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The three names of Yao Di, Article, and Ma Yili must be no stranger to followers in the entertainment industry. An extramarital affair and a scandal have affected the life trajectories of three people. Let's go back to the roots and see the causes and consequences of this "urban emotional drama".
It all started in 2011, when Yao Di and the article co-starred in the hit drama "The Age of Naked Marriage". With the popularity of the show, the two became an instant hit and their careers were thriving. It's a pity that the tacit understanding in the play seems to have continued outside the play, and Yao Di and this "married person" sparked a spark of love.
However, everything was not exposed until March 29, 2014, when a passerby met the two on the street and embraced intimately, and the photos of the scene were exposed on the Internet, which caused an uproar.
In the face of doubts, the article had to admit frankly that he had an improper relationship with Yao Di. And his wife Ma Yili claimed that "although it is easy to fall in love, it is not easy to get married", although the words are peaceful, but the helplessness and disappointment can be imagined.
As a "third party", Yao Di failed to show his humble and sincere side. On the contrary, she even openly claimed that "I, Yao Di, have not done anything that hurts nature and reason"! This shameless attitude is undoubtedly a blatant provocation to marriage and morality, and it soon aroused strong dissatisfaction and ridicule among netizens.
Since then, Yao Di has not only lost countless favorability, but her career has also plummeted, and in the following two years, she almost completely disappeared. Time flies, and it wasn't until 2018 that the name Yao Di reappeared in everyone's field of vision. It's just that her "achievement" this time is to marry Gao Jie, a wealthy businessman, and live the life of Mrs. Kuo.
However, the good times did not last long, and soon after marriage, Gao Jie was exposed to scandals about intimate photos with other women. Yao Di is about to repeat the mistakes of the article and become the second poor "Ma Yili". Despite this, Yao Di has not officially divorced Gao Jie until today, on the grounds that "if you want to live a decent life, you must have some green on your head". The experience of these years finally made her let go of her last reserve and pride.
Just when people almost thought that Yao Di's acting career had been completely ruined, a ray of light finally came. This year, after a 6-year hiatus, Yao Di was re-selected to play the heroine of the TV series "Cranberry Rose". As for whether Yao Di should be given a chance to start again, the reaction of netizens is not optimistic.
Some people questioned that her age did not match the role in the play, and some simply dismissed her as a "tainted artist" who should not appear on the screen at all. In the face of such a fierce public opinion attack, Yao Di was inevitably panicked. She reiterated many times that she had completely changed her mind, had a new life and a new relationship, and did not want to be bothered by the past again.
However, it will take time to completely win back the public's trust and favor with a person. It is still unknown whether Yao Bi can use the opportunity of "Cranberry Rose" to become popular again. Even if she really succeeds in returning to the top one day, the shadow of that extramarital affair will haunt her for a long time.
Looking back at the origin of this whole incident, in addition to Yao Di's moral flaws, the betrayal of the article's choice to derail should also be condemned. As a victim in marriage, Ma Yili is actually the most innocent and sympathetic one. It wasn't until many years later on September 23, 2019 that Ma Yili and the article officially divorced, and the two families were completely shattered.
It can be seen that a cheating choice can cause such huge harm and impact on the lives of many people. As Ma Yili said, "Although it is easy to fall in love, it is not easy to get married." The cornerstone of marriage is mutual trust, and once you betray each other, the cruel price will follow.
Only by cherishing the present happiness and treating marriage as carefully and attentively as life, can we avoid tragedy to the greatest extent. From this point of view, whether it is Yao Pen, the article or Ma Yili herself, everyone should have learned a painful lesson from this episode, and will not repeat the same mistakes in the future.
Of course, such a life drama is far more than that. The extension and influence of the incident are very huge, and there are still many places worthy of in-depth study and discussion.
For example, from the perspective of an artist, although Yao Bi, Wenwen and Ma Yili are all in different positions and situations, they have also suffered different degrees of harm and blows.
Although Yao Bi's attitude was arrogant and ignorant at the beginning of the incident, it was despicable, but the baptism of online public opinion she endured in the following six years was also quite cruel. It was precisely because of the heavy setback in her fame and popularity that forced her to put down her body and pursue an acting career again, perhaps this was a good opportunity for her life to be corrected.
As for the article, as a married person, it is reasonable that the extramarital affair should be severely condemned by society. He lost not only a happy marriage, but also the price of his former popularity and career. Since then, there is no character, and the future has been almost completely ruined, which is really a self-inflicted end.
As the biggest victim of the whole incident, Ma Yili's experience is obviously the most innocent and pitiful. Although in the end she mustered up the courage to divorce the article, a wonderful family was ruthlessly shattered, and the mental and psychological trauma to her was unimaginable.
But fortunately, she has the courage to find an outlet for life again from the haze and live her own independent and free style. In addition to the three people, the impact of this incident on the entertainment industry and the public is also huge. It has triggered people's reflection and discussion on a series of issues such as celebrity privacy, marriage and family, and ethics.
Many people question whether the debauchery of celebrities and artists is too casual or the public pressure is too much? The artist marriage trap that has caused so many people to repeatedly step into the "seven-year itch"? Obviously, there is inequality in the power relations between the two sides, and there is a need for correction and improvement from all walks of life.
Therefore, this incident is not only a major event of personal wealth and life, but also reflects many social status quo and potential problems. For example, the lack of moral education, the imperfection of marriage laws and regulations, the existence of unspoken rules in the entertainment industry, etc., are all worthy of our deep thought and reflection.
At present, the advent of the Internet age has also intensified the hype and circulation of entertainment news. Some so-called "big V" and "self-media" are keen to create topics, attract fans, and chase and beat relevant events and figures, wantonly chase or scold, which is completely an irrational and unprofessional attitude.
This not only deepens the public's misunderstanding and prejudice against the parties, but also causes great distress and harm to the lives of the parties themselves, and is also a stubborn disease that needs to be solved urgently in the current public opinion ecology.
Perhaps, as the saying goes: "The poor guard themselves, the rich guard the money, the rich guard the power, but the stars can't keep anything." Due to their special social status and professional nature, literary and artistic workers often face great challenges in terms of moral restraint and psychological endurance, which has almost become an unwritten rule.
Then, in the face of many temptations and pressures, how to maintain a clear mind and firm ethics has become a major life issue that celebrities must face and solve. Perhaps only by earnestly improving one's self-cultivation and realm, and truly establishing lofty ideals and beliefs, can we achieve steady progress and never give up on this thorny road.
The experiences of Yao Bi, Article and Ma Yili are a microcosm and footnote to the life path of celebrities, which is worthy of reference and vigilance by all insiders. If there is still a chance, I hope that all three of them can draw strength from the lessons of the past, start again with a positive attitude, and live a happy and beautiful life.
Finally, we also hope that through this incident, all sectors of society can take this as a warning and increase reform efforts in moral education, media supervision, legal improvement and other aspects, so as to create a more standardized, orderly, understanding and inclusive professional environment for celebrities, so that they will no longer be stuck in the quagmire in their careers and lives, so as to better give back and repay this society.