Friends, when it comes to the best partners on the screen, there is none other than the "Shen Ma" combination --- Shen Teng and Ma Li.
No, they brought a new work in this summer---- "Catching Dolls".
Catching the doll, "catching" is the child's life!
The movie "Catching the Doll" was previously called "Succession Plan", and the name directly revealed the core content of the movie.
The story is a bit like the India movie "The Starting Line", which is about rich people pretending to be poor. But if you look closely, you'll see that it's more like the Chinese version of "Truman's World."
The couple in the movie, instead of pretending to be poor to cheat social resources, they deceived their children through a kind of "pain education", hoping to raise ideal children in this way.
However, the irony is that when Ma Jiye found out that something was wrong with the world, he could not resist like Truman, and rebelled to be controlled. He is faced with an even more terrifying "I am for your good" control.
For all staff and education experts, Ma Jiye is just a "plan", and they believe that their efforts are all for the "good" of Ma Jiye.
The crying poor education in the movie is really unnecessary in real life!
Crying poor can be an escapist approach to education that avoids discussing the real problems of family finances without educating children on how to properly understand and manage money.
The child's mental development is not yet mature, and the understanding of the concept of money is limited. Crying poor in front of children may cause them to bear the financial pressure of their families prematurely, which can have a negative impact on their psychological development and character formation.
In addition, children need a stable environment for growth. Hearing parents cry about poverty can lead to a strong sense of insecurity and fear that their basic needs will not be met.
In addition, parents often crying about poverty may implant wrong values in their children's minds, such as over-valuing money and material things, or conversely developing a sense of fear and avoidance of money.
At the same time, parents' crying behavior may be accompanied by negative emotional expression, which will directly affect children's emotional state, increase their anxiety and stress, and is not conducive to the cultivation of healthy emotions.
If parents cry poor and at the same time unconditionally meet all the requirements of their children, it may cultivate children's dependence on money and lack of self-reliance and motivation to work hard.
Therefore, it is an important responsibility of every parent to create a positive and stable family environment and help children establish a correct outlook on money and life through education and guidance.
However, everything is for the good of the child?
But in the movie, adults keep saying that they are good for children, but in essence, is it really for the good of children?
The terrible thing about Chinese education is that children become experiments for their parents, who shape their children according to their own ideas, like pinching plasticine.
What is even more tragic is that when children want to break free and cut off the hands that control their own destiny, they will find that those who control them are also out of love.
Children feel helpless in the struggle, and the parent-child relationship is like a hedgehog that warms each other in winter.
"For the good of children", we are familiar with this sentence, just like the mothers in Haidian District, in order to let their children win at the starting line, they can give up their jobs without hesitation.
Parents use their own experience and life wisdom to plan a seemingly beautiful path for their children, but they often ignore their children's own ideas.
It seems that as long as the child's ideas are inconsistent with the parents, adults will habitually think that the child is still young and ignorant.
But if you think about it carefully, we can't say that those parents who "want their son to become a dragon" must be wrong.
Parents just hope to use their own experience to reduce the cost and opportunity of trial and error for their children on the road in the future, which is indeed a broad road from a secular point of view.
And in this movie, I personally think that the funniest and most cruel plot appeared at my grandmother's funeral.
When Ma Jiye accidentally found out that his grandmother could still play basketball, and the matter was revealed, what should he do? Ma Chenggang had no choice but to let his grandmother "die" on the spot. But in order to do the trick enough, Ma Jiye had to say goodbye to his grandmother at the funeral.
As a result, the living Mr. Li had to play the dead grandmother again, but when he heard Ma Jiye's sincere condolences, Mr. Li was so moved that he couldn't help but "resurrect".
To be honest, no one can laugh just by looking at the text description, because the plot is so cruel.
Lao Ma made a joke about his son's family affection, turning what should have been a serious family affection into a part of the deception, making the originally sacred family affection seem meaningless.
In this educational experiment, grandma is actually an education expert, and the corpse can be "resurrected" at any time.
For the audience, this dramatic conflict is indeed funny, because the audience knows that it is all fake, but Ma Jiye does not know.
At the end of the day, it's much easier to watch a joke than to sympathize, most people are actually much more cruel than they think they are, and we're not as noble, so it's easier to laugh out.
"For your own good", it's really unnecessary!
Therefore, for parents, the education of suffering seems to be about cultivating good habits, but in fact it hides the selfishness of establishing authority and cultivating obedient children.
Sadly, however, these parents also came through the misery of education, and fate formed a closed loop at this moment, and this educational philosophy was passed down from generation to generation, and each generation was a victim.
So at the end of the movie, we see that Ma Jiye still has to pick up bottles even after running a marathon.
This may be the shadow of his childhood that he can't avoid, he will frantically pick up a water bottle when he sees it, and although his material life is very rich, he is still bound in his heart under his father's education.
Therefore, the movie "Catching the Doll" is not just a comedy, but more like a dark fairy tale.
Ambiguous expressions can also be gentle strangulation.
It is precisely because of this movie that we realize that this vicious circle should end in our generation.
Then again, so how much money does the Hermès Kelly orange pebbled pattern have?
(The picture in this article is from the movie stills)