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Behind the glamorous stage of the entertainment industry, every star has unknown bitterness and suffering, they may show a confident smile in the spotlight, but deep down, they may also hide unknown pain, singer Yu Wenwen talked about his original family in a show, and couldn't help but burst into tears, a sentence "I have exhausted my parents' fate, and I don't contact each other for 10 years and don't disturb each other", which has aroused widespread public attention and heated discussions
Yu Wenwen, this name may not be unfamiliar to many people, she became an instant hit with the theme song "Decent" in the movie "Ex 3: Goodbye Ex", and her affectionate singing and perception of love in the song also made her a dazzling new star in the Chinese music scene, and her musical success cannot hide the bitterness she experienced in family life
In the show, Yu Wenwen admitted frankly that she had experienced the pain of her parents' divorce since she was a child, she lived with her grandmother when she was young, lacking the companionship and love of her parents, this experience left an indelible mark on her young heart, and later, she followed her mother to live abroad, thinking that she could feel the long-lost maternal love, but she never thought that she would be greeted by a more indifferent reality, in a foreign country, she not only has to face language and cultural differences, but also have to bear the pressure of life alone
Recalling that difficult time, Yu Wenwen couldn't help choking, she said that in order to save money, she only ate a slice of pizza for a meal, and had to get up early to go to school every day
For her father, Yu Wenwen has almost no impression, the disconnection between father and daughter for more than ten years has made her full of strangeness and distance from her father's love, and for her mother, her emotions are also very complicated, although she is grateful for everything her mother has paid for her, but her relationship with her mother is more like a friend, lacking intimacy and dependence, this alienated parent-child relationship makes her always emotionally insecure and difficult to establish a real intimate relationship
Perhaps, in the depths of her heart, she also longs to have a warm and complete family, and can feel the unconditional love and support of her parents, but the reality is cruel, she can only accept it silently and work hard to heal the pain in her heart
With the acceleration of social rhythm and the increase of life pressure, more and more parents neglect the companionship and care of their children because of work, life and other reasons, and this lack of emotion often causes irreversible damage to children's mental health, and even affects their lives
The influence of the family of origin, like an invisible seed, will take root in the hearts of children, affecting their personalities, behavior patterns, and even their attitude towards feelings
We must also see that the influence of the family of origin is not unchangeable, although childhood experiences will have a profound impact on a person, but as we grow older and enrich our life experience, we can also change and heal ourselves through our own efforts
Just like Yu Wenwen, although she experienced the pain of her original family, she did not give up hope for life and love, she integrated her emotions into music creation, used singing to express her inner world, and also used her own experience to encourage those who are in trouble in life like her
Everyone has their own story, each family has its own way of getting along, we can't change the past, but we can choose how to face the future, for those who are experiencing the troubles of the original family, please don't give up hope, don't be afraid to ask for help, I believe that through your own efforts and the guidance of professionals, you will be able to get out of the haze and embrace a better future
For Yu Wenwen, she chooses to face her past with a frank attitude, and also welcomes the future with a positive attitude, believing that in the future, she can find her own happiness, and she can also use her musical talent to bring moving and strength to more people
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