping to watch a ball game, but each time Gan Ping will bring one or two friends.
She was not afraid of what Li Bing would do, but she was just worried about being hyped up by the media.
In 2002, Li Bing went to the game with Gan Ping as usual, and after the game, Li Bing said that they would go to dinner together, but Gan Ping's friends could not go because of something.
Gan Ping was also reluctant to go to dinner alone with Li Bing, because after all, the two were public figures, and getting together alone would cause unnecessary trouble, so she rejected Li Bing.
But Li Bing said: "As friends, can't we even eat a meal?" ”
Gan Ping quickly explained, "No, Li Bing, I am afraid of causing some unnecessary misunderstandings, after all, the impact on us is not good." ”
Li Bing listened with an apologetic face: "I'm sorry Gan Ping, I didn't think about this." ”
At that time, Li Bing had already retired from the national team, but he ignored Gan Ping's identity, so he did not ask to eat alone together later.
But at a later gathering, what Li Bing said almost made Gan Ping get farther and farther away from her.
At a later gathering, Li Bing told Gan Ping about his love life.
Li Bing and the flight attendant's wife had divorced at that time, the two had a son, after the divorce, the son lived with his wife, Li Bing also gave the house to his ex-wife.
Gan Ping thought that Li Bing's life was very happy, but she did not expect that he was divorced.
Li Bing told Gan Ping about the pain in his heart, he said: "She and I have long had problems, we are often busy with work and not at home, and we always get together less and leave more in life. ”
The long-term separation of the two places made the feelings between Li Bing and his wife more and more weak, and eventually the marriage broke down.
At that time, Gan Ping had been comforting the sad Li Bing, but she did not know that in Li Bing's heart, the relationship between the two could develop to a higher level.
03
After Li Bing's divorce, Gan Ping can still keep a distance from her, she is afraid that being thought that it is because of herself that it will lead to the divorce between Li Bing and his wife.
Looking at Li Bing again, after the divorce, he approached Gan Ping more actively and frequently, because after the two met, he always appreciated Gan Ping's talent.
In order to pursue Gan Ping, Li Bing often called her, although sometimes asking her out would be rejected, but Li Bing never wanted to give up.
Li Bing sometimes accompanies Gan Ping to Chengdu to visit her adopted children, and his relationship with Gan Ping is also heating up in the interaction.
Gan Ping also rejected Li Bing's love several times, she was not unloving, but she did not dare to love because she was afraid of rumors.
Many people will wonder, if two people love each other, why does Gan Ping dare not be with Li Bing?
Anyway, one of them is a celebrity in the music world, one is a figure in the sports world, and Li Bing has just divorced, if the love affair between the two is exposed at this time, I am afraid that it will cause a lot of trouble.
But Li Bing's attitude towards Gan Ping has never changed, and in order to be closer to her, Li Bing also started a sporting goods business in Beijing after retiring.
Under the constant care and indoctrination of Li Bing, Gan Ping agreed to his pursuit.
However, out of her inner considerations, Gan Ping will keep a distance from Li Bing in public, and the secret of their relationship is well kept.
She and Li Bing also agreed that we can be very sweet in life, but on the outside, don't expose our relationship too early.
The two also support each other in their careers, no matter where Gan Ping participates in the event, Li Bing "secretly" supports her behind her back.
And Gan Ping has given great help to Li Bing's business, sponsoring and endorsing many of his supplies, and his business is becoming more and more prosperous.
It wasn't until 2004, when the two attended a business event together, that the relationship was exposed.
But the more you are afraid of something, life will give you something, and as soon as the romance is exposed, Gan Ping's life is completely plunged into darkness!
Media reports that celebrities are in love is normal, but many media have added fuel to her relationship with Li Bing, saying that it is precisely because of Gan Ping's intervention that Li Bing's divorce has been led to.
Even many fans have been distracted, and they have accused Gan Ping of being immoral and sabotaging other people's marriages.
For a time, Gan Ping fell into gossip, and she constantly explained her feelings with Li Bing to the outside world, but it did not play any role at all.
At that time, No matter where Gan Ping performed, the most asked questions was: "Did you sabotage Li Bing's marriage?" ”
Gan Ping can't finish singing on stage, and her brain has been occupied by outside news.
She could no longer bear the huge pressure, and Gan Ping proposed to Li Bing to break up, although Li Bing was very reluctant, he did not want to see Gan Ping living in pain.
But how can two people who really love each other easily give up on each other.
04
After the two broke up, Gan Ping still had a hard time getting out of the shadow of life, because those rumors did not disappear with their breakup.
And Li Bing has no intention of taking care of business, every day is to borrow wine to dispel his sorrows, and his heart has always been worried about his beloved Gan Ping.
Until one day, Li Bing found Gan Ping, he put Gan Ping in his arms and said: "Let's get married, as long as we love each other, we don't care about everything they say." ”
Li Bing's solid chest gave Gan Ping a great sense of security, and she felt that as long as Li Bing was there, the ups and downs of life were nothing.
So, in 2004, the two entered the wedding hall in a low-key manner.
But soon the media knew the news of their marriage, and for a time, they became the most important people on the cusp.
There was a "in-depth" report on their marriage, and the media outlet said it was told by a close friend of Li Bing's.
The article is written that Gan Ping and Li Bing met in 1994, Li Bing was the assistant coach of the state at that time, the two of them secretly dated, and Gan Ping asked Li Bing to divorce and then the two got married...
You know, at that time, Li Bing was not an assistant coach of the national team at all, let alone she and Gan Ping secretly dated, all of which were illusory things.
The marriage of the two was made into Gan Ping's "forced marriage" by this report, and Li Bing also generously admitted: "The marriage between the two was proposed by him, and there is no such thing as Gan Ping's forced marriage." ”
Gan Ping originally wanted to use the weapon of law to punish these bad media, but she turned her head and thought: This may make the incident ferment more and more, and they will become the target of media speculation.
Therefore, she and Li Bing chose silence, trying to use time to dispel these rumors.
Gan Ping chose to focus her life on the family, and at the end of 2004, she gave birth to their daughter Li Zixuan, and after having children, Gan Ping rarely attended public occasions.
It was not until 2008 that her daughter grew up, and Gan Ping gradually returned to everyone's vision.
As before, she participated in many public welfare performances and still impressed fans with her beautiful singing voice.
Later, in addition to singing, Gan Ping also came into contact with the film and television industry, and she can be seen in films such as "Tongbai Hero" and "A Thought of Heaven".
In those years, Li Bing became the coach of Chengdu Sheffield United and led the team from the Chinese Football League to the Super League.
After retiring as an athlete, he took up the coaching whip and still contributed to the football career he loved.
In the past few years, Gan Ping has rarely appeared in our vision, and now she has a happy family, although it does not have the glory of that year, but her life is happy.
By this year, she and Li Bing had gone through 18 years of marriage hand in hand, and they had also become more mature from their infancy.
Their marriage from the original ups and downs, to the current peace and sweetness, the suffering and heartache experienced in it, to now have become the sweet witness of the two people!
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